Psychology

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Nkhaniyi inasindikizidwa mu N 19/2000 ya mlungu uliwonse «School Psychologist» ya nyumba yosindikizira "First of September". Ufulu wonse wa bukuli ndi wa wolemba komanso wosindikiza.

Zomwe zaperekedwazo zikufotokoza mwachidule zomwe zinachitikira pamsonkhanowo "Mchitidwe Woyendetsa Magulu a Maphunziro a Social and Psychological Training", womwe ukuchitikira kwa chaka chachiwiri ku Center for Humanitarian Research "Amber" ku Ufa. M'magazini otsiriza a December a «School Psychologist» (onani No. 48, 1999), ndinawerenga ndemanga zosangalatsa kwambiri za buku la NI Kozlov «Formula of Personality». Zikuwoneka kwa ine kuti adawonetsa chizolowezi chozindikira mabuku otchuka (m'mawu osiyanasiyana) a NI Kozlov ndi ntchito ya tsiku ndi tsiku pa pulogalamu ya Synton. Ndipo izi sizowona kwathunthu. Monga ndikudziwira, izi sizikugwirizana ngakhale ndi NI Kozlov. M'zochita zake, amakhala wochenjera komanso woyezera kuposa m'malemba.

Kugwira ntchito zaka zisanu ndi ziwiri zapitazi pamapulogalamu osiyanasiyana ophunzitsira, kuphatikiza pulogalamu ya Synton, kulumikizana ndi atsogoleri, ndi akatswiri azamisala anzanga mumzinda wathu komanso m'dziko lonselo (mwa makalata), nditha kuchitira umboni kuti zowonadi maphunziro a Synton (omwe, mwa njira, osadzinenera kuti ndikuwongolera kapena ntchito yochizira) imakhala yothandiza kwambiri, yopambana komanso yopezeka kuti igwiritsidwe ntchito.

Ndimapereka zakuthupi (ndi kufotokozera mwatsatanetsatane za machitidwe ndi zitsanzo), momwe "modekha mowolowa manja" (mawu a anzanga omwe amagwiritsanso ntchito njira za Syntonian ndi omwe ndinawatumizira malembawo kuti awonedwe-kuwongolera) akufotokoza momwe zinthu zilili. Mwina mwanjira iyi tidzatsimikizira ambiri ndikukopa chidwi cha akatswiri a zamaganizo kuzinthu zothandiza za ntchito zamagulu a Sinton.

ZOFUNIKA Kufotokozera

Lankhulani za zomwe Sinton ali (ndi zomwe Synton sali) zakhala zikuchitika kwa nthawi yayitali. M'malingaliro anga, pali mafunso awiri apa: Sinton ndi chiyani lero ndipo zikhala zotani. Mwa njira, funso lachiwiri silifanana ndi funso lakuti "Kodi tikufuna kuwona chiyani Sinton m'tsogolomu?" Kuyeserera kumapambana chiphunzitso, sichoncho?

Lililonse la mafunsowa lili ndi milingo yake. Lero Sinton ndi:

- mapulogalamu a semina ndi maphunziro, kuphatikiza pulogalamu ya Synton;

- maphunziro apamwamba ndi maphunziro;

- anthu omwe amapita ku maphunziro;

- Kapangidwe ka bungwe;

- omwe akubwera (zaka 15 sizinali nthawi) malangizo mu gulu, mozama - psychology yothandiza.

Ndimakonda kuyitana zonsezi pamodzi teknoloji ya Synthon, chifukwa funso lalikulu, m'malingaliro mwanga, ndi momwe Synthon amagwirira ntchito komanso momwe angagwiritsire ntchito bwino.

SYNTON LERO

Pali mitundu ingapo ya pulogalamu ya Synthon. Choyamba, akale akale (kuchokera «Contact Gulu» kuti «Sexology»), amene, ine ndine mboni, akadali amphamvu ndi workable njira. Kachiwiri, "Psychology yothandiza tsiku lililonse" ndi Dmitry Ustinov. Chachitatu, njira yomwe poyamba inkatchedwa "Synthon-95" - kuchokera ku "Zovuta Masewera" kupita ku "Moyo Waumwini". Chachinayi, "Synthon-98", chomwe chimasiyana ndi ena onse osati m'dzina ndi masanjidwe a masewera olimbitsa thupi, komanso pazochitika zaumwini.

Owonetsa oyambira amatulutsanso pulogalamuyo pafupifupi (m'matembenuzidwe amtsogolo a Sinton, zambiri zimatengera udindo wake, chidziwitso ndi kuya kwaumunthu kwa Kozlov mwiniwake, ndipo izi sizikuwulutsidwanso 100%). Atsogoleri omwe ali amphamvu komanso odziwa zambiri (ndipo inenso) ndimayendetsa pulogalamuyo "kwa iwo eni" kuti imveke bwino komanso imagwira ntchito mwamphamvu komanso moona mtima.

Mwa njira iyi,

Pulogalamu ya synthon imakhalapo m'matembenuzidwe atatu: omwe amatsogoleredwa ndi Nikolai Ivanovich; mu zomwe zingatchedwe kopi (kutsanzira koyambira, ndipo izi sizoyipa - choyamba muyenera chonchi); mu zomwe owonetsa odziwa zambiri amapanga pulogalamu ya Synthon.

Zonse izi

Pulogalamu ya synton, popeza imasunga zoyambira ndi zonse zomwe sizitha, ngakhale zimaperekedwa ndikutanthauzira mosiyana.

KUCHOKERA KU MOYO MPAKA KU MOYO…

Ngati tilingalira pulogalamu ya Synton mu mawonekedwe ake apakati, ndiye kuti, osakometsedwa ndi ntchito yabwino (kapena, mosiyana, yosafunika) ya owonetsa, ndiye kuti mfundo zazikuluzikulu zotsatirazi zitha kusiyanitsa.

Pali chikhalidwe chothandizira mu pulogalamu ya Synton, yolimbikitsa munthu, kumuyesa bwino. Ambiri a gulu amabwera m'makalasi ndendende chifukwa cha izi, kuti azilankhulana mwachifundo komanso mophweka, kuti avomerezedwe ndi kuthandizidwa, mokulirapo - pazanzeru komanso zosangalatsa zomwe sizipezeka kwina kulikonse. Ndipo kalabu ikupereka. Zonena za mtsogoleri wa zikhulupiriro zotere ndi malingaliro osawonongeka zimangonyalanyazidwa.

Ophunzira amayamba kuganiza mozama: malingaliro olakwika ("zovuta") amamasuka. Momwe Igor Guberman amamveketsa bwino:

Munthu akatiphunzitsa moyo

Nthawi yomweyo ndikusowa chonena.

Moyo wa chitsiru

Inenso ndatero.

Anthu amtundu wa Sinton amakumana ndi zovuta zosiyanasiyana - zamaganizo komanso zamakhalidwe. Chidziŵitso cha kufunsa mafunso ndi chokumana nacho cha kupeza mayankho chimapezedwa pamene tizoloŵerana ndi kusiyanasiyana kwa malingaliro a anthu ena ndi popenda khalidwe la munthu m’zochita zosiyanasiyana. Mitu yosiyanasiyana imachokera ku zamba mpaka kukhalapo (existential). Ndipo pulogalamu ya Synton sipereka mayankho. Osachepera mayankho otsimikizika.

Chikhalidwe ndi kuganiza mozama kukukula. Mwachibadwa, osati m’mawu athunthu, koma mogwirizana ndi zimene munthuyo anabwera nazo. China ndi chiyani? Komanso kuphunzira mfundo zosavuta za khalidwe lopanda mikangano ndi zidule zaukadaulo, zomwe, kusiya mafunso "chiyani?" ndi "chifukwa chiyani?" Yankhani funso lakale la psychology yothandiza "motani?". Mwachilungamo, ziyenera kunenedwa kuti gawo la zinthu zoterezi mu pulogalamu ya Synthon ndi yaying'ono. Ku chisangalalo cha wina, kukhumudwitsa wina, koma ndi zoona.

Zonse? Ayi, ndithudi, padakalipo maganizo a banja ndi ukwati, maganizo a amuna ndi akazi, maganizo a moyo ndi maganizo pa imfa, maganizo a kugonana ndi maubwenzi a kholo ndi ana, ndipo pali zambiri. Koma zonsezi zimasiyana muzochitika zenizeni za atsogoleri osiyanasiyana.

ZIMENE TILI NAZO NTHAWI ZONSE

Nthawi zonse timakhala ndi:

- kuthandizira chikhumbo chofuna kulankhulana ndi anthu ndikukula-kusintha;

- thandizo pakukula kwa kuganiza ndi kuwululidwa kwa mafunso ambiri am'maganizo ndi anzeru omwe muyenera kuyankha nokha pakukula kwanu;

- mayankho opezeka kawirikawiri - ndikugogomezera zothandiza kwambiri pamagulu (mozama), kuzindikira zoopsa zomwe zingatheke, zowonjezera ndi zolakwika za zosankha zosiyanasiyana.

Izi ndi zomwe pulogalamu ya Synthon ili mkati mwake, momwe makalasi enieni, machitidwe, machitidwe ndi umunthu wa atsogoleri amamangidwa. Kuphatikizapo, mwa njira, umunthu wa Nikolai Ivanovich Kozlov yekha.

