Njira zodziwira zomwe zimapangitsa kuti apambane komanso njira zazikulu zowonjezera mulingo wake

Tsiku labwino kwa nonse! Kuphatikiza pa zomwe zimalimbikitsa kuchita bwino, komanso momwe mungakulitsire, ndikufuna kugawana nanu zambiri za momwe mungadziwike. Ndipo ziribe kanthu kaya ndinu bwana kapena wocheperapo, ndikofunika kuti muthe kuchita izi, chifukwa, podziwa momwe mungayang'anire zotsatira, n'zotheka kusankha njira zolondola zomwe zidzawonjezeke bwino. Ndiye tiyeni tiyambe?

Ndi mitundu yanji ya mitundu yomwe ilipo?

Kuti njira zowonjezera chilimbikitso zikhale zogwira mtima ndikuthandizira kukwaniritsa cholingacho, m'pofunika kuti muthe kusiyanitsa kuganiza ndi kulingalira komwe munthu ali. Zomwe amadziyendetsa. Mwachitsanzo, tikadziwa za kukhalapo kwa anthu osakhulupirira komanso okhulupirira kuti zinthu zikuyenda bwino, zimakhala zosavuta kuti timvetsetse ena komanso ife eni. Mitundu iwiriyi ilipo mwa munthu aliyense. Kungoti amagwiritsa ntchito imodzi nthawi zambiri pamoyo wake.

1. Kupewa kulephera. Zikuwoneka zomveka, chabwino? Ntchitoyi ikufuna kwambiri kuti asakumane ndi zovuta, kungowalola. Munthu amathamanga mofulumira ngati chiwopsezo cha kuchotsedwa ntchito, kulekanitsa kumamuzungulira ... Chiyembekezo chokhala ndi chinachake chabwino sichiri chochititsa chidwi monga kuopa kutaya zomwe ali nazo kale. Chifukwa chake, anthu otere samakhala pachiwopsezo, nthawi zambiri samachoka pamalo awo otonthoza. Amakonda kupirira chifukwa cha zongopeka zamoyo zomwe zingakhale zoipitsitsa, choncho ndi bwino kuvomereza. Iwo sakhala opambana, koma okhazikika.
2. Kupeza bwino. Apa zinthu ndizosiyana, munthu amakhala ndi zomwe wakwaniritsa, amakhala wokonzeka kuyika moyo wake pachiswe ndikusintha moyo wake. Inde, amatha kukwera pamwamba, koma palinso mbali ina ya ndalamazo. Anthu oterowo, omwe amangoyang'ana pa zotsatira zomwe zikuyembekezeredwa, akhoza kunyalanyaza zenizeni, ndiko kuti, osaganizira zopinga zomwe zikubwera. Zomwe sizingapambane. Chilichonse chikuwoneka chophweka komanso chophweka, monga akunena kuti: "Ndikuwona cholinga, sindikuwona zopinga." Koma, osaganizira zovuta zomwe zingatheke, munthu amatha kukhumudwa mwa iyemwini kapena ntchito yake, akukhulupirira kuti izi si zake ndi zina zotero.

Monga ndanenera kale, m'moyo timagwiritsa ntchito mitundu yopitilira imodzi, koma kuti chitukuko chikhale chogwirizana komanso kupita patsogolo, ndikofunikira kuti titsegule aliyense wa iwo munthawi yake. Tangoganizani hydra yamutu iwiri, mutu umodzi umayang'ana pakuchita bwino, ndipo mutu wina umakhala ndi mfundo yopewa kulephera. Ndipo kotero, ndikofunika kuphunzira momwe mungayendetsere, kotero kuti, malingana ndi momwe zinthu zilili, mutu umodzi, ndiye wina, umalowa muzokambirana. Ayenera kuloŵa m’malo wina ndi mnzake, kupereka mpata wofotokoza maganizo awo.

Njira zodziwira matenda

Pali ochuluka a iwo, odziwika kwambiri ndi mayeso a Cattell 16-factor komanso chilimbikitso cha Wexler kuti apambane. Koma amagwiritsidwa ntchito ndi akatswiri, ndipo ndikofunikira kuti tiphunzire kudziyimira pawokha kuti ndife amtundu wanji.

Choyamba, tiyeni tiwone mutu wa hydra womwe timagwiritsa ntchito nthawi zambiri:

