Psychology

Kutsimikiza kwanzeru, kutsimikiza kozikidwa pa kuzindikira kwanzeru

Mufilimuyi "Spirit: Soul of the Prairie"

Pamenepa, sikuli mopupuluma, koma kutsimikiza mtima kwamphamvu.

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Mufilimuyi "Temple of Doom"

Sanafune kukhala wotsimikiza, koma mkhalidwewo unafunikira kutero.

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filimu "Napoleon"

Ndi ulemu wonse kwa Napoliyoni, uku sikufuna mwamphamvu, koma kutsimikiza mopupuluma.

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filimu "Crew"

Ndinaganiza zonyamuka chifukwa ndinaganiza zonyamuka.

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Yoyamba ikhoza kutchedwa mtundu wa kutsimikiza kwanzeru. Timazisonyeza pamene zolinga zotsutsanazo ziyamba kuzimiririka, tikusiya mpata wa njira ina, imene timavomereza popanda kuyesetsa kulikonse kapena kuumiriza. Tisanaunike moyenerera, timadziŵa modekha kuti kufunika kochita zinthu m’njira inayake sikunadziwikebe, ndipo zimenezi zimatilepheretsa kuchitapo kanthu. Koma tsiku lina labwino mwadzidzidzi timayamba kuzindikira kuti zolinga za kuchitapo kanthu nzomveka, kuti palibe kumveketsa kwina koyenera kuyembekezera pano, ndi kuti ino ndiyo nthaŵi yochitirapo kanthu. Muzochitika izi, kusintha kuchokera ku kukayika kupita ku chitsimikizo kumachitika mwachibwanabwana. Zikuwoneka kwa ife kuti zifukwa zomveka zochitirapo kanthu zimatsatira zokha kuchokera ku gwero la nkhaniyo, mosadalira chifuniro chathu. Komabe, panthawi imodzimodziyo, sitikhala ndi lingaliro lililonse la kukakamizidwa, kudzizindikira tokha kuti ndife omasuka. Zolinga zomwe timapeza kuti tichitepo kanthu, makamaka, kuti tiyang'ane gulu loyenera la milandu pazochitika zamakono, zomwe takhala tizolowera kale kuchita popanda kukayikira, molingana ndi ndondomeko yodziwika.

Tinganene kuti kukambirana za zolinga kumaphatikizapo, makamaka, kudutsa malingaliro onse omwe angatheke pazochitikazo kuti tipeze imodzi yomwe njira yathu yochitira pankhaniyi ingathe kukhazikitsidwa. Kukayikira za momwe tingachitire kumathetsedwa mphindi yomwe timatha kupeza lingaliro lomwe likugwirizana ndi chizolowezi chochita. Anthu omwe ali ndi chidziwitso cholemera, omwe amapanga zisankho zambiri tsiku ndi tsiku, nthawi zonse amakhala ndi ma UEC ambiri m'mitu yawo, iliyonse yomwe imagwirizanitsidwa ndi machitidwe odziwika bwino, ndipo amayesa kubweretsa chifukwa chatsopano cha chisankho china pansi pa chiwembu chodziwika bwino. . Ngati mlandu womwe waperekedwa sukugwirizana ndi zina mwazochitika zam'mbuyomu, ngati zakale, njira zachizoloŵezi sizikugwiritsidwa ntchito, ndiye kuti timatayika komanso timasokonezeka, osadziwa momwe tingatsikire ku bizinesi. Titangokwanitsa kuyenereza mlanduwu, kutsimikiza mtima kumabwereranso kwa ife.

Chifukwa chake, muzochita, komanso poganiza, ndikofunikira kupeza lingaliro loyenera pankhaniyi. Mavuto enieni omwe timakumana nawo alibe zilembo zopangidwa kale ndipo titha kuzitcha mosiyanasiyana. Munthu wanzeru ndi amene amadziwa kupeza dzina loyenerera pa nkhani iliyonse. Timatcha munthu wanzeru munthu wotero amene, pokhala atadziikira yekha zolinga zoyenera m’moyo, sachitapo kanthu popanda choyamba kutsimikizira ngati zikomera kukwaniritsidwa kwa zolinga zimenezi kapena ayi.