KOZLOV NDI SINTON

Nikolai Ivanovich, ndithudi, amabweretsa zinthu zina zambiri kuchokera kwa iye. Koma kuyambira pomwe adalengeza za transmissibility (transferability) ya njira za Synton, adakana (kwenikweni, ndipo zilibe kanthu zomwe zikuwoneka kwa ife) chifukwa chakuti ndiye yekhayo amene amatsimikizira tanthauzo la Synton. pulogalamu. Kuyambira nthawi imeneyo, adasiyana ndikukhala moyo wake. Ndipo tsopano Kozlov ndi Sinton, koma

- si Kozlov yekha. Ichi ndi chitsogozo mu ntchito zamakono zamagulu amaganizo.

ATSOGOLERI NDI KAKHALIDWE KANKHANI

Kotero ife tiri ndi zotsatirazi.

  • Synton-program ndi satellite training-courses-seminars.
  • Sinton-atsogoleri ndi otsogolera semina-maphunziro. Izi zitha kufanana kapena sizingafanane. Nthawi zambiri kalabu imakhala ndi wolandila wa Synthon. Bwino ngati si yekha.
  • Atsogoleri ena nthawi zina amabwera ku kalabu yokhazikitsidwa kale ndikuchita zinazake nthawi imodzi kapena pafupipafupi (kubadwanso, kapena njira ya zingwe, mwachitsanzo).

Ndizotheka kuti pulogalamu ya Synton yokha imatengedwa kuwonjezera pa zomwe zilipo kale. Ndikuganiza kuti ndi zabwinonso.

Zikuwonekeratu kuti atsogoleri apafupi a Synton amatha kuwoneka pafupi ndi atsogoleri amphamvu a Synton. Kupanda kutero, owonetsa ma syntonian adzakhala pafupi ndi china chake. Chifukwa chake palinso zosankha zingapo za Sinton:

- chibonga cholimba, komwe kuli zinthu zambiri;

- kalabu komwe kuli magulu angapo a Sinton (ndi atsogoleri);

- kalabu komwe kuli magulu angapo, koma pali mtsogoleri mmodzi;

- gulu chabe, ndi kalabu;

- gulu kapena magulu pansi pa dongosolo lina.

Ku Sinton, makalasi amagulu amachitika kamodzi pa sabata kwa maola 3-4. Kwenikweni, ndi magulu awa omwe amapanga maziko a ntchito za kalabu. Zina zonse zili pafupi, ngati zilipo. Kapangidwe ka makalasi chifukwa cha zochitika ndithu standardized. Zolinga zazikulu ndi zolinga zofanana. Pali cholembera chofotokozera pulogalamu ya Synton, pomwe ma contour amawonetsedwanso.

Ngati mtsogoleri atenga zidutswa za makalasi ndi kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi kulikonse, kuphatikizapo m'mabuku a maphunziro a Sinton, ndikumanga chinthu chokha chodziwika kwa iye, ndiye kuti akhoza kuchita bwino, koma si mtsogoleri wa Sinton ndi ana ake ku mawonetseredwe a Synton, mwinamwake, osagwira ntchito. . Ndi zosiyana basi.

Chifukwa chake, mu kalabu ya Sinton pali mtsogoleri m'modzi wophunzitsidwa bwino wa gulu la Synton (ndi gululo), komanso atsogoleri ena ambiri, magulu ena ndi maphunziro owonjezera ndi atsogoleri awo. Ndipo pakati pa maphunziro owonjezera angakhale maphunziro. Kuphatikiza atsogoleri a Sinton. Ngati kalabuyo igwera mu danga ili, ndiye kuti ndi kalabu ya Sinton pagawo limodzi lachitukuko. Ngakhale ngati sanali woyenera kukhala ndi ufulu wodziwika ndi dzinali. Funso la khalidwe ndi losiyana. Koma ili ndi funso lofunika kwambiri.

WORKSHOP NDI MBUYE

Palinso master workshop. Izi sizofanana ndi magawo ophunzitsira, ngakhale ali mumsonkhanowu. Awa ndi malo omwe osati kokha mwanzeru komanso mwanzeru, koma amakhala, omwe amabala Sinton osati mochulukira, komanso amasuntha moyenerera, amakumana. Kumene malingaliro amawombana ndikuphatikizana, ndi kuti - izi ndizofunikira - akatswiri amatuluka ndikukula.

Kuwonjezera pa Kozlov, palinso atsogoleri odziwika bwino, koma amadziwika ku Sinton, osati mu psychology yaikulu. Ndipo, ngakhale buku la Sasha Lyubimov lasindikizidwa kale mu mndandanda wa NLP, palibe ziwerengero zazikulu zomwe zimasiyana kwambiri ndi njira ya Sinton. (Monga, mwachitsanzo, Jung, Horney, Fromm mu psychoanalysis, Bandura ndi Skinner mu khalidwe, Grinder, Bandler, Atkinson ndi Diltz mu NLP, Reich, Lowen ndi Feldenkrais mu njira yolunjika thupi. Izi mu psychology sizinafe ndi oyambitsa awo , chifukwa panali anthu oposa mmodzi kapena awiri ofunika, panalibe ophunzira okhulupirika okha, komanso oganiza oyambirira ndi olimba mtima.)

Ndikukhulupirira kuti chikhalidwe cha Sinton sichingalole kuti wina aliyense aziganiziridwa kuti ndi wampatuko kapena wampatuko, ndipo ngati tikufuna kuti Sinton akhale wovuta kwambiri m'maganizo, ndiye kuti ntchito yathu ndikuyang'ana ndi kulimbikitsa omwe angalemeretse.

ANTHU MU SYNTON

Pano tiyenera kuunikira nthawi yomweyo chinthu chachikulu: ziribe kanthu momwe Sinton akhazikitsa zolinga zapamwamba komanso zamakhalidwe, anthu sayenera kubwera kwa ife. Izi ndi zomwe tili ndi ngongole kwa iye. Ndipo tiyenera kupita kwa anthu ndi zomwe akusowa, osati ndi zomwe tikusowa kuchokera kwa iwo. Ndipo ngati zabwino zathu ziyenera kubzalidwa, ndiyeno kusungidwa mokakamiza, ndiye kuti tikuchita cholakwika. Chifukwa iye, anthu, ali ndi makhalidwe ake (ndi osiyana kwambiri). Inde, pali zapadziko lonse lapansi komanso zazikulu: zabwino, nzeru, chikondi, moyo, ufulu, njira, etc. Koma ndizosiyananso kwa anthu.

Chodetsa nkhawa cha Synton ndi chakuti sizokwanira kwa aliyense, koma - makamaka - kwa onse omwe Synton angakhale othandiza.

Anthu amabwera ku Sinton kuti adzatenge china chake. Pachifukwa ichi, amalipira ndalama zamakalabu, amakhala wochezeka kwa omwe akukhala nawo ndipo nthawi zina amathandiza gulu lake kapena amangolikonda. Koma kufuna zonsezi monga nkhani ya “ngongole kwa Sinton” sizovuta komanso zowononga kwa Sinton.

Zikuwonekeratu kuti pamodzi ndi zomwe munthu akufuna kutenga (wakhwima kale), tikhoza kupereka mowolowa manja kwambiri. Ndipo ngati munthu, ndi chithandizo chathu, atenga, ndiko kuti, akuganiza mozama ndikukula kuposa momwe adakonzera, ndi zabwino. Koma ngati «omwe sali okondwa, ine ndiwerama mu nyanga ya nkhosa», monga Barmaley adanena, ndiye - tiyeni tiwerenge buku la NI Kozlov "Momwe mungadzichitire nokha ndi anthu", ndipo tidzamvetsetsa izi poyamba, tisanabweretse chisangalalo. ndi ubwino kwa ena, tiyenera kudzichitira tokha. Ndiyeno ganiziraninso. Anthu alibe ngongole kwa Sinton!

Ndipo ndi anthu otani omwe angafune Sinton? Mwa zinachitikira - ophunzira, achinyamata ogwira ntchito. (zaka 17-27 - zovuta za kudzizindikiritsa ego ndi zokolola, "Ndine ndani?" ndi "Kodi ndikuchita chiyani m'moyo wanga?" Komabe, mafunsowa amakhudzanso omwe ali achikulire, koma ku Sinton amawaphunzitsa m'malo mwake kuphunzitsa. kuti afunse mafunso oterowo ndi kufunafuna yankho lawo pawokha kusiyana ndi mmene amayankhira mwachindunji.) M’mawu ake tingati, anthu amene amaganiza ndipo kaŵirikaŵiri amakonda kufunsa mafunso. Komanso kwa anthu omwe sakhala bwino (maganizo). Anthu omwe amafunafuna chikondi ndi kulandiridwa kwamalingaliro.

KWA ALIYENSE WAKE WAKE: NJIRA YA OPTIMALIST

Pulogalamu ya synthon imamangidwa m'njira yoti phunziro lililonse mitu ikuzama, ntchitoyo imakhala yovuta, ndipo anthu amakula. The zikuchokera magulu kusintha pa chaka (ndi pafupifupi zikuchokera 25-35 anthu), nthawi zina ndi lachitatu, ndipo nthawi zina theka. Ndiko kuti, ena amabwera ndipo ena amapita. (Ngati mukufuna, amachotsedwa.) Malinga ndi zomwe ndikuwona, amachoka pamene mutu womwe uli pafupi ndi wofunikira kwa iwo watha ndipo chinachake chomwe sichili pafupi ndi iwo chikuyamba. Zimachitika (ndipo kaŵirikaŵiri) kuti anthu amabwera pakatha chaka chimodzi kapena ziwiri n’kunena kuti: “Mwina simundikumbukira. Kenako ndinachoka (kumanzere), osafika kumapeto. Zinali zovuta kwa ine ndiye (wotopa). Ndipo tsopano ndikusangalatsidwa nazo. "

Ndiko kuti, munthu amatenga zomwe akufunikira tsopano komanso momwe angathere, kuvomereza ndi "kugaya". Kwa ena, akhoza kubwera pambuyo pake. Mwina izo nzokwanira kwa iye. Mwina adzabwera kwinakwake. Chifukwa pali njira zambiri, ndipo zimangokhalira pamwamba pa phirilo.

