Ziribe kanthu momwe tingakhumbire, zovuta ndi zovuta zomwe tsogolo limatibweretsera ndizosapeweka. Lero tikusangalala ndi kukwezedwa pantchito, madzulo osangalatsa ndi anthu apamtima, ulendo wosangalatsa, mawa tikukumana ndi mayesero omwe amaoneka ngati sakuchokera paliponse. Koma uwu ndi moyo ndipo zonse zomwe zilimo zimachitika pazifukwa, kuphatikizapo zochitika zomwe sizinaphatikizidwe muzokonzekera zathu, zomwe zimakhala zofunikira kwambiri.
Zikumveka bwino, koma moyo ukakhala ndi vuto losakhazikika, malingaliro abwino a zomwe zikuchitika ndiye chinthu chomaliza chomwe chimabwera m'maganizo. Patapita nthawi, munthu amazindikirabe maganizo ake, ndipo m’pamene nthawi imafika yoti amvetse tanthauzo lake komanso zimene zinandiphunzitsa.
1. Simungathe kulamulira moyo, koma mukhoza kudziletsa.
Pali mikhalidwe imene sitingathe kuilamulira: kubadwa m’banja losokonekera, kufedwa kholo udakali wamng’ono, ngozi yosayembekezereka, matenda aakulu. Kukumana ndi zovuta zotere, timayang'anizana ndi chisankho chachindunji: kusweka ndikukhala ozunzidwa ndi mikhalidwe, kapena kuvomereza mkhalidwewo ngati mwayi wakukula (mwina, nthawi zina, zauzimu). Kudzipereka kumawoneka ngati kophweka, koma ndi njira ya kufooka ndi kusatetezeka. Munthu woteroyo amagonja mosavuta ku zizoloŵezi zoledzeretsa, makamaka moŵa kapena mankhwala osokoneza bongo, kumene amafuna mpumulo ku mavuto. Amakopa anthu omwe ali ndi mavuto ofananawo, amadzizungulira ndi kugwedezeka kwachisoni ndi chisoni. Kusakhazikika m'maganizo kumabweretsa kukhumudwa. Pozindikira kuti ndinu mbuye wa malingaliro anu ndi zikhalidwe zakunja, mumayamba kutembenuza zinthuzo kukhala zopindulitsa kwambiri kwa inu momwe mungathere pazomwe zikuchitika. Zovuta ndi zovuta zimakhala zoyambira zomwe zimakupangitsani kukhala munthu wamphamvu ndikutsegula mwayi watsopano. Awa ndi malingaliro a wopambana yemwe samasiya kudzikweza yekha komanso dziko lozungulira ndipo amakhulupirira zabwino zonse.
2. Ndinu munthu wamphamvu kwambiri.
Mphamvu yamalingaliro ndi yayikulu modabwitsa. Mwa kukulitsa chikhulupiriro mu kuthekera kolimbana ndi zovuta zilizonse ndi zovuta zamtsogolo, timapanga mwa ife tokha mphamvu, mphamvu ndi maziko, zomwe zimakhala chuma chathu chamtengo wapatali.
3. Ndiwe mdani wako wamkulu komanso bwenzi lapamtima.
Nthawi zina timadzida tokha. Timadana ndi kulola kuti tiyende pamtengo womwewo mobwerezabwereza. Chifukwa chosatha kukhala wodzisunga komanso kuchita zinthu moyenera. Zolakwa zakale. Nthawi zina, sitingadzikhululukire n’kumaganizirabe mobwerezabwereza. Tikakumana ndi vuto limeneli, timazindikira kuti tikhoza kukhala mdani wathu, kupitiriza kudziimba mlandu ndi kudzizunza, kapena tingakhale mabwenzi, kukhululukirana, ndi kupita patsogolo. Kuti muchiritse maganizo, ndikofunika kuvomereza zochitikazo, kusiya zolakwa zanu, kukulolani kuti mupite patsogolo.
4. Mumamvetsetsa kuti anzanu ndi ndani
Anthu ambiri adzasangalala kukhala nafe zinthu zikayenda bwino. Komabe, mavuto a m’moyo angatisonyeze amene ali bwenzi lenileni, ndi amene “ali bwenzi, kapena mdani, koma wotero.” Ndi m’nthaŵi zovuta pamene tili ndi awo amene ali ofunitsitsa kuthera nthaŵi ndi mphamvu zawo kuti moyo wathu ukhale wabwino. Panthawi ngati imeneyi, timakhala ndi mwayi wapadera womvetsetsa kuti ndi anthu ati omwe ali ofunikira kwambiri komanso oyenera kuwayamikira.
5. Mumazindikira chomwe chili chofunikira kwambiri m'moyo
Mkhalidwe "wadzidzidzi" wamoyo, monga mayeso a litmus, pamlingo wocheperako, umatipangitsa kuzindikira zomwe zili zofunika kwa ife. Kukhala mu clover, mokhazikika komanso ngakhale, nthawi zambiri timayiwala zomwe ziyenera kukhala zofunika nthawi zonse. Mwachitsanzo, kutchera khutu ku thanzi (kawirikawiri iyi ndi chinthu chomaliza chomwe timaganiza mpaka titadwala), chisamaliro ndi ulemu kwa okondedwa (monga lamulo, timalola kukwiyitsidwa ndi nkhanza kwa okondedwa kuposa anthu osadziwika) . ). Zovuta zamtsogolo zimatha kuyika chisokonezochi m'malo mwake ndikuwongolera malingaliro panjira yoyenera.
Ndipo potsiriza, . Zovuta nthawi zonse zimatipangitsa kuti tisinthe (nthawi zina zazikulu), zomwe nthawi zambiri zimakhudza miyoyo yathu m'njira yabwino.