Chidziwitso chathu ndi chanzeru mwa njira yake: chimakonza "zowonongeka" mu psyche yathu ndikuchotsa "ziphuphu" zamaganizo m'njira yomwe ingapezeke. Zowona, nthaŵi zina izi zimabweretsa khalidwe losavomerezeka kotheratu m’lingaliro la anthu. Mwachitsanzo, pakuwonjezeka kwa kugonana.
Pali ambiri opanga mapulogalamu pakati pa omwe ndimawadziwa. Mwina, izi ndichifukwa mu dziko la iwo ambiri tsopano pali mdima, mdima. Kulankhulana nawo, ndinazama pang'ono mu nthabwala zawo zapadera, nthano ndi zamatsenga. Inde, inde, matsenga. Chifukwa aliyense wopanga mapulogalamu angakuuzeni nkhani zambiri za momwe IT idagwirira ntchito - sizikumveka MMENE ndipo sizikudziwika CHIFUKWA CHIYANI. Ndipo aliyense amene ankafuna kumvetsa zifukwazo analangidwa kwambiri ndi code yomwe inalephera kamodzi (kale inkagwira ntchito bwino).
Payekha, ma code awa, akugwira ntchito kapena osagwira ntchito motsutsana ndi malingaliro onse, amatikumbutsa za chikomokere chathu. Zimabisanso mfundo za ntchito kwa ife, kupereka njira zachilendo zodzichiritsa tokha pobwezera, zomwe sitikuzisamala mpaka zitasokoneza miyoyo yathu.
M’zaka zanga zauphunzitsi, ndinali paubwenzi ndi mtsikana wina wodabwitsa. Anali wanzeru komanso wosadziwa nthawi yomweyo. Iye ankaseka kwambiri, ankakonda kusewera: mu mayanjano, dominoes, lotto. Mwana wotero m'thupi la mkazi wokhazikika. Nkhumba ndi masokosi, chikwama mu mawonekedwe a chimbalangondo. Iye ankakonda zachibwana osati zachikazi. Zodzoladzola store — «Children's World».
Mmodzi mwa "osamala" omwe adadziwana nawo adalankhula za iye m'njira yosasangalatsa: amati mu gulu lathu wamba munalibe mwamuna m'modzi, osapatula okwatirana, omwe sanagonepo. Ine sindine wachinyengo. Tikukhala m'dziko laufulu, aliyense amachita ndi moyo wake momwe amafunira. Koma mphekesera izi zinandidabwitsa: kodi zimbalangondo za teddy ndi masokosi okwera m'mawondo zimaphatikizana bwanji ndi chilakolako chogonana chotere?
Chinachake chinasweka mu "protocol yachikondi"
Ndinakambirana bwinobwino nkhaniyi ndi mtsikanayo. Anali womasuka ku makambirano oterowo. Iye ananena kuti kwambiri, ndithudi, amanama, panali ochepa «zopatsa thanzi» - ndipo komabe. Kuyambira pamenepo, ndakhala womukhulupirira iye pankhani zachikondi ndipo nthawi iliyonse ndimamvetsera nkhani za momwe ubale wake unakulirakulira. Chinachake chinasweka mu "protocol of love etiquette".
M'masiku amenewo, ndidapereka mafoni mosavuta kwa achinyamata osangalatsa ndikutsata kuchuluka kwa zomwe akuchita: kodi angandiitane pa chibwenzi? Imbani? Lembani SMS? Kapena mukungofuna kukhala mabwenzi? Chilichonse chinali chosiyana kwa iye: kugonana koyamba, kenako chiwembu: kodi foni idzatenga? Adzafunsa dzina lake ndani? .. Cholengedwa chodabwitsa. Pazifukwa zina, sankachita mantha.