Synthon siigwira ntchito kwa osankhidwa omwe amawakonda omwe amawakonda, koma osati kwa aliyense (chifukwa ndiye kuti palibe vuto la pulogalamuyo), koma amapereka aliyense wake, zomwe ndimatcha njira yabwino kwambiri yogwirira ntchito ngati. motsutsana ndi minimalist ndi maximalist, ndiye pali anthu omasuka opanda malamulo ndi kufanana koyenera koyenera, motsatana.

MAPHUNZIRO A ATSOGOLERI

N’zoonekeratu kuti atsogoleri amafunika kuphunzitsidwa. Ndipo osati (ndipo nthawi zambiri osati kwambiri) pulogalamu ya Synton, koma luso lofunikira la ntchito yamagulu ndi ntchito zamaganizo ambiri. Ndiko kuti, luso laumwini ndi luso - choyamba, ndi luso logwira ntchito ndi gulu - kachiwiri. Ndipo pokhapo - pulogalamu ya Synton: ntchito ndi thupi ndi mawu (makamaka!), Njira zomveka bwino. Otsogolera amapatsidwa chidziwitso cha mawonekedwe a gulu la Sinton ndi momwe angayendetsere, za mapangidwe a zikhalidwe ndi zikhalidwe, za zolakwika zokhazikika komanso zoyenera kuchita ndi zonsezi.

MMENE SYNTON AMAPANGIDWA

Ndikofunikiranso kuyankha funso lalikulu laukadaulo: momwe zimachitikira. Chifukwa chiyani timalankhula za Sinton ngati njira yapadera, osati ngati ina (ngakhale yopambana) kuyesa kuchepetsa zochitika zakale ndi zatsopano muzochita zolimbitsa thupi (onani, mwachitsanzo, mabuku a AS Prutchenkov kapena VI Garbuzov).

Zikuwonekeratu kuti amene amagwiritsa ntchito masewera olimbitsa thupi kuchokera kumagulu akadali kutali kwambiri ndi ntchito yeniyeni malinga ndi Sinton, monga momwe amadziwira njira ya "mpando wotentha" sali Gestaltist konse, komanso amadziwa. momwe mungasiyanitsire "Lowen arch" ndi "pose uta" sikuti ndi katswiri wokhudzana ndi thupi, ndipo kuwerenga za ma calibration ndi anangula si "nelper".

Choyamba, tiyeni tinene chinthu chachikulu. Synthon si dziko losiyana, osati chiphunzitso, osati filosofi yosudzulana ndi moyo. Ilibenso nzeru kuposa njira za Fritz Perls kapena Jakob Moreno.

Synthon ndi teknoloji yomwe osati woyambitsa wake NI Kozlov, koma munthu aliyense wophunzitsidwa. Makamaka luso logwira ntchito ndi anthu. Ndipo mwa njira, munthu wophunzitsidwa bwino komanso waluso sangangogwira ntchito, komanso amakhala ndi malingaliro opitilira, kuwonetsa zomwe apeza, mawonekedwe otseguka, ndi zina zambiri. Synthon ndiukadaulo wotseguka.

Nthawi yomweyo, Sinton si tekinoloje yokhayo komanso yosasinthika momwe muli "kudziwa" pa sitepe iliyonse osati mawu osavuta. Ayi konse. Synton, monga ukadaulo wamba, wowona, amawona kupindula kwaukadaulo wina ngati bizinesi. Ngati kokha zikanagwira ntchito.

Synthon si dziko. Simukuyenera kukhala molingana ndi Sinton, muyenera kugwira ntchito molingana ndi izi - kuphatikiza nokha. Ndipo muyenera kukhala m'dziko. Ilinso ndi yankho ku kalata yochokera kwa m'modzi mwa omwe akukhala ku Sinton ochokera ku our country: ngati "ku Sinton ndidzakhala zomwe ndikufuna, koma ndituluka - ndipo bwino, tchati ichi ndi malamulo ...", ndiye "kupanga ndalama." ndipo, mokulira, bodza «.

Ma charter ndi malamulo safunikira mwa iwo okha (zindikirani kuti sizofunika, ndizofunika, ndiko kuti, ndizothandiza), koma kuti luso la zomanga - syntonic - kulumikizana kukhazikitsidwe, kulowa m'moyo ndikuthandizidwa. kukhala ndi moyo. Mu sayansi, izi zimatchedwa internalization - kuchitapo kanthu mwatsatanetsatane komwe kumayambitsa kuphunzira ndikugwiritsanso ntchito.

Monga «sabata kwa munthu», momwemonso pangano la moyo, osati mosemphanitsa. Charter ndi masewera omwe amatengedwa mu kalabu kuti bizinesi yothandiza ikhale yokhazikika. Ndipo kuyibweretsa m'moyo, makamaka ngati maziko ake, sikuli koyenera. Moyo sagwirizana ndi chimango, ndi wolemera, pepani chifukwa cha banality.

Monga momwe afilosofi anandifotokozera, pali chiphunzitso cha Godel chotere: "M'dongosolo lililonse lovuta kuli ndi maudindo omwe ali osatsimikizirika komanso osatsutsika mkati mwa dongosolo lino." Moyo, monga ndikumvetsetsa, ndi dongosolo lomwe ndi lovuta kwambiri kuti musatenge mozama kulira kwa "osati molingana ndi charter!". Kuphatikizapo kudzikuwa.

Kugwira ntchito pawekha kulinso moyo, koma si moyo wonse. Chifukwa ntchito pawekha iyenera kukhala ya chinachake, osati pa yokha. Ndipo mu ntchitoyi payenera kukhala mfundo yokwanira yokwanira. A mtundu wa «chitetezo kwa chitsiru» kuti overheat. Zokwanira ndi pamene moyo umagwira ntchito ndikupereka zotsatira zatanthauzo.

Ndipo m'moyo, payenera kukhala kupuma pantchito. Chifukwa ndiye - zinthu zina kukhala zofanana - mudzachita zambiri.

MALO NDI UDINDO

Sikuti aliyense amafunikira synthon, komanso, sipanacea pa chilichonse. Sinton amagwira ntchito zaka zake komanso zokumana nazo (anthu omwe amapeza ndalama zapakatikati azaka zapakati pa 17-40; olandidwa kwambiri, ndiye kuti, osowa, sangapite kuno). Imayang'ana pa maziko ena amalingaliro ndi njira, komanso zofunikira zapadziko lonse lapansi komanso zachikhalidwe m'matanthauzidwe enieni (osati asokonezedwe ndi kukonda chuma).

Mwachindunji komanso mwachidule: Synton amachita ndi anthu azaka zaunyamata ndi achikulire omwe ali pafupi ndi chikhalidwe, amagwira ntchito kuti akule ndi chitukuko (m'malo mowongolera), kuti azitha kusintha (kupambana) kuyanjana (fufuzani malo anu padziko lapansi ndi anthu) komanso kuwulula kuthekera kopanga kwa munthu. Zonse.

Zikuwonekeratu kuti uku sikupezeka kwa America, psychology yonse imagwira ntchito izi. Inde ndendende. Synthon ndi chitsogozo mu psychology, ndipo imagwira ntchito mofanana ndi psychology yonse. Chifukwa chake, okonda kulowa nawo Chibvumbulutso chowona chokha alibe chochita apa.

Zina zonse ndi luso komanso mikhalidwe yapadera ya atsogoleri komanso nkhani yaukadaulo.

M'kati mwa njira zomwe zilipo kale zogwirira ntchito m'magulu, pulogalamu ya Synton ndi yotalikirapo (mosiyana ndi yozama) yophunzitsa kulankhulana, kukula kwaumwini ndi chitukuko cha luso (mosiyana ndi kuwongolera kapena maphunziro), zomwe zimaphatikizapo zinthu za ntchito ya T-magulu. , magulu olankhulana okhazikika pamitu, ndi magulu okumana. (mawu akuti "gulu la misonkhano", m'malingaliro athu, amasokoneza kwambiri zenizeni zenizeni), magulu ophunzitsira luso komanso masewera ochita masewera olimbitsa thupi.

Sinton samatsutsa njira iliyonse, iyo, monga njira zina, imapereka maziko ake ndi zida zake zothetsera mavuto omwe akupezekapo.

ZOPHUNZITSA, KUONA NDI KUDZIWA KWAKHALIDWE

Kuchepetsa libido…

D. Leontiev

Ntchito iliyonse imatha kuonedwa ngati yaukadaulo pokhapokha ngati palibe zochita mwachisawawa, zopanda nzeru zomwe zilibe cholinga chodziwika. The muyezo wa ntchito akatswiri ndi khola reproducibility zotsatira. Komanso, imodzi yomwe zotsatira zake zimaperekedwa kwa kasitomala m'dziko lake lenileni, osati mu chithunzi choyambirira chamalingaliro.

