Chilichonse chinapitirira chimodzimodzi monga chonchi, mpaka buku la Marie Kondo linagwera m'manja mwanga (kachiwiri mwamatsenga): “Kuyeretsa mwamatsenga. Luso la ku Japan lokhazikitsa zinthu m'nyumba komanso m'moyo. Nazi zomwe mlembi wa bukhuli akulemba za iye mwini:
Ambiri, Marie Kondo kuyambira ali mwana sanali mwana wamba. Anali ndi chokonda chachilendo - kuyeretsa. Njira yokhayo yoyeretsera komanso njira zoyendetsera ntchitoyi idatengera malingaliro a kamtsikana kakang'ono kotero kuti adapereka pafupifupi nthawi yake yonse yaulere ku ntchitoyi. Chifukwa cha zimenezi, patapita nthaŵi, Marie anatulukira njira yake yabwino yoyeretsera. Zomwe, komabe, zimatha kukhazikitsa zinthu osati m'nyumba mokha, komanso m'mutu ndi moyo.
Ndipo kwenikweni, kodi timadziŵa bwanji kuyeretsa moyenera? Kwenikweni, tonse timadziphunzitsa tokha. Ana anatengera njira kuyeretsa kwa makolo awo, awo ... Koma! Sitidzapereka maphikidwe a keke omwe sakoma, nanga nchifukwa ninji timatengera njira zomwe sizimapangitsa kuti nyumba yathu ikhale yoyera komanso kuti tikhale osangalala?
Ndipo nchiyani, ndipo kotero nkotheka?
Njira yoperekedwa ndi Marie Kondo ndiyosiyana kwambiri ndi yomwe tidazolowera. Monga momwe wolemba mwiniwake amanenera, kuyeretsa ndi tchuthi lofunika komanso losangalatsa lomwe limachitika kamodzi kokha m'moyo. Ndipo ili ndi tchuthi chomwe sichidzangothandiza nyumba yanu nthawi zonse kuyang'ana momwe mudalota, komanso kukuthandizani kukhudza ulusi wodzoza ndi matsenga omwe amalumikizana mwaluso moyo wathu wonse.
Mfundo za KonMari Method
1. Tangoganizirani zimene tikuyesetsa kuchita. Musanayambe kuyeretsa, dzifunseni funso lofunika kwambiri la momwe mukufuna kuti nyumba yanu ikhale, malingaliro omwe mukufuna kukhala nawo m'nyumba muno komanso chifukwa chiyani. Nthawi zambiri, tikayamba ulendo wathu, timayiwala kukhazikitsa njira yoyenera. Kodi tidzadziwa bwanji kuti tafika kumene tikupita?
2. Yang'anani pozungulira inu.
Nthawi zambiri timasunga zinthu m'nyumba, osadzifunsa chifukwa chake tikuzifunira. Ndipo njira yoyeretsera imasanduka kusintha kosaganizira zinthu kuchokera kumalo kupita kumalo. Zinthu zomwe sitifunikira kwenikweni. Mogwirizana ndi mtima, kodi mungakumbukire zonse zomwe zili m'nyumba mwanu? Ndipo zinthu zonsezi mumazigwiritsa ntchito kangati?
Nazi zomwe Marie mwini akunena za nyumba yake:
3. Kumvetsetsa zomwe tikufuna kusunga. Njira zambiri zoyeretsera zachikhalidwe zimafika pa "kuwononga" nyumba. Sitikuganiza za momwe malo athu ayenera kukhalira, koma zomwe sitikonda. Chifukwa chake, osadziwa cholinga chomaliza, timagwera m'gulu loyipa - kugula zosafunikira komanso mobwerezabwereza kuchotsa zosafunika izi. Mwa njira, sizongokhudza zinthu za m'nyumba, sichoncho?
4. Kutsanzikana ndi zosafunikira.
Kuti mumvetsetse zinthu zomwe mungafune kutsanzikana nazo ndi zomwe mungasiye, muyenera kukhudza chilichonse. Marie akusonyeza kuti tiyambe kuyeretsa osati ndi chipinda, monga momwe timachitira nthawi zambiri, koma ndi gulu. Kuyambira ndi zosavuta kusiya nazo - zovala mu zovala zathu - ndikutha ndi zinthu zosaiŵalika komanso zachifundo.
