Akatswiri a zamaganizo, vuto lanu lalikulu ndi chiyani?

“Zovuta zake ndi zapayekha komanso zamba. Zovuta zanga zanga ndi zaumwini, kuonjezera apo, nthawi zonse sindiyesera kusinkhasinkha ndikuziyika m'mawu, nthawi zambiri ndimawasiya ali pamlingo wokhudzika komanso momwe amachitira. Ponena za vuto lalikulu, ndakhala ndikudabwa momwe zikhulupiriro za anthu, zithunzi zawo zenizeni, zimapangidwira. Kwa ambiri, iwo sali okhudzana ndi zochitika zaumwini, ndizopanda nzeru, sizitsimikiziridwa ndi chirichonse ndipo sizibweretsa kupambana ndi chisangalalo. Koma panthawi imodzimodziyo, ndi yamphamvu kwambiri kuposa zikhulupiriro zozikidwa pa zimene zinachitikira munthu. Ndipo pamene anthu oipa amakhala ndi moyo, m’pamenenso ali ndi chidaliro chowonjezereka m’chowonadi cha chithunzi chawo cha dziko lapansi ndi okonda kuphunzitsa ena. Kwa ine, vuto limeneli la malingaliro opotoka ponena za chimene chiri chenicheni ndi chimene sichili, limawoneka lovuta modabwitsa.

"Pangani psychology yofunikira ndi psychotherapy"

Stanislav Raevsky, katswiri wa Jungian:

"Ntchito yayikulu kwa ine ndikupanga ma psychology ndi psychotherapy. Kulumikizana kwa chidziwitso chamakono cha sayansi, choyamba, deta ya sayansi yamaganizo, ndi psychotherapy ya masukulu osiyanasiyana. Kupanga chinenero chodziwika bwino cha psychotherapy, chifukwa pafupifupi sukulu iliyonse imalankhula chinenero chake, chomwe, ndithudi, chimawononga chikhalidwe cha anthu ambiri komanso maganizo. Kulumikiza zaka masauzande a machitidwe achi Buddha ndi zaka zambiri zama psychotherapy amakono.

"Kulimbikitsa chitukuko cha logotherapy ku Russia"

Svetlana Štukareva, wothandizira kulankhula:

"Ntchito yofulumira kwambiri masiku ano ndikuchita zomwe zimadalira ine kuti ndipange Sukulu Yapamwamba ya Logotherapy ku Moscow Institute of Psychoanalysis pamaziko a pulogalamu yowonjezera ya maphunziro a logotherapy ndi kusanthula kukhalapo kovomerezeka ndi Viktor Frankl Institute (Vienna). Izi zidzakulitsa mwayi osati maphunziro okha, komanso maphunziro, maphunziro, achire, zodzitetezera ndi sayansi, adzalola chitukuko cha kulenga ntchito zokhudzana ndi logotherapy. Ndizosangalatsa komanso zolimbikitsa: kuthandizira pakukula kwa logotherapy ku Russia!

"Thandizani ana muzochitika zatsopano za dziko lathu lapansi"

Anna Skavitina, katswiri wa ana:

"Ntchito yayikulu kwa ine ndikumvetsetsa momwe psyche ya mwana imakulira m'dziko losintha nthawi zonse.

Dziko la ana amasiku ano omwe ali ndi zida zawo, zomwe zilipo zokhudzana ndi zinthu zoopsa komanso zosangalatsa kwambiri padziko lapansi sizinafotokozedwebe m'maganizo a maganizo. Sitikudziwa momwe tingathandizire psyche ya mwanayo kuti apirire ndi chinthu chatsopano chomwe ife sitinachitepo. Ndikofunika kwa ine kupanga malo ogwirizana ndi akatswiri a maganizo, aphunzitsi, olemba ana, akatswiri a sayansi yosiyana siyana kuti apite patsogolo pamodzi m'zinthu zosamvetsetseka za dziko lino ndikuthandizira ana ndi kukula kwawo."

“Ganiziraninso za banja ndi malo a mwanayo mmenemo”

Anna Varga, psychotherapist wabanja:

“Chithandizo cha mabanja chatsika m’nthaŵi zovuta. Ndifotokoza zovuta ziwiri, ngakhale zilipo zambiri tsopano.

Choyamba, palibe malingaliro ovomerezeka m’chitaganya ponena za chimene banja lathanzi, logwira ntchito bwino liri. Pali zosankha zambiri zamabanja:

• mabanja opanda ana (pamene okwatirana amakana mwadala kukhala ndi ana),
• mabanja ogwira ntchito ziwiri (pamene onse okwatirana apanga ntchito, ndipo ana ndi banja apatsidwa ntchito kunja),
• mabanja binuclear (kwa onse okwatirana, ukwati panopa si woyamba, pali ana ochokera m'maukwati akale ndi ana obadwa mu ukwati uwu, nthawi ndi nthawi kapena nthawi zonse amakhala pamodzi),
• amuna kapena akazi okhaokha,
• maukwati oyera (pamene okwatirana samagonana mwadala).

Ambiri a iwo akuchita bwino. Chifukwa chake, ma psychotherapists ayenera kusiya udindo wawo ndipo, pamodzi ndi makasitomala, amapanga zomwe zili zabwino kwa iwo pazochitika zilizonse. Zikuwonekeratu kuti izi zimabweretsa zofuna zowonjezereka pa kusalowerera ndale kwa psychotherapist, kukula kwa malingaliro ake, komanso kulenga.

Kachiwiri, njira zamakono zoyankhulirana ndi mtundu wa chikhalidwe zasintha, choncho ubwana wokhazikika ukutha. Izi zikutanthauza kuti palibenso mgwirizano wolera bwino ana.

Sizikudziwika bwino zomwe mwanayo ayenera kuphunzitsidwa, zomwe banja liyenera kumupatsa nthawi zonse. Choncho, m'malo moleredwa, tsopano m'banja, mwanayo amaleredwa nthawi zambiri: amadyetsedwa, kumwa madzi, kuvala, safuna chilichonse kuchokera ku zomwe ankafuna kale (mwachitsanzo, thandizo la ntchito zapakhomo), amamutumikira. mwachitsanzo, amamutenga m’makapu).

Makolo kwa mwana ndi omwe amamupatsa ndalama zam'thumba. Ulamuliro wabanja wasintha, tsopano pamwamba pake nthawi zambiri amakhala mwana. Zonsezi kumawonjezera nkhawa ambiri ndi neuroticism ana: makolo nthawi zambiri sangachite monga gwero maganizo ndi thandizo kwa iye.

Kubwerera izi ntchito kwa makolo, choyamba muyenera kusintha olamulira banja, «m'munsi» mwana kuchokera pamwamba pansi, kumene iye, monga wodalira, ayenera kukhala. Koposa zonse, makolo amatsutsa izi: kwa iwo, zofuna, ulamuliro, kasamalidwe ka mwanayo zimatanthauza nkhanza kwa iye. Ndipo zimatanthauzanso kusiya mwana-centrism ndikubwerera ku ukwati umene wakhala "kusonkhanitsa fumbi pakona", chifukwa nthawi zambiri zimagwiritsidwa ntchito potumikira mwanayo, kuyesa kukhala naye paubwenzi, kukumana ndi chipongwe. pa iye ndi kuopa kutaya kukumana naye.