Mwachidule, ngati tiyamba kutsimikizira kasitomala kuti pali "super-ego", "Kholo ndi Mwana", "sublimated libido", "quasi-zosowa" padziko lapansi, ndiyeno "titsegula maso ake" kuti tidziwe. kuti wake wapamwamba- The ego ndi Kholo lake, amene amakakamiza sublimation wa libido kudzera quasi-zosowa, tikhoza kukwaniritsa modzidzimutsa mofuula: "Ndi zimenezo!", Koma izi si ntchito. Osati pano. Tsopano, ngati zonsezi (kapena zina) mawu tinsel amathandiza munthu kulunjika pa chinachake, kuvomereza (kapena kupanga ndi kuvomereza) kusintha kwaumwini komwe kuli kothandiza kwa iye ndi iwo omwe ali pafupi naye, ndiye nkhani ina.

Munthu amene watembenukira kwa katswiri wa zamaganizo ndi Sinton makamaka sayenera kugawana "zovuta" zamakono za mtsogoleri, sikofunikira (pokhapokha ngati akufuna) ngakhale kudziwa za iwo, amangofunika kugwira ntchito, ndiko kuti, perekani munthu zotsatira.

Mwachitsanzo, kuti tigwiritse ntchito zida zapakhomo, sitiyenera kumvetsetsa zamagetsi. Ndipo ngati kuli kofunikira, ndiye kuti ichi ndi chipangizo choyipa chapakhomo, sichoncho? Momwemonso, sitisamala momwe dotolo wamano amagwirira ntchito yake, bola ngati mano samapweteka.

Lolani iwo omwe akufuna kuphunzira ntchitoyi ndi omwe akufuna kukonza makinawa kapena kusintha kuti agwirizane ndi zosowa zawo amvetsetse "zovuta" ndi makinawo. Choncho, tikamalankhula za mkati mwa «makanika» a ntchito yathu, sitingakhutitsidwe ndi maumboni osadziwika, «kuunikiridwa», zamatsenga (m'mawu osiyanasiyana), ndiko kuti, osamvetsetseka ndi mtsogoleri wa zochitikazo. . Mfundo za kusamutsa ndi kubereka zimafuna kumvetsetsa bwino ndi kumvetsetsa zomwe zikuchitika ndi momwe zimachitikira.

Pankhani ya auras, chakras ndi kukhudzana ndi chilengedwe (cosmos) mozama, ichi ndi chivundikiro chakuti sitidziwa zomwe tikuchita komanso momwe zimagwirira ntchito.

Kugwira ntchito mwaukadaulo sikusintha mwachilengedwe, koma kwapadera - pankhaniyi - kuphatikiza njira zingapo kapena matekinoloje, zomwe zimamveka bwino kwa wotsogolera zomwe akuchita komanso momwe akuchitira. Chifukwa chake, izi zikhoza kubwerezedwanso, kufotokoza zomwe anachita ndi momwe adachitira, chifukwa chake ndi chifukwa chake, ndi kuphunzitsa wina. Ukatswiri ndi luso lagona pa mfundo yakuti mbuye anali wokonzeka mwambo umenewu, atatha kusankha mokwanira ndi kugwiritsa ntchito njira imodzi kapena ina.

Zowona, pali wina «koma». Ndi ntchito yayitali komanso yopambana, ntchito zambiri zaluntha ndi luso la mtsogoleri wa kalasi zimatha kuchitika kumbuyo, ngati mosadziwa chifukwa cha njira yomwe yatchulidwa kale, ndipo kuchokera kunja kumawoneka ngati chidziwitso chanzeru. Komabe, ngati mkhalidwewo wabwezeretsedwa ndipo mbuyeyo akufunsidwa kuti afotokoze mmene anagwirira ntchito, adzachita zimenezo.

MMENE PHUNZIRO LIMACHITIKA

Chifukwa chake, mafunso akulu aukadaulo ndi "chiyani?" (m’zochita, osati m’lingaliro lamalingaliro) ndi “motani?”.

Funso lakuti "chiyani?" ndi funso lokhudza pulogalamu. Pulogalamu yokhazikika ya Synton ndi zolemba zatsatanetsatane kuchokera ku phunziro kupita ku phunziro, zomwe zimapanga maziko a ntchito yeniyeni ya owonetsa.

Kwenikweni, zotsatira zake ndikukonza gululo, osati zolemba zokha. M'kupita kwanthawi, tikuwona kuti zochitika zamaphunziro sizifuna zenizeni - mawu ndi mawu - kubereka, ndizo maziko ndi inshuwaransi (kwa mtsogoleri wa novice) amakalasi enieni. Choyipa kwambiri pagulu lamagulu ndikutulutsanso makalasi molingana ndi script. Synthon muzochita amayamba kukhala ndi moyo pomwe wowonetsa amadzaza script-inshuwaransi ndi zomwe zili.

Script imayamba ndi lingaliro. Choyamba, ndi ambiri ambiri: zomwe izi kapena kuzungulira, semina, maphunziro adzakhala za m'lingaliro lalikulu. Pali maphunziro angapo mu pulogalamu ya Synton yokha, palinso mapulogalamu okhudzana. Zosankha za pulogalamu zimasiyana osati pamakonzedwe a zochitika zenizeni, komanso kwambiri pakutanthauzira nkhani zazikulu ndi njira zomwe zimapanga chenichenicho - lingaliro lamkati.

Tikuwona apa kuti timagwiritsa ntchito mawu akuti «lingaliro» osati mowopsa «malingaliro», koma monga mawu ofanana ndi tanthauzo ambiri, zamkati zili mkati mwa ntchitoyo. Mwachitsanzo, lingaliro la maphunziro a Art of Pleasing linali kuphunzitsa atsikana zamalingaliro amaganizidwe omanga ubale ndi achinyamata, ndipo kukhazikitsidwa kwachindunji kumaphatikizapo luso lamakhalidwe.

Pulogalamu yonse ya synthon, ndikuloleni ndikukumbutseni, "imagwira ntchito pakukula ndi chitukuko, kuyanjana bwino ndi kumasula luso la kupanga la munthu." Ili ndiye lingaliro wamba la Sinton.

Maphunziro apadera amaganizira za psychology yamaubwenzi ndi iwe mwini, ndi anthu ozungulira, kumanga ubale wapamtima.

Maphunziro amakhala ndi makalasi (ma blocks). Chifukwa chake, pagawo lachiwiri, malingaliro, mitu ndi malingaliro amakalasi awa amapangidwa.

Ngati tilingalira, mwachitsanzo, maganizo okhudzana ndi kugwirizana ndi ena, ndiye kuti, phunziro limodzi likhoza kuperekedwa ku makina a mkangano ndi njira zothetsera izo; zotsatirazi zidzakhala za kuyembekezera (chiyembekezo) monga njira yopangira maubwenzi, kuphatikizapo zabwino (synthonic); zidzatsatiridwa ndi phunziro la kuthekera kokambirana ndi kugwirizana, ndi zina zotero.

Pochita maphunziro olankhulana bwino, titha kupeza malo ophunzirira njira zomvetsera mwachidwi, kuyenda ndi kutsogolera, kuwonetsera zakukhosi, ndi luso lokopa.

Titadzifotokozera tokha lingaliro lazonse ndi malingaliro azinthu zinazake, komanso kutsatizana kwawo momveka bwino, timapanga dongosolo. Dongosolo la maphunzirowa, maphunziro, kuzungulira - itchuleni chilichonse chomwe mungafune. Ndiye imabwera nthawi ya chitukuko cha methodological.

MMENE PHUNZIRO LIMANALIRA (BLOCK)

Phunziro limatha kukhala maola 3-4 (Sinton wamba) kapena kutambasula kwa tsiku, kapena masiku angapo (maphunziro ozama). Choncho, n'zosavuta kulankhula za midadada thematic allocated pamaziko a mkati ideological umodzi.

Pakhoza kukhala midadada yopitilira imodzi muphunziro lokhazikika, ngakhale mwamwambo phunziro limodzi limaperekedwa pamutu umodzi. Sipangakhale midadada yopitilira iwiri pamasiku awiri ovuta. Komabe, nthawi zambiri chipika chimodzi chimayikidwa mu maola 3-4 okha. Ndiwosavuta kwa onse omwe atenga nawo mbali komanso mtsogoleri, komanso pakukonza ntchitoyo.

  • Mapangidwe a block mu mawonekedwe ake ambiri ndi awa: mawu oyamba pamutu - gawo lalikulu - mwachidule (ndikupita ku chipika chotsatira).
  • Mu njira ya Syntonian, zigawozi nthawi zambiri zimamangidwa motere.
  • Kumizidwa mumlengalenga wa phunziro (moni wachikhalidwe, kukhazikitsa mawu a wokamba nkhani).
  • Chiyambi chotsimikizira kufunika kwa mutuwo. Lingaliro la mutu.
  • Kukambitsirana kwa mutu. Ophunzira afotokoze maganizo awo. Kufunsa mafunso, kuzama mutu.
  • Zochita zapakati, pomwe njira zoyezera zamakhalidwe zimawonetsedwa ndipo ophunzira amalankhula za momwe moyo umakhala wongoyerekeza (kupeza zochitika zenizeni).
  • Kumangirira, kukambirana za ntchitoyi, ndemanga za otsogolera. (Silinso funso la momwe, mwachitsanzo, kuyendetsa baluni, koma khalidwe lenileni la omwe atenga nawo mbali muzochita zomwe akufunazo zomwe zimafanizira ubale wa anthu.)
  • Kuonjezerapo - masewero olimbitsa thupi kapena odziwa mitundu ina yamakhalidwe, zochita zanzeru.
  • Kumaliza kwa phunziro (kutsanzikana kwachikhalidwe, kuchepetsedwa kwa chikhalidwe cha maphunziro).

