Chibwenzi Pambuyo pa Chisudzulo: Malamulo 4

Pambuyo pothetsa chibwenzi ndi mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu, zimakhala zachilendo komanso zosokoneza kuyambanso chibwenzi. Ndipo malingaliro awo ndi osiyana kuposa asanakwatirane. Zikuwoneka kuti malamulo asintha ndipo muyenera kuyang'ana zovuta zatsopano, monga kudziwa bwino ntchito ngati Tinder ndi Bumble. Nawa maupangiri anayi okuthandizani kuti muzolowere zenizeni zatsopano, kubwereranso ku mzere wa ma bachelors ndikukwaniritsa theka lanu.

1. Onetsetsani kuti mukudzimva bwino.

Kusudzulana kumasiya mabala ndi zowawa. Pezani chithandizo chomwe chingakuthandizeni kupulumuka chisudzulo ndikuchiritsa mabala pambuyo pake. Kukhala pachibwenzi sikungakuthandizeni mpaka mutakhumudwitsidwa ndi kukwiyira mwamuna kapena mkazi mnzanu. Ndipo mungakhale pachiopsezo cha kuponda panjira imodzimodziyo ngati simupenda zolakwa zimene munapanga m’banja losapambana.

Musanayambe kucheza ndi ena, muyenera kuyambiranso. Zidzatenga nthawi kuti mudziwe kuti ndinu ndani. Ndinu yemwe inu muli, kaya ndinu okwatira kapena ayi. Ngakhale zomwe mudakumana nazo panthawi yachisudzulo zidakhudza momwe mudakhalira. Landirani chatsopano ndikuyesera kukonda. Palibe amene adzakukondeni ngati simudzikonda nokha.

2. Chitanipo kanthu

Ngati mwakonzekera misonkhano yatsopano, yambani kusuntha. Pitani kumalo omwe mungakumane. Lowani patsamba lazibwenzi kapena pulogalamu yam'manja ndikuyamba kukumana ndi anthu atsopano. Yesani china chatsopano, kujowina magulu osangalatsa ochezera, kapena pitani kutchalitchi china.

3. Khalani omasuka ku zinthu zatsopano

Munthu amene muli naye pachibwenzi pambuyo pa kusudzulana sayenera kukhala ngati mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu wakale. Ngati mwaitanidwa ndi munthu amene si wanu, vomerezani. Kukumana ndi anthu osiyanasiyana, mudzamvetsetsa mwachangu zomwe mukufuna kapena zomwe simukufuna kuziwona mwa bwenzi lanu lamtsogolo.

Panthawi yaukwati komanso chisudzulo, zikhalidwe zanu ndi zomwe mukufuna kuti mugwirizane nazo zitha kusintha. Mwina munayamba kuyamikira chinthu china chimene simunkachiona kukhala chofunika kwambiri. Tsiku lililonse limamanga chidaliro. Ngakhale mulibe kukumana wanu pa tsiku loyamba, mudzakhala zosiyanasiyana moyo wanu ndi kuphunzira chinachake chatsopano za nokha.

4. Osamalankhula za ex wanu

Yesetsani kulankhula za inu nokha ndikufunsani mnzanu watsopano za zomwe amakonda kuti muwone ngati muli ndi zofanana. Ngati chisudzulo chikutchulidwa, musalowe mwatsatanetsatane za ubale, kambiranani zomwe mudakumana nazo komanso momwe mudasinthira chifukwa cha izi.

Khazikani mtima pansi. Kupeza munthu womanga naye ubwenzi kungatenge nthawi. Yesetsani kusafanizira wakale wanu ndi munthu amene munayamba chibwenzi. Aliyense ali ndi mphamvu ndi zofooka zomwe zimakhudza maubwenzi.

Kukhala pachibwenzi ndi mwayi wokumana ndi anthu atsopano ndikuphunzira zambiri za inu nokha. M’kupita kwa nthawi, mudzakumana ndi munthu amene mukufuna kudzakhala naye limodzi, koma mudzakhala osangalala mukakumbukila cibwenzi pambuyo pa cisudzulo.