Pochita zinthu zomwe sizikubweretsa chisangalalo mu mtima mwanu, musamangoziyika mulu wosiyana ndi mawu akuti “chabwino, sindikufuna izi”, koma khalani pa chilichonse chazo, nenani “zikomo” ndikuti “zikomo” sanzikani ngati mungatsanzike ndi bwenzi lakale. Ngakhale mwambo uwu wokha udzatembenuza moyo wanu kwambiri kotero kuti simudzatha kugula chinthu chomwe simukusowa ndikuchisiya kuti chivutike chokha.
Komanso, musaiwale kuti “kuyeretsa” mwanjira imeneyi m’zinthu za okondedwa anu ndi chinthu chosaloleka.
5. Pezani malo a chinthu chilichonse. Titatsanzikana ndi chilichonse chosafunikira, inali nthawi yoti tikonze zinthu zomwe zidatsala mnyumbamo.
Lamulo lalikulu la KonMari sikulola kuti zinthu zizifalikira kuzungulira nyumbayo. Kusungirako kosavuta, kumakhala kothandiza kwambiri. Ngati n'kotheka, sungani zinthu za gulu limodzi pafupi ndi zina. Wolembayo amalangiza kuti azikonza osati kuti zikhale zosavuta kutenga zinthu, koma kuti zikhale zosavuta kuziyika.
Wolembayo akuwonetsa njira yosangalatsa kwambiri yosungiramo zovala zathu - kukonza zinthu zonse molunjika, kuzipinda ngati sushi. Pa intaneti, mutha kupeza makanema ambiri oseketsa amomwe mungachitire bwino.
6. Sungani mosamala zomwe zimabweretsa chisangalalo.
Kusamalira zinthu zomwe zatizinga ndi zomwe zimatitumikira movutikira tsiku ndi tsiku monga mabwenzi athu apamtima, timaphunzira momwe tingazigwiritsire ntchito mosamala. Timadziwa chilichonse m'nyumba mwathu ndipo timaganiza katatu tisanatenge china chatsopano.
Anthu ambiri masiku ano akudabwa za hyperconsumption zomwe zasokoneza dziko lathu lapansi. Akatswiri azachilengedwe, akatswiri azamisala komanso anthu osamala amasindikiza zolemba zambiri zasayansi, kuyesera kukopa chidwi cha anthu ku vutoli ndikupereka njira zawo zothetsera vutoli.
Malinga ndi Marie Kondo, kuchuluka kwa zinyalala zotayidwa ndi munthu m'modzi panthawi yoyeretsa molingana ndi njira yake ndi pafupifupi matumba a zinyalala makumi awiri kapena makumi atatu a lita 45. Ndipo kuchuluka kwa zinthu zomwe zimatayidwa ndi makasitomala pa nthawi yonse ya ntchito yake zikanakhala zofanana ndi matumba 28.
Chofunikira chomwe njira ya Marie Kondo imaphunzitsa ndikuyamikira zomwe muli nazo. Kumvetsetsa kuti dziko lapansi silidzagwa, ngakhale titasowa kanthu. Ndipo tsopano, pamene ndilowa m’nyumba yanga ndi kuilonjera, sindidzalola kuti ikhale yodetsedwa – osati chifukwa ndi “ntchito” yanga, koma chifukwa chakuti ndimalikonda ndi kuilemekeza. Ndipo nthawi zambiri kuyeretsa sikudutsa mphindi 10. Ndikudziwa ndikusangalala ndi chilichonse m'nyumba mwanga. Onse ali ndi malo awoawo komwe angapume komanso komwe ndingathe kuwapeza. Dongosolo silinakhazikitsidwe m'nyumba mwanga, komanso m'moyo wanga. Ndi iko komwe, patchuthi chofunika koposa m’moyo wanga, ndinaphunzira kuyamikira zimene ndiri nazo ndi kuchotsa mosamala zosafunikira.
Apa ndi pamene matsenga amakhala.