Zoonadi, mapangidwe a gawo linalake kapena gulu likhoza kukhala losiyana: ntchito yapakati ingasinthidwe ndi ziwiri kapena zitatu, zokambirana zapakatikati zikhoza kuwonjezeredwa, ndi zina zotero. Komabe, ambiri mwa makalasiwo amagwirizana ndi dongosolo lomwe lakonzedwa.

MMENE MASEWERO AMACHITIKA

Ndi mawu oti "zolimbitsa thupi" timatanthawuza gawo lina la phunzirolo, lomwe ndi: zochitika zenizeni, kukambirana (pagulu, m'magulu ang'onoang'ono, awiriawiri, mu "carousel"), kukonza malemba, masewera ndi zochitika zomwe zimatsanzira zenizeni. . Zolimbitsa thupi zimagawidwa m'makhalidwe, malingaliro ndi malingaliro.

Zomwe zili muzochita zolimbitsa thupi m'lingaliro lalikulu la mawu (m'lingaliro lopapatiza ndilofanana ndi liwu lakuti "kuphunzitsa") ndi chitukuko kapena kusanthula khalidwe linalake, kugwira ntchito ndi maganizo (mood), ndi makhalidwe. , ndi zikhulupiriro, ndi malingaliro, ndi chithunzi cha dziko, - m'mawu amodzi, ndi malingaliro a dziko. Chigawo chilichonse cha phunziroli timachitcha masewero olimbitsa thupi.

Mu dongosolo la maphunziro lomwe laperekedwa pamwambapa, gawo lililonse likhoza kukhala ndi zolimbitsa thupi imodzi kapena zingapo (kawirikawiri kupitilira ziwiri).

Zikuwonekeratu kuti pafupifupi muzochita zonse pali zolinga zingapo (zigawo za semantic): cholinga chachikulu cha pulogalamu ya Synton, cholinga cha phunziro, cholinga chenicheni cha zochitikazo.

Tiyenera kunena nthawi yomweyo kuti si masewera aliwonse omwe amatsata zolinga zake. Popanda kumvetsetsa, kukambirana ndi ndemanga, maphunziro a maganizo amasanduka teknoloji yamasewera (ngati ikuchitika moyenera) kapena kungokhala "masewera". Izi zikugwiranso ntchito kwa Sinton. M'malo mwake, ndizothekanso kupanga "masewera" kuchokera pamenepo, ngati munyalanyaza zamalingaliro, gawo la Syntonian. Ndinaziwona.

Chochititsa chidwi n'chakuti, kuchokera ku zochitika zomwezo (malinga ndi ndondomeko yokhazikika ya ntchito) ndi ndemanga zosiyana, munthu akhoza kuchotsa zinthu zosiyana kwambiri pokambirana ndi kumvetsetsa mavuto ena. Chitsanzo chodziwika bwino: zochitika za "Akhungu ndi Wotsogolera": apa onse amafulumizitsa mapangidwe a gulu (kukhudzana ndi tactile kumathandizira), ndi njira yofikira pamutu wodalirika mwa ena, mochuluka - kwa anthu, mochuluka - dziko; apa pali kusanthula kwa njira ya khalidwe la anthu ndi dziko, kusanthula maganizo amkati kwa anthu; palinso gawo la ndemanga pakumvetsetsana, ndi zina.

Pomaliza, pali zigawo zina ziwiri muzochita: zotanthawuza (zonse zomwe tazitchula pamwambapa) ndi zomangika ndi zadongosolo (kasamalidwe kamagulu, kulinganiza malo - ndipo, chifukwa chake, kuchita bwino kwa gulu).

Ndakumana ndi maphunziro pomwe zolimbitsa thupi zatanthauzo zimamveka momveka bwino komanso momveka bwino. kusinthana ndi zabungwe. Ku Synthon, izi zimachitika mocheperako. Kupanga phunziro (kutsatizana kwa ntchito) kawirikawiri kumaganizira zosowa za gulu la nthawi, koma chifukwa cha izi zimagwiritsa ntchito mwayi wa zochitika zomwezo zomwe zimapereka tanthauzo. Ndizodziwikiratu kuti mutu womwewo ukhoza kukonzedwa potengera zochitika zosiyanasiyana.

Pachikhalidwe amakhulupirira kuti ndi bwino kuti gulu lisakhale mumtundu womwewo wa ntchito kwa mphindi zopitilira 15-20. Komabe, pafupi ndi pakati pa phunzirolo, nthawi yochuluka ingagwiritsidwe ntchito pa ntchito imodzi: pachiyambi, anthu "sanagubuduze" komabe, ndipo mpaka kumapeto, atopa kale. Zochita zovuta, zowononga nthawi nthawi zambiri zimapangidwira kuti ntchitozo ziziperekedwa pang'onopang'ono (ndiko kuti, zopumira zimaperekedwa) kapena zochitikazo zimasiyanasiyana. Zitsanzo zabwino ndi masewera olimbitsa thupi monga Balloon, Desert Island, kapena Talent Game.

Zochita zolimbitsa thupi zilizonse zimakhala ndi magawo atatu: mawu oyamba, gawo lalikulu ndi kutuluka.

M'mawu oyamba, wotsogolera akufotokoza zomwe zidzachitike ndi chifukwa chake, ndipo amapereka "makhazikitsidwe" - amapanga malo oyenera kugwira ntchito. Ndiko kuti, zimapanga chilimbikitso ndi mikhalidwe yophunzitsira.

Mbali yayikulu, otenga nawo mbali amagwira ntchito (kukambirana, zochitika zachitsanzo, kusanthula, kupeza chidziwitso, ndi zina).

Kutuluka muzochitazo kumagwira ntchito kufotokoza mwachidule zotsatira zapakatikati ndikupita kuntchito yotsatira (ndiyeno imakhala chiyambi chatsopano), kapena kusanthula kwakukulu kwa ntchito yomwe yachitika, ndemanga pazomwe zachitika, ndi zina zotero. choncho, kutuluka kumakhala gawo lalikulu lazochita zolimbitsa thupi, popanda zomwe zonse zam'mbuyo zimangokhala zosangalatsa.

Maphunziro a zamaganizo amachitidwa makamaka ndi kusanthula ndi ndemanga za zomwe zachitidwa, ndipo m'lingaliro ili, kusanthula ndi kufotokozera mwachidule ndizo zomwe zili mu phunziroli, osati izi kapena zochitika zina zosaiŵalika.

Choncho, ntchitoyo iyenera kukwaniritsa zolinga za gawoli ndi pulogalamuyo, osati kuchitidwa mwachibwanabwana chifukwa chakuti pali nthawi. Zochita zolimbitsa thupi zimafunikira kusinthasintha (nthawi zina ndi chiwonetsero, nthawi zina ndi mawu ndi machitidwe a wowonetsa), zimafunikira njira yotulukira.

KUMENE MASEWERO, MAPHUNZIRO, MAPROGRAM AKUCHOKERA

Choyamba, mu pulogalamu ya Synton komanso zolemba zophunzitsira, makalasi amalembedwa mwatsatanetsatane. Ndi zolimbitsa thupi zonse. Kachiwiri, pali zambiri zosonkhanitsira ndi mabuku mu zofewa zofewa (ndipo tsopano zolimba), pomwe olemba, mwa zina, amafotokoza za angapo, kapena angapo a masewera olimbitsa thupi.

Ndili ndi ambiri mwa mabukuwa pamashelefu anga. Vuto lokhalo ndiloti nthawi zambiri zolimbitsa thupi zomwe zilimo zimangosonkhanitsidwa mzere, ndipo zimalembedwa mulimonse, ndiko kuti, ndizosayenera kugwiritsidwa ntchito mwachindunji. Ndipo apa ndikufuna kutchula chinthu chimodzi chofunikira cha Sinton (sindinawonepo izi m'magulu aliwonse amaganizo): pali chikhalidwe cha ndondomeko yatsatanetsatane komanso yapamwamba kwambiri ya zochitika zopambana: munadzichitira nokha - kupangitsa moyo kukhala wosavuta kwa mnzako. Gawani! Mwachizoloŵezi, akatswiri a zamaganizo, makamaka ochita malonda, safulumira kugawana zochitika osati ndi "opikisana nawo", komanso omwe amagwira ntchito limodzi. Msika! Munthu kwa munthu - mukudziwa ndani.

Zovuta zimayamba mukafuna kuchita china chake chomwe sichili mu pulogalamu ya Synton ndi maphunziro a satellite, kapena (chamanyazi!) sichinalembedwe. Pali njira ziwiri: choyamba, mukhoza kutenga masewera olimbitsa thupi okonzeka kuchokera m'mabuku (koma nthawi zambiri pamakhala "thupi" la masewera olimbitsa thupi), likonzenso kuti ligwirizane ndi zosowa zanu, zolinga zanu, yeretsani malo ndikutuluka; chachiwiri - mutha kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi pazolinga zanu.

Muzochitika zachiwiri, zotsatirazi ndizofunikira.

