Kulumikizana ndi inu nokha ndikugonjetsa mantha anu kudzakuthandizani kuika patsogolo moyo wanu. Musaope kusankha, musaope kukhala nokha. Zingakhale kuti moyo wanu wonse wakhala ukukana chinthu chofunika kwambiri. Komabe, sikunachedwe kukonza zinthu.
1. Mawu osakira
Tengani pepala, lembani pa izo: "Zokhumba zanga zazikulu" - ndipo tchulani aliyense wa iwo ndi mawu amodzi. Osadziletsa ndipo musayese kuwoneka m'maso mwanu ngati wina. Zirizonse zomwe ziri: banja, ntchito, zokonda kapena moyo waumwini - izi ndi zosowa zanu. Ichi chidzakhala poyambira zisankho zina zonse zomwe ziyenera kupangidwa.
2. Moyo waumwini
Kwa ambiri aife, moyo waumwini ndi chimodzi mwazinthu zofunika kwambiri. Koma pankhani ya malingaliro, zinthu nthawi zambiri zimakhala zovuta. Ngati mukuona kuti simukukhutira, dzifunseni kuti: Kodi mukusowa chiyani? Mwina nthawi ndi okondedwa, chidwi kapena zodabwitsa. Lembani zosowa zanu.
Kenako lankhulani ndi mzimu wanu. Chitani izi panthawi yomwe nonse mukumva bwino. Yambani ndi mbali zabwino za ubale wanu, kenako lembani zomwe zikusowa. Osafuna kuti wokondedwa wanu akuyankheni msanga. M’malo mwake, m’pempheni kuti adzifunse mafunso omwewo, ndiyeno bwererani kukambitsiranako.
Nonse mukazindikira zosowa zanu, yang'anani njira zomwe mungathe pamodzi. Kenako chitanipo kanthu - aliyense azichita yekha.
Pambuyo pa nthawi yoyeserera yomwe mumavomerezana mosiyana - ikhale nthawi yomwe mwadziyika nokha - fufuzani. Kambiranani ngati mwakhutitsidwa ndi zotsatira zake. Kodi muli bwino limodzi? Kodi china chilichonse chingawongoleredwe? Ingokumbukirani kuti cholinga chanu sikuti muziimba mlandu mnzanu chifukwa cha zolakwa zake, koma kuti musangalatse.
3. Album ya matalente
Patulani madzulo aulere pa izi, konzani cholembera ndi kope. Tengani zinthu zomwe zingakuthandizeni kukumbukira zakale: zithunzi, zikumbutso ... Kumbukirani nthawi zomwe munali osangalala, mukusangalala, kunyada, kukhutira. Nchiyani chimawagwirizanitsa? Munatani?
Mwina mudakonda kuphika, kapena kutsogolera anthu, kapena kulenga. Awa ndi luso lanu. Ajambule mu kope ndikudzipereka polemba kuti mukhale ndi nthawi yowapanga. Ganizirani za komwe mungagwiritse ntchito luso lanu m'moyo.
4. Kuyika pa ntchito
Pozindikira malingaliro osazindikira, timachepetsa chikoka chawo.
“Khalani angwiro.” Kuopa kusagwira ntchitoyo mwangwiro kumakupangitsani kuyang'ana zolakwika mmenemo ndipo kumabweretsa nkhawa yowonjezereka komanso kufunafuna kuvomerezedwa ndi akuluakulu. Ndi bwino kutenga zoopsa zapakatikati kusiyana ndi kuwononga mphamvu pa macheke osatha.
"Yesetsani." Chikhulupiriro chakuti zosangalatsa ndi ntchito sizigwirizana: “Simungathe ngakhale kutulutsa nsomba m’dziwe popanda khama.” Mwina mukuganiza kuti zimene zimabwera mosavuta sizigwira ntchito. Mkhalidwe umenewu umabweretsa kutopa kwambiri. Perekani zokonda kumapulojekiti omwe mungazindikire luso.
Khalani okoma mtima kwambiri. Mkhalidwe umene umatikakamiza kuti tizisamalira ena modzifunira tokha. Chotsatira chake n’chakuti nthawi zambiri timakhala m’mbuyo mwa anthu onse amene mokoma mtima analoledwa kuloŵa. Zotsatira zake ndi kusakhutira ndi kusowa kwa kukula kwa ntchito. Ngati izi zikumveka bwino kwa inu, ndi nthawi yoti muphunzire kukana.
“Uyenera kukhala wamphamvu.” Zimatipangitsa ife kulephera kulephera ndi nkhope yamwala, kunyalanyaza malingaliro olakwika. Zikumveka ngati lingaliro labwino, koma samalani: khalidweli likhoza kukopa mabwana ankhanza. Bwino phunzirani kuyankha zakukhosi kwanu ndikuziwonetsa.
“Bwerani msanga”. Nkhawa za nthawi yowonongeka - ndi nkhanza za kusakhalapo ndi nkhawa zomwe zimapangitsa. Nkhawa zimatilepheretsa kuyang'ana, ndipo zododometsa zimatipangitsa kumva kuti ndife olakwa chifukwa chosagwira ntchito mokwanira.
Chotsatira chake ndi kusadzilemekeza tokha, chifukwa timayika mipiringidzo yapamwamba kwambiri kwa ife tokha ndipo sitimafika. Pankhaniyi, muyenera kuchepetsa pang'ono ndikuzindikira zomwe mungakwanitse.