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Lekani kunena za zabwino za amayi
Mayi wachitsanzo yemwe sangakhale kanthu koma kuleza mtima, kudzimana, kupezeka ndi kufatsa kulibe! Zoonadi, ndinu mayi ndipo udindo wanu ndi kukhalapo pamene mwana wanu akukufunani, koma pali nthawi zina pamene mumatopa, kuthedwa nzeru, kupsyinjika .... munthu, osati woyera!
Ndipo koposa zonse, dziuzeni kuti palibe amayi ena abwino, kotero palibe chifukwa choganiza kuti ena ali opambana kuposa inu, kuti ali ndi chibadwa chosalephera cha amayi, kuti mwana wawo ndi mngelo ndipo moyo wawo ngati mayi kuposa chisangalalo ...
Momwemonso ndi amayi anu omwe. Tengani maphunziro abwino kwambiri omwe mwalandira, koma musazengereze kudzipatula, mulimonse mtunda wina, kuchokera kwa chitsanzo cha amayi. Ndipo ngati pali amayi pafupi nanu omwe mumawawona kuti ndi abwino komanso odziwa bwino ntchito yanu, dzifunseni zomwe angachite mumkhalidwe wanu, tengerani machitidwe omwe mukuganiza kuti ndi oyenera, sankhani kumanja ndi kumanzere kuti mupange kalembedwe kanu.
Khalani "zabwino"
Mukufuna kukhala mayi wabwino ndipo mumamva ngati simukuchita mokwanira nthawi zonse. Chabwino, dziuzeni kuti izi ndi zomwe mwana wanu amafunikira, mayi wabwino komanso wachikondi mokwanira, koma koposa zonse, osati mwana wake yekha. Musayese kukhutiritsa mwana wanu, kuyembekezera zilakolako zake zonse, msiyeni akhale wosaleza mtima, osadzimva kukhala wolakwa pamene akuwonetsa kusakhutira kwake ... Kusakhutira ndi zokhumudwitsa ndi gawo la moyo wa munthu aliyense, kuphatikizapo chuma chanu chaching'ono.
Osapikisana pamutu wa "miss perfection"
Kudzidalira kwanu kumathetsedwa ndi mantha omwe amakulepheretsani kukhala bwino mu udindo wanu monga mayi: kuopa kuchita zoipa, kuopa kukhumudwitsa komanso kusakhala wangwiro. Nthawi zonse liwu lamkati lamkati likakuuzani kuti "Uyenera kuchita izi kapena izo, sungathe, supereka, sungathe," amutsekere chete. Limbanani mosalekeza ndi chikhumbo chanu cha ungwiro, chifukwa ndi msampha womwe umawononga ndikupangitsa amayi kudzimva kukhala olakwa. Osafunsa maganizo a aliyense, osafuna chivomerezo cha anthu onse, nthawi zonse padzakhala wina amene amapeza zolakwika. Limbikitsani ndi njira zophunzitsira zomwe mukuganiza kuti ndi zabwino, koma musatsatire imodzi mpaka lemba. Osayika mipiringidzo yokwera kwambiri, dzikhazikitseni zolinga zomwe mungathe kuzikwaniritsa, mudzapeza kudzidalira.
"Poyambirira, sankadzidalira": Jérôme, mnzake wa Laure, bambo a Léo, wa chaka chimodzi.
"Ndidawona Laure akusintha masiku angapo. Poyamba anali wopsinjika, ine
Komanso, tinalibe otsimikiza kuti tikuchita bwino. Ndinamuwona akumusamalira Leo, kumugwira pafupi, kumuyamwitsa, kumugwira, kumugwedeza, zinkawoneka ngati zopanda pake. Ndinkaganiza kuti Laure anali wangwiro, koma osati iyeyo. Ndinajambula zithunzi zambiri tsiku lililonse
Laure ndi Léo mu symbiosis. Zinali zodabwitsa ndipo m'miyezi ingapo, Laure wakhala mayi wapamwamba, wonyada ndi ife. “
Tsatirani malingaliro anu
Ndinu amene mungathe kutsimikizira mwana wanu, kuti azindikire zosokoneza zazing'ono zomwe zimatsimikizira moyo wake ali mwana. Palibe chimene chimakuthawani, kusowa chilakolako cha chakudya, kusowa tulo, kutentha thupi, mano, kukhumudwa, kutopa, mkwiyo ... Choncho dalirani nokha ndikuchita zinthu mogwirizana ndi chibadwa chanu. Pamene simukudziwa chochita, dziikeni nokha mu nsapato za mwana wanu. Dzifunseni mmene anamvera, yesani kukumbukira mmene munamvera mudakali mwana.