  • Khazikitsani momveka bwino (m'kati mwa phunzirolo) cholinga cha zochitikazo: kulosera mutu womwe tikufuna kupitako potengera zotsatira zake.
  • Tangoganizirani zochitika zenizeni ndi khalidwe limene nthawi zambiri vuto lachidwi kwa ife limadziwonetsera.
  • Tsanzirani nthawi yomwe zizolowezi (machitidwe) zimawonekera mosiyanasiyana.
  • Sakanizani chitsanzo: fotokozani zomwe zaperekedwa, malamulo, zoletsa, tanthauzo la ntchitoyo, nthawi.
  • Konzani malo oyenera (mpaka pamene poyamba, lembani malembawo mwatsatanetsatane, kusonyeza mawu omwe mukufuna).
  • Ganizirani njira zomwe zingatheke pazokambirana zomaliza-kumvetsetsa.
  • Chitani magawo oyesa (poyamba 2-3 osachepera kuti mulekanitse kwakanthawi ndi machitidwe onse).
  • Lembani malemba onse mwatsatanetsatane, poganizira za kusintha, kufunikira komwe kumamveka bwino pambuyo pa zochitika zenizeni.
  • Chitani zolimbitsa thupi modekha mukamagwirira ntchito.

Nachi chimodzi mwazochita zomwe ndimakonda mwachitsanzo.

Kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi "Talent Game"

Otenga nawo mbali amakhala mozungulira.

Kutsogolera. Mwinamwake mukukumbukira fanizo la antchito a munthu wolemera amene, pochoka, anawasungitsa chuma chake. Mmodzi anakwirira ndalama, wina anaika kukula, wachitatu anayamba kuchita malonda. Ndipo mwiniyo, pobwera, anabwezera yense monga mwa zipululu zake. Koma pali njira zina zothandizira ndalama: zonse zopusa, ndi zanzeru, komanso zokongola kwambiri, ndipo, mwinamwake, ndalama zambiri. Tsopano aliyense wa inu adzatha kugwira ntchito ya atumiki amenewa.

Pezani pa USD. (Ngati si aliyense amene ali ndi ndalama, muyenera kugawa "talente" yokonzekera - ndalama zophiphiritsira.)

Yesani kuthetsa vutoli. Muli ndi mphindi 10 zokonzekera - mutha kugwirizana m'magulu, mutha kuganiza m'modzim'modzi. Panthawi imeneyi, muyenera kupeza njira yabwino yoyendetsera ndalama zanu. Uku ndi kusewera kwaulere. Ganizilani. Koma kumbukirani - malingaliro anu ayenera kukhazikitsidwa pompano, osatuluka m'chipinda chophunzitsira. Muli ndi mphindi 30 kuti muchite izi. Cu yanu yokha ndiyo yomwe ili ndi mtengo weniweni. Zinthu zina ndi ndalama zina sizingakhale nawo pamasewerawa ndipo sizimaonedwa ngati zamtengo wapatali.

Pali masewera.

Kutsogolera. Chilichonse, kuyambira pano, kutumiza ndalama kuchokera ku dzanja kupita ku dzanja ndikoletsedwa. Anakhala mozungulira. Ndani kwenikweni ali ndi ndalama? Kuwomba m'manja!

Tsopano gawanani wina ndi mzake zomwe anachita ndi chifukwa chake. Ndi chiyani chomwe chinagwira bwino ntchito komanso chomwe sichinagwire ntchito? Kodi ena mwachita chidwi ndi chiyani?

Pambuyo pokambirana, wotsogolera apereke ndemanga pa masewerawo.

Pali ndemanga zingapo muyezo mu masewerawa.

Choyamba, "kugwiritsa ntchito bwino" kumadziwika kuti "kuchulukitsa." Koma iyi ndi njira yokhayo. Pambuyo pa limodzi la masewerawo, kukambirana kunachitika ndi mtsikana yemwe anachita mwamphamvu komanso mwaukali, osachita manyazi kulanda ma euro zana (zakale) m'manja mwa munthu wosasamala kapena kulanda zachinyengo ndi zoopseza: "N'chifukwa chiyani mukufunikira izi?" "Kuti ndipeze ndalama zambiri." - "Zachiyani?" "Kuti muyambe bizinesi yanu." - "Zachiyani?" "Kuti mupange ndalama zambiri." - "Zachiyani?" "Kuchitira wina zabwino." Zosangalatsa? Panthawiyi, mnyamata yemwe adaba stow.e.evka (zomwe zilipo kale), adavina ndi mtsikana wina ndikunong'oneza mosangalala. Funso: Kodi zinali bwino? - "Inde". - "Zikuwoneka kuti mutha kuchita zabwino komanso mwachindunji?"

Kachiwiri, gawo lamasewera ena. Mnyamatayo amapereka mwayi wopeza ndalama. Koma apa ndi «kutenthedwa». (Gulu la atsikana linapanga kampani yogulitsa ndalama ndipo linawononga ambiri.) Mnyamatayo ali chete ndipo amakhala pakona pakona. Kenako mtsikana amamuyandikira (yemwe amamukonda), yemwe sanayambebe kuchita nawo zachinyengo ndipo sakuwotcha ndi chilakolako choterocho. Anangokhala pansi kulankhula. Mnyamatayo amakhala chete ndipo amamva kuti alibe ndalama (popanda ndalama - wotayika?). Koma mtsikanayo anali wanzeru. Mwachikondi, mwachisawawa, amapempha thandizo pakuyang'anira stow.e.evka, kapena kuti atenge kuti asungidwe bwino. Kukopeka. Mnyamatayo sanathamangire "ndalama", anali kale wasayansi, koma anakhala ndi moyo, anayamba kulankhula, ndipo pamapeto a masewera awiriwa anamva bwino kwambiri, odalirika komanso "amoyo" kuposa ena. omwe "amavala" aliyense.

Atsikana! Kumbukirani kuti achinyamata (anthu abwino) opanda ndalama nthawi zambiri amadziona ngati osafunika. Kunyengerera sikungathandize mlanduwo, ngakhale mikangano yanu ili yochenjera kwambiri. Kubwereketsa ndalama poyera komanso nthawi zonse - kuwononga malingaliro ake kwa inu. Yang'anani machitidwe anzeru. Khulupirirani ndi kuthandiza. Pokhapokha ngati mukufuna kupitiriza chibwenzicho.

Mwachindunji: mtsikanayo sanatenge kuchulukitsa, koma, mwa lingaliro langa, adayendetsa bwino ndalamazo. (Ku funso la "chithunzi chabwino kwambiri".)

Ndipo potsiriza, chachitatu. Ambiri, kupatulapo kawirikawiri, amawona masewerawa ngati ntchito "yopeza zambiri." Ochita nawo masewerawa amathamangira kutsogolo, koma patatha mphindi khumi ndi zisanu theka labwino likuyenda ndi manja awo pansi - sizikugwira ntchito.

Waukulu amasuntha kwa mofulumira kuwonjezeka chuma zambiri zotsatirazi: masewera (thimble, makadi), ndalama chinyengo (chiwongola dzanja, kubwereketsa), kupempha («asungwana abwino», «zabwino»). M’mawu amodzi, chinyengo. Bizinesi nthawi zambiri imadziwika ngati chinyengo. Pafupifupi achinyamata onse omwe adachita nawo masewerawa adalumikiza malingaliro awiriwa kukhala amodzi. Kupatulapo? Anyamata anayi amene akugwiradi ntchito m’mabizinesi apadera. Ndiwo okhawo amene amabetcherana pachinyengo, koma pakuchita. Iwo akhoza kukhala mu masewera, koma anayamba kuchita malonda (anagulung'undisa pa manja awo, anayamba kuwomba pa amene anali otentha, ngakhale kuyesera kupanga zikumbutso). Ndipo iwo anapanga ndalama.

Kupitilira mu phunziroli, mutuwu ukupangidwa - "kuchita bizinesi".

MANAGEMENT YA SYNTON GROUP

Tikamalankhula za kuyendetsa gulu, tikutanthauza: kulowa ndi kuyang'anira gulu, kugwira ntchito ndi magulu amagulu (magawo a chitukuko ndi mapangidwe a gulu, zolinga zamagulu, zikhalidwe ndi zikhalidwe), kugwira ntchito ndi malo a gulu, etc. Kenako, ndikufuna kukhalapo. pazigawo za njirayi m'magulu a Syntonian.

Kulowa gulu

Kulowa m’gulu, ndiko kuti, kudzipereka kwa gulu monga mtsogoleri, mwachizolowezi kumachitika panthawi yopanga gulu. Kotero kuyambira pachiyambi cha gululo, mtsogoleriyo amakhala malo opangira gulu kuzungulira zomwe zonse zimachitika. Nthawi yomweyo, chilimbikitso cha gulu kuti ligwire ntchito ndi mtsogoleriyu chimatheka popatsa ophunzira mwayi wosankha pakati pa atsogoleri angapo mu phunziro lachiwonetsero. Pambuyo pake, anthu amayandikira kwa yemwe amakumana bwino ndi malingaliro awo za "mtsogoleri wawo".

Kenaka, m'miyezi imodzi ndi theka mpaka miyezi iwiri, ophunzira ambiri adzayendera makalasi ndi atsogoleri osiyanasiyana ndipo, chifukwa chake, adzasankha gulu (ndi mtsogoleriyo) kumene ali omasuka kwambiri. Demokalase ndi ufulu wosankha!

