Psychology

Kodi kugonana kwa akazi kumatha liti ndipo maubwenzi apamtima amatha? Chenjezo la spoiler: ayi! Pano pali kuyang'ana kwathunthu kwa sayansi pa nkhani ya kugonana pambuyo posiya kusamba kuchokera kwa katswiri wa mankhwala achi China, Anna Vladimirova.

Ndimakonda kwambiri zomwe zikuchitika pano: atsikana ali ndi chidwi ndikukonzekera tsogolo lawo, akuphunzira momwe angakhalire ndi thanzi labwino komanso kugonana kwa zaka zambiri. Za zomwe kugonana kwanu kudzakhalako pambuyo pa kusintha kwa thupi, ndipo ngakhale pamene kusintha kumeneku kumabwera, muyenera kuganiza tsopano - mu nthawi ya moyo ndi mwayi.

Kusiya kusamba ndi kuchepa kwa mphamvu

Mu mankhwala achi China, pali lingaliro la «qi» - kuchuluka kwa mphamvu, ndipo ikachepetsedwa, thupi lachikazi limakana kukhala lachonde (kusiya kusamba kumachitika). Ndipo izo zimatengera osati osati kwambiri pa msinkhu.

Pa Nkhondo Yachiwiri Yapadziko Lonse, atsikana azaka makumi awiri ndi makumi awiri ndi zisanu adasiya kusamba pambuyo pa chaka chimodzi kapena ziwiri atakhala m'ngalande: adachotsa thupi, ndipo thupi, pofuna kupulumutsa chuma, "linazimitsa" kubereka. ntchito. Kwa ena a iwo, pambuyo pa kutha kwa nkhondo, kuzungulira kunabwezeretsedwa, kwa ena sikunali.

Nachi chitsanzo chakumbuyo. Ndinayenda kwambiri kum'mwera chakum'mawa kwa Asia ndipo, makamaka, ndinkakhala m'nyumba za amonke kumene machitidwe a amayi a Taoist amaphunzira - njira zomwe zimakulolani kuti mutenge mphamvu ndikuwonjezera mphamvu za thupi. Azimayi oterewa amatha kukhalabe ndi chonde mpaka ukalamba.

Timatha kuchita zinthu zambiri m'thupi lathu, ndipo ngakhale njira zophunzirira zimasonyeza kuti kusintha kwa thupi ndi chinthu chokhazikika. Malinga ndi mankhwala achi China, nthawi zambiri - ngati simukumananso ndi ntchito yobereka - imachitika ali ndi zaka 49. Kodi zimenezi zimakhudza bwanji kugonana?

Tsatanetsatane wa anatomical

Kwa nthawi yayitali ankakhulupirira kuti kugonana kwachikazi ndi kofanana ndi mwamuna. Mwamuna ali ndi siteji pamene erection yake imatha ndipo apa ndi pamene kugonana kwake kumathera, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti akazi ayenera kukhala ndi zochitika zofanana. Zimandikumbutsa lingaliro la kuwotcha mkazi wamoyo pamaliro a mwamuna wake. Ndipo nthawi ya kutha kwa msambo ndiyo yoyenera kwambiri pamwambo wa "kuwotcha" kwa kugonana: pambuyo pa kutha kwa thumba losunga mazira, kupanga mafuta kwa amayi kumachepetsedwa - ndipo ichi ndi chizindikiro! Yakwana nthawi yosiya zosangalatsa zapamtima!

Umboni wina unagwirizanitsidwa ndi lingaliro ili: malinga ndi maphunziro, ankakhulupirira kuti kugonana kwachikazi kumamangirizidwa ku mahomoni a ovarian, ndipo akasiya kugwira ntchito, libido imasowa.

Kafukufuku wamakono amatsutsa lingaliro ili: malinga ndi iwo, woyendetsa kugonana kwachikazi, monga mwamuna, ndi testosterone. Mwa amuna okha, msinkhu wake umachepa ndi msinkhu, pamene mwa akazi umawonjezeka. Ndipo izi zikutanthauza kuti ndi zaka, mkazi amagonana kwambiri. Zatsimikiziridwa mwasayansi! Zoona! N’chifukwa chiyani amayi ena amasiya kudzikonda chifukwa cha ukalamba n’kunena kuti kugonana si chinthu chawo?

PR yoyipa yakusiya kusamba

Ngati mkazi wayendetsa chinachake m'mutu mwake, ndiye kuti amatha kusintha zenizeni zozungulira ku njira iyi - ndipo, ndithudi, dziko lake. Mukamufotokozera kwa zaka zambiri kuti sagonana pa msinkhu uno, akukhulupirira - ndipo sangatero. Ngakhale mukufuna. Ngakhale nthawi zina zimafunikira! Ngakhale m'manja pali wokondedwa ndi wokonzeka kuchita nawo.

Anthu okhala ku USSR adapezeka kuti ali m'gawo lazidziwitso momwe kugonana sikunali koyenera kwambiri ngakhale pazaka zakubadwa, ndipo pambuyo pa kusintha kwa thupi kunazimiririka. Ndimapereka masomphenya osiyana, amakono a kugonana pambuyo posiya kusamba - kutengera zenizeni zenizeni.

- Ndinu odekha! Atsikana amakumana ndi nkhawa zambiri za mimba yapathengo: nthawi zonse kuopseza «zouluka», kusankha njira yoyenera kulera, angapo misinkhu chitetezo ... Mu nkhawa chikhalidwe, izi nkhawa akhoza kwambiri kuchepetsa chisangalalo kugonana. Ndipo tsopano - finita la comedy, palibenso nkhawa! N’zotheka kugonana m’njira imene mumakonda, ndi munthu amene mumamukonda, popanda zinthu zoipitsitsa. Kodi simukulota za izo? Ndipo zidzatero!

- Ndiwe mfulu! Mumsinkhu wobala, ife amayi ndife ogwidwa ndi kusintha kwa mahomoni athu. Mkazi amakhala yemweyo kamodzi masiku 28 - ndipo izi ndi mkombero khola, ndipo ngati izo zalephera ... M'zaka, ife kuzolowera wathu kusinthasintha maganizo, kuphunzira kuwalamulira, komabe ubwenzi wathu si kwambiri. kukopa koyenera bwino ndi kunyamuka kosatha ndi kugwa.

Asanayambe kusamba, maganizo athu sali athu, koma poyambira, tidzamasulidwa ku mphepo yamkuntho ya mahomoni ndipo tidzatha kusangalala ndi luntha lathu, kukoma mtima ndi nzeru. Kusiya kusamba ndi njira yaifupi kwambiri kwa ine komanso ufulu wanga, kotero ndine wokondwa kuganiza kuti nthawiyi ili patsogolo panga, ndipo ndizosangalatsa bwanji kudziwa kuti iyi ndi gawo lina la moyo ndipo maubwenzi ndi amuna adzakhala ndi gawo lofunikira. m'menemo.

Siyani Mumakonda