Kutsimikiza pazochitika komanso mopupuluma

M'mitundu iwiri yotsatira ya kutsimikiza, chigamulo chomaliza cha chifuniro chinachitika musanakhale ndi chidaliro kuti ndi chololera. Osati kawirikawiri, timalephera kupeza maziko omveka a njira iliyonse yotheka, ndikuipatsa mwayi kuposa ena. Njira zonse zimawoneka ngati zabwino, ndipo tikumanidwa mwayi wosankha zabwino kwambiri. Kukayikakayika komanso kukayikakayika kumatitopetsa, ndipo ingafike nthawi imene timaona kuti ndi bwino kusankha molakwika kusiyana ndi kusala. Pansi pazimenezi, nthawi zambiri zochitika zina mwangozi zimasokoneza malire, kupereka mwayi umodzi wopambana kuposa winayo, ndipo timayamba kutsata njira yake, ngakhale, ngati zochitika zina zangozi zidawonekera pamaso pathu panthawiyo, zotsatira zake zikanakhala zosiyana. Mtundu wachiwiri wa kutsimikiza ukuimiridwa ndi milandu yomwe tikuwoneka kuti tikugonjera mwadala ku zofuna zamtsogolo, kugonjera ku chikoka cha zochitika zakunja ndi kuganiza: zotsatira zake zidzakhala zabwino kwambiri.

Mu mtundu wachitatu, chisankho ndi chifukwa cha mwayi, koma mwayi, osachita kuchokera kunja, koma mwa ife tokha. Nthawi zambiri, popanda zolimbikitsa kuchita mbali imodzi kapena ina, ife, pofuna kupewa kumverera kosasangalatsa kwa chisokonezo ndi kusaganiza bwino, timayamba kuchita zinthu zokha, ngati kuti zotuluka zimatulutsidwa m'mitsempha yathu modzidzimutsa, zomwe zimatipangitsa kusankha chimodzi mwazochita zomwe zimatipangitsa kukhala osangalala. malingaliro operekedwa kwa ife. Pambuyo pakutopa, chilakolako chofuna kuyenda chimatikopa; timanena m’maganizo kuti: “Patsogolo! Ndipo chitachitika! - ndipo timachitapo kanthu. Ichi ndi chiwonetsero chosasamala, chachimwemwe cha mphamvu, mosakonzekera kotero kuti muzochitika zotere timakhala ngati owonerera opanda pake, osangalatsidwa ndi kulingalira kwa mphamvu zakunja zomwe zikuchita mwachisawawa pa ife, kusiyana ndi anthu omwe akuchita zofuna zathu. Mawonetseredwe owukira, opupuluma oterowo sawoneka kawirikawiri mwa anthu aulesi ndi ozizira. M'malo mwake, mwa anthu omwe ali ndi malingaliro amphamvu, okhudzidwa komanso nthawi yomweyo omwe ali ndi khalidwe lopanda kusankha, akhoza kukhala ofala kwambiri. Pakati pa akatswiri adziko lapansi (monga Napoleon, Luther, etc.), omwe chilakolako chouma chimaphatikizidwa ndi chikhumbo chofuna kuchitapo kanthu, pamene kukayikira ndi kulingalira koyambirira kumachedwetsa kufotokoza kwaufulu kwa chilakolako, kutsimikiza mtima kuchitapo kanthu mwina kumadutsa ndendende. njira yoyambira; choncho mwadzidzidzi madzi akudutsa pa damu. Kuti kachitidwe kameneka kaŵirikaŵiri kumawonedwa mwa anthu otero ndi chisonyezero chokwanira cha malingaliro awo owopsa. Ndipo amapereka mphamvu yapadera ku kutulutsa kwamanjenje komwe kumayambira m'malo opangira magalimoto.

Kutsimikiza kwaumwini, kutsimikiza kozikidwa pa kukwezedwa kwaumwini

Palinso mtundu wachinayi wa kutsimikiza mtima, womwe umathetsa kukayikira konse mosayembekezereka monga wachitatu. Zimaphatikizapo zochitika pamene, chifukwa cha zochitika zakunja kapena kusintha kosamvetsetseka kwa mkati mwa njira ya kulingalira, timachoka mwadzidzidzi kuchoka ku malingaliro opanda pake ndi osasamala kupita ku chinthu chachikulu, chokhazikika, ndi mtengo wamtengo wapatali wa makhalidwe abwino. Zolinga zathu ndi zokhumba zathu zimasintha tikasintha zinthu zathu. molingana ndi ndege yakutali.

