Zamkatimu
Zowonadi, ndikokwanira kuwerenga mabuku olaula olembedwa ndi amuna, akatswiri athu akutero. N’chifukwa chiyani amuna amasankha mawu osonyeza kuti anthu sakonda kugonana?
"Umo ndi momwe amuna amayatsira chilakolako chawo"
Alain Eriel, psychoanalyst, sexologist
Izi zimawonedwa bwino kwambiri ndipo nthawi zina, tsoka, zimasokoneza nkhaniyi, chifukwa amayi sakonda kutchedwa "hule." Koma amuna samanena izi konse chifukwa akufuna kukhumudwitsa mkazi - umu ndi momwe amayatsira chilakolako chawo.
Kuonjezera apo, mwa njira iyi akufuna kulekanitsa fano la mkazi kuchokera ku fano la amayi. Amatha kunena mawu achikondi asanayambe kapena pambuyo pa chibwenzi, koma osati panthawi yachisangalalo cha orgasmic. Amuna ambiri ali ndi vuto la eedpal complex.
"Amuna amawopa kuziziritsa chidwi chawo ndi mawu ofatsa"
Mireille Bonierbal, psychiatrist, sexologist
Kuti mutsimikize kutsimikizika kwa lingaliro ili, ndikwanira kuwerenga zolemba zolaula zolembedwa ndi amuna. Ndiwodzaza ndi mawu ngati «hule» ndi zina mwano. Pali akazi amene amavomereza kuchita masewerawa ndi kutengera «mwamuna» mawu, podziwa kuti amuna anatembenukira ndi mawu.
Koma kwa amuna, zimakhala zovuta kunena zachifundo panthawi yogonana, chifukwa amawopa kuziziritsa chilakolako chawo chogonana.