Ndikofunikira apa kuti atsogoleri a kalabu imodzi asakhale amtundu womwewo (ndiye kuti kusiyana kudzakhala “koipitsitsa” ndipo anthu azingosonkhana pamalo a munthu m'modzi), koma ndi osiyana. Izi zidzapereka kusiyanasiyana kwa kachitidwe kachitidwe, njira za mitu ndi zochitika zomwezo, komanso njira zoperekera malingaliro.

Mgwirizano wa cholinga, kapangidwe ka makalasi ndi njira zoyambira zimaperekedwa ndi pulogalamu ya Synton, ndipo kusiyanasiyana kwa atsogoleri kumakupatsani mwayi wogwira ntchito bwino ndi anthu osiyanasiyana.

Ngati pali mtsogoleri m'modzi yekha mu kalabu kapena "onse ngati mmodzi", ndiye kuti anthu onse aulemerero omwe Sinton ali pafupi nawo, koma machitidwe enieniwo sali bwino, adzachoka ku Sinton, osati kwa mtsogoleri weniweni. Ngati pali atsogoleri angapo (wina ali wokondwa kwambiri, wina ndi wozama, wina ndi wodekha, wina ali ndi mphamvu zambiri), ndiye kuti munthuyo amalandira Sinton mu ntchito yabwino kwambiri kwa iye.

Atsogoleri aku Sinton ndi osiyana! Koma ngati mtsogoleri wa Sinton m'kalasi amachita zosiyana kwambiri, mwachitsanzo, akutsogolera gulu lofufuza zochitika, ndiye kuti akuchita bwino, koma izi sizilinso Sinton. Kutsogolera Sinton ndizosiyana, koma zimagwira ntchito molingana ndi Sinton. Ndipo a Gestalt amatsatira Gestalt. Kodi ndi zomveka?

Phunziro loyamba likhonza kuonedwa ngati gawo lotsatira la kulowa kwa mtsogoleri mu gulu. Chifukwa gawo lachiwonetsero lidatsogozedwa ndi otsogolera angapo, ndipo mwina wina adakhazikitsa kamvekedwe kake.

Koma Lachiwiri loyamba ili (kapena Lachisanu, kapena Lachitatu), anthu anabwera kale ku gulu lawo, lomwe likugwirizana ndendende ndi mtsogoleri ameneyu. Ndipo ikhala gwero la chidziwitso kwa omwe akutenga nawo mbali pazomwe Sinton akuchita komanso ngati kuli koyenera kupitako. Mtsogoleri akuyang’ana anthu, koma anthuwo akumuyang’ana. Ndiye mumayamba bwanji?

Pakapita nthawi, ili sililinso funso: atsogoleri omwe ali ndi chidziwitso alibe vuto potsogolera phunziro loyamba ngati kuti silinali loyamba. Ophunzirawo, monga nthawi zonse, adabwera, mtsogoleri, monga nthawi zonse, amagwira ntchito, miyambo yonse, malamulo, zochita za mtsogoleri komanso kuti gulu limagwira ntchito mokhazikika ndi zachilendo komanso zachilengedwe. Zachilendo ngati ayi.

M'malo mwake, ntchito ya mtsogoleri ndikuchoka pakuwunikana wina ndi mnzake kupita ku ntchito yanthawi zonse kuyambira pamasitepe oyamba. Mwachizolowezi choterechi komanso mwachilengedwe kuchokera pamasitepe oyamba amakwaniritsidwa pokwaniritsa zomwe gulu likuyembekezera ndikupanga malingaliro ake anthawi zonse a mtsogoleri ngati mtsogoleri. Osati mtsogoleri wauzimu ndi guru, koma munthu amene amakhazikitsa ndi kuonetsetsa ndondomekoyi. Ndiko kuti, imagwira ntchito kwa anthu: imatumikira ntchito yake ndi zotsatira zake. Kuphatikiza mafunso ovuta komanso ndemanga zanzeru.

Kutsatiridwa ndi ziyembekezo za ambiri kumatsimikizirika: anthu ankadziwa kumene akupita, choyamba; omwe sanadziwe, adawona pa phunziro lachiwonetsero - ichi ndi chachiwiri; amene palibe pano, mwina sanabwere, uyu ndiye wachitatu. Chifukwa chake, omwe mosayembekezereka sanathe konse komwe adafuna ndi ochepa, ndipo mwademokalase adzapanga chisankho chawo: sadzabwera nthawi ina.

Sizitengera khama lalikulu kuti musangalatse aliyense. Ambiri amayembekezera kuchokera kwa wowonetsa ndendende ntchito yomwe adanena. Ndipo ziyenera kuchitidwa. Ndipo apa ndi koyenera kutchula V.Yu. Bolshakova: "Katswiri wa zamaganizo sakakamizika kutumikira aliyense. Ntchito yake sinakule mokwanira kutero. "

Ponena za kuphunzitsa ophunzira chizolowezi chogwira ntchito motsogoleredwa ndi mtsogoleri, izi zimachitika motere. Popeza anthu anabwera kudzagwira ntchito, koma samadziwa momwe amavomerezera pano, malangizo oyambirira adzakhala odziwonetsera okha. Ndipo kaŵirikaŵiri zikakhala chonchi poyamba (zopempha za wotsogolera kuti achite chinachake zidzatsatira momveka bwino nkhani yonse ya phunzirolo), m’pamenenso anthu adzazoloŵera mfundo yakuti wotsogolerayo anena ndi kupereka ndendende zomwe zikufunika. . Malingaliro awa ndi zopempha ndi zabwino komanso zodekha. Ndi nkomwe ofunika «kupereka malamulo» kapena «kupereka malangizo» - kwambiri mawonekedwe adzachititsa kukana. “Kuphunzira kukhala ndi moyo” mwinanso sikuli koyenera.

Lolani zopempha zoyamba zigwirizane ndi bungwe la ntchito: "Tiyeni tikhale (tiyimilire) mozungulira." M’pomveka kuti osangoimirira. "Yang'anani mwatcheru." Tikadachita tokha mwachinyengo, koma apa - chilolezo chachindunji. Chabwino, chabwino. Timayang'ana. Ndipo mtsogoleri ndi amene angathe kuthetsa.

Kuti zikhale zosavuta kuti gulu ligwire ntchito, dongosolo likufunika. Kuti achite izi, aliyense amapatsidwa timapepala tokhala ndi mafunso. Chabwino. Inde, ndipo zidziwitso munthawi yomwe chilichonse sichinamveke bwino ndi chinthu chabwino. M'njira, akuti tikugwira ntchito pano, osati kucheza.

M'mawu amodzi, zochita zonse za wowonetsa zimafotokozedwa ndi maubwino, kumasuka komanso kuchita bwino potengera ntchito ndi zotsatira zake. Ndipo malingaliro ake-zopempha sizifuna kuti titanic ayesedwe kuti akwaniritsidwe. Ndiko pang'ono kuposa masiku onse, ndende ndi chidwi. Chifukwa chake izi ndizomveka, omwe akutenga nawo mbali akugwira ntchito - kuyambira mphindi zoyambirira, ndipo ntchito zosavuta zimakhala zotopetsa kwa iwo.

Kotero mphindi 15-20 za phunziro loyamba, ndipo gulu likugwira ntchito kale. Ali wotanganidwa ndi bizinesi, ndipo uwu ndiye umboni wabwino kwambiri wosonyeza kuti wowonetsayo ali ndi mphamvu. Kunena zowona, funso lotere silimabuka nkomwe. Chilichonse chikuyenda momwe chiyenera kukhalira: wolandira alendo ndi amene akuyang'anira, otenga nawo mbali akugwira ntchito.

Kwa okonda kulondola, kufotokozera: pali chiphunzitso chotere chokhudza chidziwitso cha dissonance. Malingana ndi izo, chidziwitso chatsopano chimadziwika mosavuta komanso mwachibadwa, ngati sichiposa gawo limodzi mwa magawo asanu a zomwe zimadziwika kale ndikuvomerezedwa ndi munthu.

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Chifukwa chake, gululo limatsatira malangizo a mtsogoleriyo mosavuta, ngati m'mbuyomu anali atagwirizana kale ndi malingaliro ake mofatsa komanso mopanda kukangana kanayi. Mwachitsanzo, mtsogoleriyo akuti: “Tiyeni tiyime mozungulira … Ndi chizolowezi kuti tiyime kuti atsikana ayime kumanja ndi kumanzere kwa anyamata (ngati zolembazo zilola). Anyamata omwe angakonde kuyimirira pafupi ndi mtsikana, chonde kwezani manja anu! Zikomo. Ndiye imirirani ngati amuna enieni! Mwa njira, kumwetulirana wina ndi mzake. Ndipo tiyeni tiyang'ane mozama za iwo omwe, mwa chifuniro cha choikidwiratu, tinathera pomwepa ndipo tsopano. Kodi angakhale anthu otani?

Ndemanga zokhudzana ndi zolinga ndi zolinga za ntchitoyo mofananamo: "Tasonkhana pano kuti tigwiritse ntchito zamaganizo: kuti tiphunzire kudzimvetsa tokha komanso anthu - zomwe zimatiyendetsa, zomwe timachita komanso chifukwa chiyani, kumvetsetsa maubwenzi a anthu. , kuti adziwe njira zamaganizidwe ndi malire. ntchito yawo.” Malingana ngati wotsogolera anena zomwe anthu akuyembekezera kumva, akhoza kukhala otsimikiza kuti ophunzirawo ayankha mokwanira ku zopempha zake ndi ntchito zake.

