Kusilira ndi kuzizwa ndi chinthu chachikulu kuposa ife eni, timayandikira chikhalidwe chathu. Ofufuza anapeza zimenezi pofufuza mmene anthu amamvera pa zinthu zimene zimachititsa mantha.
Akatswiri a zamaganizo Tonglin Jiang wa ku yunivesite ya Peking (PRC) ndi Constantin Sedikides wa yunivesite ya Southampton (UK) akuphunzira momwe timakhudzidwira ndi mantha, mantha opatulika omwe timakhala nawo pamaso pa chinachake chomwe chimakulitsa kumvetsetsa kwathu dziko.
Pachifukwa ichi, Jiang ndi Sedikides, omwe nkhani yake mu Journal of Personality and Social Psychology: Interpersonal Relations and Group Processes, anachita maphunziro 14 okhudza odzipereka oposa 4400.
Kafukufuku wasonyeza kuti, kaŵirikaŵiri, chizoloŵezi cha munthu chochita mantha, monga kudabwa ndi zochitika za chilengedwe, chimagwirizana ndi kuchuluka kwa mmene amafunira kudzimvetsetsa ndi kumvetsetsa chimene iye alidi.
Kuonjezera apo, kumverera kwa ulemu pakokha kumapangitsa munthu kulingalira za chikhalidwe chake. Izi zinachitika, mwachitsanzo, pamene, mu kafukufuku wina, otenga nawo mbali adasonyezedwa zithunzi za Kuwala kwa Kumpoto ndipo adafunsidwa kukumbukira zochitika pamene adawona chinachake chachikulu chomwe chinawapangitsa kuti apite kupyola iwo eni ndikudzimva ngati mchenga wapakati pawo. chipululu.
Komanso, zochitika zoterezi, zomwe zimathandiza kuti muyandikire ku chikhalidwe chanu chenicheni ndikumvetsetsa kuti ndinu ndani, zimapangitsa munthu kukhala wabwino mu ndege yaumunthu - ali ndi chikondi chochulukirapo, chifundo, chiyamikiro kwa anansi ake, chikhumbo chofuna kusamalira iwo amachifuna, chokhazikitsidwa ndi akatswiri a zamaganizo.