• Kumbukirani momwe mumadzuka m'mawa, ndi malingaliro ati omwe amabwera ndi zithunzi zotani zomwe mukuganiza? Amene akuopa kulephera amadzuka pabedi ndi nkhawa yoti achotsedwa ntchito akachedwa. Zakuti alibe nthawi yochita ntchitoyo ndiye kuti padzakhala chidzudzulo kuchokera kwa akuluakulu kapena kulandidwa bonasi ... Munthu wotere amasankha mabwenzi, akuyang'ana kwambiri kuti samapanga mikangano pafupipafupi kumva bata mukulankhulana. Iye ali wokhazikika mu maubwenzi, ndipo kawirikawiri m'moyo, ali wokonzeka kuthana ndi zopinga, pang'onopang'ono koma motsimikizika, akupita patsogolo pang'onopang'ono.
• Koma ngati chinthu choyamba mutadzuka mukuganiza za zinthu zingati zosangalatsa zomwe zikukuyembekezerani lero. Poganizira za cholinga chanu chomwe mukufuna kukwaniritsa kapena kuchuluka kwa zomwe muyenera kuchita kuti muyandikire maloto anu - ndiye kuti ndinu mtundu wamunthu womwe umangoyang'ana zotsatira zabwino. Amene amafunikira zolimbikitsa, zomwe iyemwini angakonzekere. Mwachitsanzo, kapu ya khofi kapena kukambirana ndi mnzanu mukamaliza ntchito yaing'ono. Sazengereza kwa nthawi yayitali ndikusiya ngati apeza njira yopindulitsa kwambiri. Pomwe amene akuyembekezera kulephera amakhala m'malo mwake mpaka kumapeto, mpaka kukhala wosapiririka. Amasankha mabwenzi kuti apangitse kukhala osangalatsa, kukhalira limodzi ndi kuyandikana, kuti zokonda ndi zokonda zikhale zofanana.

Monga mukuonera, mbali zonse ziwiri ndi zofunika kwa aliyense wa ife, choncho phunzirani kuzigwiritsa ntchito momasuka. Zofunika makamaka kwa atsogoleri. Kupatula apo, monga mukumvetsetsa, mphotho ndi zowopseza zimakhudza aliyense mosiyana, choncho ganiziraninso njira zanu zoyendetsera ntchito kuti mukhazikitse mayendedwe opindulitsa kwambiri.

Njira iyi yodziwira zolimbikitsa ndi yophweka kwambiri, mumangofunika kudziyang'anitsitsa nokha kapena ena, popanda mayesero ovuta komanso kuwerengera zotsatira.

Kodi kulera?

Talankhula kale kangapo za njira zomwe zimakulitsa chilimbikitso, mwachitsanzo, m'nkhani yakuti "TOP 10 njira zowonjezera chilimbikitso pamene simukudziwa choti muchite kuti muwonjezere", apa ndikuwonjezera zina zingapo. zidule:

1. Ngati pali mantha olephera, mudzalephera ndikuipiraipira, sankhani nthawi yomwe palibe amene angakusokonezeni ndikulemba malingaliro anu onse okhudza kulephera pa pepala. Nthawi zina zimachitika kuti munthu ali ndi mantha, koma manthawa alibe malire omveka bwino, ndiye kuti, zikuwoneka zomveka, koma nthawi zina zimakhala zovuta kupanga chomwe chimayambitsa mantha awa. Mwachitsanzo, ngati chinachake sichikuyenda bwino kwa inu, mutayika, ndiye ganizirani zotsatira zonse zoipa za mkhalidwewo, ndikudzifunsa nokha mafunso ochititsa chidwi: "Kodi chidzachitike ndi chiyani?", "Ndi chiyani chotsatira?" ... Ndiyeno nthawi zambiri zimachitika kuti kwenikweni, palibe choipa, n'zotheka kukhala ndi moyo, ngakhale ndi zolephera zambiri pa akaunti yanu.
2. Koma kuti asakhumudwe, munthu amene ali ndi chibadwa cha kusazindikira zenizeni pofuna kukwaniritsa cholinga ayenera kudziimitsa yekha, kumukakamiza kuti "ayang'ane pozungulira" ndi kutenga zovuta ndi kusintha kwakukulu. Ndiye mudzakhala ndi chidaliro muzochita zanu, osati kungofuna kutchuka. Pali chiopsezo kuti, atagwa nthawi zambiri, munthu amangosiya kudzikhulupirira yekha ndi mwayi wake, chifukwa cha kulakwitsa kumodzi kokha - kulephera kudziwiratu ndi kukonzekera ntchito, kupeza njira zopezera zovuta pasadakhale.
3. Ndalankhula kale m'nkhani yakuti "Nkhani zenizeni za anthu omwe apindula ndi ntchito yawo ndi kupirira" za ubwino wachifundo. Inde, pochita ntchito zabwino, mudzadzilemekeza nokha, ena adzalandira kuyamikira, kuzindikiridwa, kuyamikiridwa, ndipo zonsezi sizingakulimbikitseni kuchita. Kumvetsetsa kuti mwathandiza wina, mosasamala kanthu za zomwe mukukumana nazo ndi zosowa zanu, zidzakupatsani mphamvu kuti muchite zina. Palibe kukula kwa mbali ya makhalidwe a munthu, uzimu wake, komanso makhalidwe ake, nzeru zamaganizo.

Kutsiliza

Ndizo zonse, owerenga okondedwa! Pomaliza, ndikufuna kulangiza nkhani yanga (pano pali ulalo), womwe uli ndi mndandanda wa mafilimu ozikidwa makamaka pazochitika zenizeni kuchokera ku miyoyo ya anthu omwe adatha kukwaniritsa zomwe ankafuna, ngakhale mayesero onse omwe adayima panjira yawo.

Sangalalani kuwonera, komanso zotsatira zabwino za ntchito yanu! Ndipo musaiwale kulembetsa zosintha zamabulogu. Tikuwonani posachedwa, abwenzi!