Zinthu zamantha ndi zachisoni ndizowopsa kwambiri. Kulowa mu gawo la chidziwitso chathu, iwo amalepheretsa mphamvu ya zongopeka zopanda pake ndikupereka mphamvu zapadera ku zolinga zazikulu. Chotsatira chake, timasiya mapulani osiyanasiyana onyansa a m'tsogolo, omwe takhala tikusangalala nawo mpaka pano, ndipo nthawi yomweyo timadzazidwa ndi zokhumba zazikulu komanso zofunika kwambiri, zomwe mpaka nthawi imeneyo sizinatikope ife tokha. Kutsimikiza kotereku kuyenera kuphatikizapo zochitika zonse zomwe zimatchedwa kubadwanso kwa makhalidwe abwino, kudzutsidwa kwa chikumbumtima, ndi zina zotero, chifukwa chomwe ambiri a ife timatsitsimutsidwa kuuzimu. Mlingo umasintha mwadzidzidzi mu umunthu ndipo kutsimikiza mtima kuchita mbali ina kumawonekera nthawi yomweyo.

Kutsimikiza kwachivomerezo, kutsimikiza kozikidwa pa kudzipereka

Mu mtundu wachisanu ndi wotsiriza wa kutsimikiza, njira yodziwika ingawoneke kwa ife kukhala yomveka, koma sitingakhale ndi zifukwa zomveka zoikomera. M'zochitika zonsezi, pofuna kuchita mwanjira inayake, timamva kuti ntchito yomalizayi imachitika chifukwa cha zofuna zathu; poyamba, mwa chisonkhezero cha chifuniro chathu, timapereka mphamvu ku zolinga zomveka, zomwe mwazokha sizikanatha kutulutsa kutulutsa kwamanjenje; potsiriza, mwa kuyesayesa kwa chifuniro, chimene pano chikuloŵa m’malo mwa chilolezo cha kulingalira, timapereka ku cholinga china chofunika kwambiri. Kukanika kopanda chidwi kwa kufuna komwe kumamveka pano ndi mawonekedwe amtundu wachisanu wa kutsimikiza, komwe kumasiyanitsa ndi zina zinayi.

Sitidzayesa pano kufunika kwa kukangana kwa chifunirochi kuchokera kumaganizo a metaphysical ndipo sitidzakambirana za funso lakuti ngati mikangano yosonyezedwa ya chifuniro iyenera kulekanitsidwa ndi zolinga zomwe timatsogoleredwa muzochita. Kuchokera pamalingaliro okhazikika komanso a phenomenological, pali kuyesetsa, komwe sikunali mumitundu yam'mbuyomu yotsimikiza. Khama nthawi zonse ndi chinthu chosasangalatsa, cholumikizidwa ndi mtundu wina wa chidziwitso cha kusungulumwa kwamakhalidwe; kotero ndi pamene, m'dzina la ntchito yopatulika yoyera, timakaniratu zinthu zonse zapadziko lapansi, ndipo pamene titsimikiza motsimikiza kuti tiganizire njira zina zomwe sizingatheke kwa ife, ndi zina kuti zichitike, ngakhale kuti aliyense wa iwo ndi wokongola mofanana. palibe zochitika zakunja zomwe sizingatipangitse kuti tizikonda aliyense wa iwo. Kufufuza mozama kwa mtundu wachisanu wa kutsimikiza kumawonetsa kuti kumasiyana ndi mitundu yapitayi: pamenepo, panthawi yosankha njira imodzi, timataya kapena pafupifupi kutayika kwa wina, koma apa sitiyiwala njira ina iliyonse nthawi zonse. ; pokana mmodzi wa iwo, timadziwonetsera tokha chomwe kwenikweni pa mphindi ino tikutaya. Ife, kunena kwake, timayika dala singano m'thupi lathu, ndipo kumverera kwa kuyesetsa kwamkati komwe kumatsagana ndi mchitidwewu kumayimira mtundu wotsiriza wa kutsimikiza chinthu chachilendo chomwe chimasiyanitsa kwambiri ndi mitundu ina yonse ndikuchipanga kukhala chodabwitsa chamatsenga. generis. Nthaŵi zambiri, kutsimikiza mtima kwathu sikumayendera limodzi ndi khama. Ndikuganiza kuti timakonda kuganiza kuti kumverera uku kumakhala kochitika kawirikawiri m'maganizo kuposa momwe zilili, chifukwa pokambirana nthawi zambiri timazindikira kuti kuyesetsa kwakukulu kuyenera kukhala bwanji ngati tikufuna kupeza yankho linalake. Pambuyo pake, pamene mchitidwewo wachitidwa popanda kuyesayesa kulikonse, timakumbukira kulingalira kwathu ndi kulingalira molakwa kuti khamalo linapangidwadi ndi ife.

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