Zotsatira zake zidatayika mu kampani yotsatira, kukwera kapena ulendo. Ngakhale pa Facebook (bungwe lonyanyira loletsedwa ku Russia), sindinalipeze, ndikupeza momwe linasinthira, kumene likuyenda. Chithunzi chake chinawonekera m'maganizo mwanga mosayembekezereka, pa phunziro. Ndinauza ophunzira za kugonana kwa ozunzidwa ndi ogwirira awo, za mtundu umenewo wa kugonana, cholinga chokhacho chomwe chiri kufunafuna kuzindikira, chikondi.
Mnzanga wina wakale anatulukira m’maganizo mwanga monga chitsanzo chabwino cha zimene ndinali kunena. Makolo ake anasudzulana ali wamng’ono, aliyense ali ndi ana mu maubwenzi atsopano. Iwo anali otanganitsidwa kwambiri ndi moyo wawo kuposa ndi mwana wawo wamkazi wamkulu, amene mikhalidwe yake ndi mkhalidwe wake zinawakumbutsa za ukwati wakale, wolakwa.
Iye ankayenera kukhala wodziimira payekha, wamkulu. Mfungulo ili pakhosi, "idyani chinachake nokha." Ubwana wotere sunachitike - chifukwa chake, atakula kale, ankakonda kwambiri gofu ndi nkhumba zonse.
Khalidwe lochita zachiwerewere, kukonzekera kuthamangira m'manja mwa munthu woyamba amene mumakumana naye ndi kupitiriza kwa nkhani yomvetsa chisoni ya ubwana ndi chitsanzo chowoneka bwino cha momwe kusazindikira kwa munthu kumafunira "kukonza" chovulalacho popanda kupereka zizindikiro "kunja" . Kusowa kwa chikondi mu ubwana kunapangidwa ndi kugonana kwachangu muunyamata.
Ndimakumbukira mmene atsikanawo ankanong’oneza komanso kuleka mawu okhumudwitsa pa adiresi yake. Ndipo ndikudziwa motsimikiza: amangosimidwa - mosimidwa kuposa tonsefe - amafunikira chikondi. Kusintha kwa kugonana, kupsa mtima komanso maonekedwe okongola anachita ntchito yawo. Ndipo pambuyo pa zonse, palibe m'dera lake, palibe moyo umodzi womwe unamufunsa chifukwa chake amachitira izi. N’chifukwa chiyani akuzifuna?
Tengani wina kuti amuchitire msungwana uyu ndiye, ndipo amawombedwa ndi chiwopsezo chochuluka cha melancholy.
Tsopano, poyang'ana milandu yofanana ndikuchita, kuwerenga nkhani za sayansi ndikuyankhula ndi ophunzira, ndikumvetsa kusungulumwa, chisoni ndi ululu umene mtsikanayo anali nawo mkati. Panthawiyo, kukhudzana ndi madandaulo opanda nzeru kunali kosatheka. The chikomokere anagwidwa melancholy ndi kumenyana izo m'njira yabwino kwambiri - chovomerezeka kuchokera ku maganizo a chikomokere palokha, ndi chikhalidwe chikhalidwe anatengera ndi ife sagwira ntchito pa izo.
Ngati wina akanasamalira mtsikanayu panthawiyo, akanaphulitsidwa ndi kusungunuka kwa melancholy. Angapo venereal matenda, mluzu ndi miseche kumbuyo kwake - kuchokera maganizo a chikomokere, zonsezi anali mtengo waung'ono kulipira munali chigumukire.
Katswiri wa zamaganizo amagwira ntchito ndi machitidwe awa (machitidwe) pokhapokha ngati pali pempho. Koma izi zimachitika kawirikawiri. Nthawi zambiri, anthu amenewa amalowa mu mankhwala pamene damu «anasweka», pamene adaptive limagwirira analephera. Ndipo ndithudi nkovuta kwambiri kugwira ntchito mumkhalidwe wavuto woterowo.
Koma ngati mukuchita kupewa kapena "kugwira" vutoli mutangoyamba kumene, pali mwayi womasula mphamvu zambiri zomwe zimagwiritsidwa ntchito bwino pa chisangalalo ndi chisangalalo. Sichoncho?