Yang'anani iye
Kuwona mwana wanu ndi chizindikiro chabwino kwambiri chodziwira ngati akumva bwino ... kapena ayi. Zindikirani zomwe amakonda, zomwe zimamuseketsa, zomwe amayamikira, zomwe zimamupangitsa chidwi, zomwe zimamupangitsa kumva bwino, zomwe zimamukhazika mtima pansi, zomwe zimamulimbikitsa. Sewerani naye, sangalalani chifukwa ntchito yanu ndi kulera bwino mwana wanu, komanso kukhala ndi nthawi yosangalala limodzi.
Mukhulupirireni
Kudzidalira ngati mayi ndikutha kukhulupirira mwana wanu. Ndi iye amene adzakupangani inu mayi, pa masiku, zokumana nazo, mudzatengerana wina ndi mzake, kumanga inu wina ndi mzake ndi momwe mudzakhala. mayi wabwino kwambiri padziko lapansi kwa iye!
“Sikophweka kukhala mayi wawekha! »: Laurène, amayi a Pauline, miyezi 18.
Bambo a Pauline sanavomere kukhala ndi mwana, ndinaganiza zomusungabe. Sikophweka kukhala mayi wawekha, koma ndi kusankha kwanga, sindinong'oneza bondo kalikonse. Tsiku lililonse, ndimadziuza ndekha kuti ndili ndi mwayi wokhala ndi Pauline m'moyo wanga. Iye ndi kamtsikana kodabwitsa. Kuti ndisadzipeze ndekha, ndimadalira kwambiri makolo anga, azichimwene anga, omwe ali amalume omwe alipo, ndi anzanga. Pakalipano, ndikuyesera kukondweretsa mwana wanga wamkazi, kukonza moyo wanga monga mayi, sindikuyesera kumanganso moyo wanga, koma ndine mtsikana.
amene akufuna kukhala m'chikondi. “
Landirani nkhawa zanu
Mwamvapo izi: kuti mukhale mayi wabwino, musade nkhawa chifukwa nkhawa imapatsirana ndipo mwana wanu amamva. Ndiko kulondola, mukakhala ndi nkhawa mwana wanu adzamva. Koma osadandaula pamene ndinu amayi ndizosatheka! Choncho lekani kudziimba mlandu chifukwa chodera nkhawa, vomerezani kukayikira kwanu. Apanso, ndi gawo la phukusi la amayi! Kukhala mayi kumatenga nthawi. Landirani zolakwa zanu, pitilizani kuyesa ndikulakwitsa. Yesani ndipo ngati sizikugwira ntchito, sinthani. Vomerezani kulakwitsa, m'moyo timachita zomwe tingathe, osati zomwe tikufuna. Kuvomera kudzifunsa kukupangani kukhala mayi wabwino koposa.
Asiyeni abambo atenge malo awo
Mumadziwa kusamalira mwana wanu, koma si inu nokha. Atate akenso. Osachiyika kumbuyo, lowetsani, chiloleni chitenge malo ake kuyambira pachiyambi. Amathanso kusintha matewera, kupita kokagula zinthu, kutenthetsa botolo, kukhuthula chotsukira mbale, kusamba, kukonza m’nyumba, kapena kudzuka usiku kukatonthoza kerubi wake. Muloleni achite mwanjira yake, yomwe si yofanana ndi yanu. Mgwirizano umenewu udzalimbitsa ubwenzi wanu. Aliyense adzazindikira mnzake pa udindo wake watsopano, kuyamikira mbali zatsopano za umunthu wake ndi kulimbikitsa winayo paubwana wake.
Dzikondweretseni nokha!
Pali nthawi zina tsiku lililonse pamene zonse zili pansi pa ulamuliro, mwana wanu wagona bwino, wadya bwino, akumwetulira, ndi wokongola, ndi wokondwa ndi inunso… Zinthu zikayenda bwino, zikondweretseni mumtima kuti ndinu mayi wabwino. , kuponyerana maluwa. Zindikirani mikhalidwe yanu ndikuvomera kuyamikiridwa, ndikoyenera.
Khalani mayi, koma osati izo…
Kukhalabe mkazi, wokonda, bwenzi, mnzako, wokonda zumba, ndikofunikira kuti mumve ngati mayi wabwino. Osaiwalika moyo wanu podzinamizira kuti mwana yemwe wangobadwa kumene mwadzidzidzi watenga malo akulu m'moyo wanu. Pambuyo pamwana, muyenera kupeza moyo ngati banja! Musamulole kuti atenge malo onse, sizabwino kwa iye kapena kwa inu kapena ubale wanu. Musazengereze kupatsa mwana wanu kuti azikhala yekha madzulo ndi wokondedwa wanu. Pita kunja kukadya chakudya chamadzulo, koma chenjerani: ndizoletsedwa kulankhula za wamng'ono! Pezani nthawi yopuma. Mwachidule, pezani kusanja kwatsopano pakati pa azimayi onse apadera omwe muli!
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