Kufuna kukhala ndi mwana: umboni wokhudza mtima wa amayi omwe akusowa mwana

” Pambuyo pake adachepetsa embryonic zaka 3 zapitazo, ndinali ndi chikhumbo champhamvu kwambiri chokhala ndi kachidutswa kena kakang'ono. Kaya anali mtsikana kapena mnyamata, zinalibe ntchito kwa ine. Bola ndili ndi mwana ameneyo yemwe ndimamufuna kuposa chilichonse. Ndimaganiziranso za izi ndipo ngakhale ndimasangalala kwambiri ndi mapasa anga, ndikufunikirabe wina kuti ndithandizire kutayika kwa maphwando ena awiri kuti agwirizane ndi angelo. Kumbali ya banja palibe amene akudziwa, kwa iwo, sindiyenera kukhala nacho chikhumbo ichi. Koma ndi wamphamvu kuposa ine, ndimathanso kudzipangitsa kuti ndichedwetse kusamba, kukhala ndi mimba yomwe imatupa ndikufuna kusanza pomwe ndikudziwa kuti sizingatheke chifukwa ndili ndi IUD. Sinditaya chiyembekezo kuti tsiku lina kamunthu kakang’ono kadzakhala mwa ine. ”

ndikuganiza

Joëlle Desjardins-Simon:Kuchepetsa embryonic sikukhala chinthu chaching'ono. Myle, mukuwoneka kuti muli ndi mlandu waukulu, osauza okondedwa anu za izo, kupanga zoyambira zongoganiza za mimba, ndikuyembekeza kuti malingaliro atsopano abwera kudzakonza chiwonongeko cha miluza yanu iwiri. Kodi mungachepetse bwanji mtolo wa liwongo kuti musapatsire mwana wanu wosabadwa?

"Nditapita padera 8 m'zaka 4, kuphatikizapo mapasa omwe ndinataya mluza wachiwiri masabata awiri pambuyo pa woyamba, ectopic pregnancy inapezeka mochedwa, motero kuchotsa chubu chowonongeka, magawo a misozi… Inde, kutengeka kunalipo. Mayeso ambiri, kuwerengera, kuchepa ... siyani, ndimasweka, ndimasiya mankhwala onse, ndikumwanso piritsi, sindimakhulupiriranso. Kunali kupititsa padera kumodzi kochulukira! Kotero kuyambiranso kwa mapiritsi okhazikika, osaiwala, panthawi yoikika, munali mu February 2011. Palibe mankhwala ena, magnesiamu yokha yokwera pamtunda. June 2011, mayeso a mimba omwe ndinasiya (ochuluka kwambiri adagula) mu pharmacy yanga, monga manyazi kuti nditayire, ndimachita. Ndidawerenganso "manual" katatu, ndidachita chidwi kwambiri kuti inali yabwino! Patapita masiku angapo, chibwenzi chikumveka, masabata 7 ali ndi pakati. Mpumulo wonse. February 2012 pa nthawi, mtima wanga wamng'ono ndi 4,02 kg ndi 52 cm. ”

Sandrine

JDS: Maulendo anu amawonetsa momwe moyo umayendera popanda kudziwa kwathu komanso kuti, pankhani za kusabereka, palibe chomwe sichingasinthe ...

"Kwa zaka zisanu, tinkafuna pang'ono chabe ... koma ayi! Izi zinali zovuta kuwona abwenzi, banja, onse akukhala makolo kuntchito, ndizosavuta kwa ena! Panali misozi yambiri yomwe inasungidwa kapena yobisika, ndikuvomereza ... Kenako 2 inseminations pambuyo pake, mwana wathu wamng'ono anabadwa, pafupifupi miyezi isanu ndi iwiri yapitayo. Osataya chiyembekezo! »

Charline

JDS: Kusabereka, kowawa kale, nthawi zina kumadzutsa nsanje zowopsa komanso zosaneneka zomwe zimawonjezera kuvutika.

"Chilakolako chikakhala chosowa, kukhalapo kofunikiraku kumakhala kwanthawi yayitali ndipo kulibe .... Ndikuganiza kuti mawu akuti obsession adasankhidwa molakwika! Pamene mukuyenera kukwirira ziyembekezo zanu zonse, ndikuganizatikhoza kulankhula za maliro! »

Mabulosi abulu

JDS: Simuyenera kukhala nokha ndikutaya mtima kwambiri… Khalani nokha ndi okondedwa anu, mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu kuti musakumane ndi izi nokha.

Siyani Mumakonda