Thor, Harry Potter, Superman - ndizomveka chifukwa chake timakonda zithunzi zabwino. Koma n’cifukwa ciani timaona kuti anthu oipa ni okopa? N’chifukwa chiyani nthawi zina mumafuna kukhala ngati iwo? Timachita ndi katswiri wa zamaganizo Nina Bocharova.
Zithunzi zokongola za Voldemort, Loki, Darth Vader ndi ngwazi zina "zakuda" zimakhudza zingwe zobisika mwa ife. Nthawi zina zimawoneka kwa ife kuti ali ngati ife - pambuyo pake, adakanidwa, kunyozedwa, kunyalanyazidwa chimodzimodzi. Pali kumverera kuti kwa iwo omwe ali "pa mbali yowala ya mphamvu", moyo unali wosavuta poyamba.
"Akatswiri ndi oyimba samawoneka okha: nthawi zonse amakhala msonkhano wamitundu iwiri, maiko awiri. Ndipo pakulimbana kwamphamvu uku, ziwembu zamakanema apamwamba padziko lonse lapansi zimamangidwa, mabuku amalembedwa, "anatero katswiri wa zamaganizo Nina Bocharova. "Ngati zonse zikuwonekera bwino ndi otchulidwa bwino, ndiye chifukwa chiyani anthu oyipa amakhala osangalatsa kwa owonera, chifukwa chiyani ena amatenga mbali yawo "yakuda" ndikudzilungamitsa zomwe achita?"
Podzizindikiritsa ndi woipayo, munthu mosazindikira amakhala naye zomwe sakanatha kuziyerekeza.
Chowonadi ndi chakuti "oyipa" ali ndi chikoka, mphamvu, chinyengo. Iwo sanali oipa nthawi zonse; kaŵirikaŵiri mikhalidwe inawapangitsa kukhala tero. Osachepera ife tikupeza chowiringula pa zochita zawo zoipa.
"Makhalidwe oipa, monga lamulo, amakhala okhudzidwa kwambiri, olimba mtima, amphamvu, anzeru. Nthawi zonse zimakhala zosangalatsa, zimadzutsa chidwi komanso zimakopa chidwi," akutero Nina Bocharova. Oipa samabadwa, amapangidwa. Palibe oyipa ndi abwino: pali oponderezedwa, othamangitsidwa, okhumudwa. Ndipo chifukwa cha izi ndizovuta zovuta, kupwetekedwa mtima kwakukulu kwamaganizo. Mwa munthu, izi zingayambitse chifundo, chifundo ndi chikhumbo chothandizira.
Aliyense wa ife amadutsa magawo osiyanasiyana m'moyo, amakumana ndi zowawa zathu, amapeza chidziwitso. Ndipo pamene tiyang’ana pa ngwazi zoipa, tikuphunzira za m’mbuyo mwawo, ife mosadziŵa timadziyesa tokha. Tiyeni titenge Voldemort yemweyo - bambo ake anamusiya, amayi ake adadzipha, sanaganize za mwana wake.
Fananizani nkhani yake ndi nkhani ya Harry Potter - amayi ake adamuteteza ndi chikondi chake, ndipo kudziwa izi kunamuthandiza kuti apulumuke ndikupambana. Zikuoneka kuti woipa Voldemort sanalandire mphamvu ndi chikondi chotero. Anadziwa kuyambira ali mwana kuti palibe amene angamuthandize ...
"Ngati muyang'ana nkhani izi kudzera mu prism ya makona atatu a Karpman, tidzawona kuti m'mbuyomo, anthu oipa nthawi zambiri ankakhala ndi udindo wa Victim, pambuyo pake, monga momwe zimachitikira mu sewero la katatu, adayesa ntchitoyo. a Wozunza kuti apitilize kusintha zinthu,” akutero katswiri. - The amaonera kapena owerenga angapeze mu «zoipa» ngwazi mbali ya umunthu wake. Mwinamwake iye mwini adadutsamo zofanana ndi zomwezo ndipo, pomvera chisoni munthu, adzasewera zomwe adakumana nazo.
Kuzindikiritsa ndi woyipayo, munthu mosazindikira amakhala naye zomwe sakanatha kulimba mtima. Ndipo amachita zimenezi mwa chifundo ndi chithandizo. Nthawi zambiri timakhala opanda chidaliro, ndipo, poyesa chithunzi cha ngwazi "yoyipa", timatengera kulimba mtima kwake, kutsimikiza mtima, ndi kufuna kwake.
Ndi njira yovomerezeka yowonetsera malingaliro anu oponderezedwa ndi oponderezedwa kudzera mufilimu kapena chithandizo cha mabuku.
Wopanduka amadzuka mwa ife amene akufuna kupandukira dziko lopanda chilungamo. Mthunzi wathu umadzutsa mutu, ndipo, kuyang'ana "oipa", sitingathenso kudzibisa kwa ife eni ndi ena.
"Munthu akhoza kukopeka ndi ufulu wolankhula wa woipayo, kulimba mtima kwake ndi chithunzi chodabwitsa, chomwe aliyense amawopa, chomwe chimamupangitsa kukhala wamphamvu komanso wosagonjetseka," akufotokoza motero Nina Bocharova. - M'malo mwake, iyi ndi njira yovomerezeka yowonetsera poyera malingaliro anu oponderezedwa ndi oponderezedwa kudzera mu kanema wa kanema kapena chithandizo chamabuku.
Aliyense ali ndi mbali ya mthunzi wa umunthu wake yomwe timayesa kubisa, kupondereza kapena kupondereza. Izi ndi malingaliro ndi mawonetseredwe omwe tingakhale nawo manyazi kapena mantha kusonyeza. Ndipo pomvera chifundo ndi ngwazi "zoipa", Mthunzi wa munthu umakhala ndi mwayi wobwera patsogolo, kuvomerezedwa, ngakhale kwa nthawi yayitali.
Mwa kuchitira chifundo ndi anthu oyipa, kugwera m'mayiko awo ongoganiza, timapeza mwayi wopita komwe sitikapitako m'moyo wamba. Tikhoza kuyika maloto athu "zoipa" ndi zokhumba zathu kumeneko, m'malo momasulira kuti zikhale zenizeni.
“Pokhala ndi munthu woipa wa nkhani yake, munthu amakhudzidwa mtima. Pamlingo wosazindikira, wowonera kapena wowerenga amakwaniritsa chidwi chake, amalumikizana ndi zilakolako zake zobisika ndipo samasamutsira ku moyo weniweni, "adatero katswiriyu.