Kugwira ntchito ndi magulu amphamvu

Mtsogoleri, pokhala pa maphunziro oyambirira, wolankhulira zolinga za omwe akutenga nawo mbali (zomwe timachita), makhalidwe (chifukwa cha zomwe timachita) ndi zikhalidwe (momwe timachitira), akhoza kukhazikitsa ndondomekoyi ndi zolinga yekha (m'malire oyenera, ndiye kuti, tsopano zonse zomwe akunena, kawirikawiri, zimagwirizana ndi mfundo ya "gawo limodzi mwa magawo asanu a zomwe zavomerezedwa kale").

Kuti akhale olondola kwambiri, wotsogolera amapeza ufulu wokhazikitsa ndikufotokozera zolinga ndikupereka ndondomeko yeniyeni ya kupindula kwawo. Ndipo ngakhale mosamalitsa perekani zosankha zamakhalidwe abwino. Kuphatikizira zosankha zovuta (podalira pamikhalidwe yapamwamba).

Apa m'pofunika kusunga ukhondo ndi kukhazikitsa zikhalidwe zomwe zidzathandizidwa. Ziyenera kumveka bwino kwa anthu mmene lamuloli lingagwiritsire ntchito kukwaniritsa zolinga zabwino. Miyezo yosatheka idzanyalanyazidwa mwanjira ina, ndipo sipangakhale yankho lamphamvu: Sinton ndi nkhani yodzifunira. Kuphatikiza apo, kunyalanyaza zomwe mtsogoleriyo akufuna kudzachepetsa udindo wake. Choncho, palibe choposa muyeso!

Si chinsinsi kuti udindo woterewu nthawi zambiri umasungidwa kwa mtsogoleri wa gulu. Mu gulu la Sinton, kuwonjezera pa mtsogoleri, monga lamulo, palibe mtsogoleri wina. Ophunzira amphamvu amagwirira ntchito gulu limodzi ndi mtsogoleri, ndipo palibe mikangano yapadera. Monga momwe palibe ndondomeko yokhazikika yogawa maudindo. Ichi ndi chimodzi mwazinthu zamagulu amagulu mu Syntone.

Kukhazikika kwamagulu amagulu ndi mawonekedwe a gulu lokhazikika (osati Syntonian). Ndiko: kuchuluka zikuchokera gulu - 9-12 anthu, ndi pafupifupi zosasinthika; gulu pakukhalapo nthawi zonse limakumana (koyenera, otenga nawo mbali amakhala pamodzi nthawi zonse gulu likugwira ntchito); alibe dongosolo, ndiko kuti, maubwenzi ndi zochitika zimangochitika zokha; Mtsogoleri (ndi zochitika zina zakunja) samasokoneza nthawi zonse pagulu (mtsogoleriyo salowerera ndale kapena akuphatikizidwa mu ndondomekoyi mofanana ndi ena).

Gulu loterolo limadziwika ndi magawo otsatirawa a chitukuko: kudziwana-kukangana-kuchita-kufa. Kugawa kwa maudindo nthawi zambiri kumakhala motere: mtsogoleri, gulu lothandizira, katswiri, mtsogoleri wina, wotayika, maudindo ena. Njira yapadera yopangira zikhalidwe, zolinga ndi miyambo imachitika m'gulu (lomwe limakhala maziko ankhondo yogawa gawo pagawo la mikangano ndikukonza mawonekedwe omaliza a omwe akutenga nawo mbali, kunena kwake, kumapereka maziko amalingaliro. kwa mapangidwe osakhazikika a gulu) ndi zochitika zina zokhazikika zamagulu amagulu.

Gulu la Syntone lili ndi kusiyana kwakukulu kotsatiraku. Choyamba, sichimatsekedwa ndipo, chifukwa chake, mapangidwe ake ndi osakhazikika. M'chaka, anthu atsopano amawonekera, anthu odziwa bwino amachoka. Kachiwiri, pali magulu akuluakulu ku Sinton (nthawi zambiri anthu oposa 20-25). Chachitatu, ku Sinton pali ndondomeko yokonzekera - script, ndipo pali mtsogoleri womveka komanso mtsogoleri wa gulu - mtsogoleri. Mwachiwonekere, chifukwa chake, kusinthika kwamagulu mu Syntone sikuli koyenera. Ndiko kuti, ikadalipo, ndipo machitidwe ake amagwira ntchito. Koma osati mwachindunji monga mu muyezo gulu.

Zomwe zimatchedwa kuti controlled gulu dynamics zimachitika mu Syntone. Ndipo imayendetsedwa ndi wolandirayo (ngati ikugwira ntchito momwe iyenera kukhalira).

Kodi n’chiyani chimamupatsa mwayi wotero?

Kutseguka kwa gulu ndi kuwonjezereka kosalekeza kwa anthu atsopano, kuphatikizapo kungosintha momwe gululo likukhalira kuchokera ku phunziro kupita ku phunziro, sikulola ophunzira kudutsa bwino magawo a chitukuko cha gulu. Gululi liri nthawi imodzi mu siteji ya mapangidwe-kudziwana, ndi pa siteji ya kusamvana-gawo kugawa, ndi mu siteji ya ntchito khola. Ndipo gawo la mkangano ndilochepa kwambiri. Maziko ake osadziwika (mkati) - kugawikana kwa mphamvu kupyolera mu kulimbana kwa ufulu wokhazikitsa zikhalidwe ndi makhalidwe - sizothandiza: monga tanenera kale, zambiri zamagulu, zolinga ndi zikhalidwe zimaperekedwa (zochokera pa otenga nawo mbali ndi zomwe adapeza muzochita) ndi mtsogoleri mwiniwake. Amagwiranso ntchito ngati mtsogoleri komanso ngati katswiri wogubuduzika kukhala m'modzi.

Nthawi zina, komabe, m'kati mwa ntchito, mtsogoleri amachoka pambali, ndikusamutsa utsogoleri mu gulu kwa munthu amene angathe ndipo akufuna kuchita nawo muzochitika zilizonse. Iye mwini amapatsira, iye mwini amatenga mmbuyo pamene nthawi yoperekedwa ya ntchito yatha. Pakanthawi kochepa, njira zonse zokhazikika zikuchitika mgululi ndipo maudindo akugawidwa. Koma nthawi iliyonse imakhala ngati nthawi yoyamba. M'zochitika zina za atsogoleri owala kwambiri, wotsogolera amalepheretsa mwadala kulankhula kapena ngakhale mwayi wotenga nawo mbali kuti otsalawo asakhale ndi chikhumbo chotsutsa chirichonse pa munthu wotchuka.

Nthawi zambiri, wotsogolera amakhazikitsa zonse zomwe zikhalidwe ndi zolinga, komanso kugawa ntchito pagulu. Ndiko kuti, amawongolera mwachangu pamaziko a pulogalamu ya script. Koma muzochitika zina, gululo limakumana ndi zonse zamoyo, popanda inshuwalansi ya mtsogoleri, yemwe amachoka panthawiyi. Chifukwa chake, ngakhale pali otenga nawo mbali ambiri owala komanso achangu m'magulu a Syntonian, nthawi zambiri sitiwona utsogoleri wamunthu payekha. Ndipo izi zikutanthauza kukangana kodziwika kwa nthawi yayitali.

Zoonadi, pali mikangano ya zochitika. Ndipo ngati zili zothandiza, mtsogoleri amazigwiritsa ntchito. Sadzimenya yekha. Iye amafunsa mafunso ndi ndemanga, kupewa peremptory ndi categorical. Izi ndizomwe zimapangitsa gulu la Synton kukhala lokhazikika komanso logwira ntchito pafupifupi mpaka kumapeto kwa maphunzirowo.

Malo amagulu ndi udindo wa mtsogoleri

Kuholo komwe gulu la Synton limagwira ntchito, zosankha zotere zokonzekera malo zimagwiritsidwa ntchito.

  • Bwalo lokhala (nthawi zambiri pazokambirana). Mtsogoleri akhoza kukhala ndi aliyense ndi kutenga nawo mbali pazokambirana, kapena akhoza kukhala kunja kwa bwalo ndikuyankha mafunso ndi ntchito.
  • Bwalo loyimirira (zokonda ndi kuponya voti mwachangu). Mtsogoleri akhoza kuyima pamodzi ndi aliyense kapena kukhala mkati mwa bwalo (osaima pamalo amodzi, koma osagwedezeka).
  • «Carousel» - awiri centric mabwalo, kumene anthu nthawi zambiri amakumana wina ndi mzake. Ntchito imapita awiriawiri, koma ndi kusintha kwapanthawi kwa bwenzi. Wowonetsa nthawi zambiri amakhala kunja kwa carousel, ngakhale zimachitika kuti ali mkati.
  • Kukhala mabwalo-magulu ang'onoang'ono (kukambilana nkhani, kufotokozera malingaliro, kupanga malingaliro amodzi kapena ndemanga). Mtsogoleri akhoza kukhala mozungulira, ndipo amatha kuchoka ku gulu lina kupita ku lina.
  • Magulu ang'onoang'ono oyimilira (nthawi zambiri amachita masewera olimbitsa thupi). Mtsogoleri pano akuwongolera ndondomekoyi, kotero iye ali pambali.
  • Kufalitsidwa kwaulere ndi misonkhano ya otenga nawo mbali. Kawirikawiri pamisonkhano yotereyi-zokambirana zazing'ono, mitu-mafunso amaperekedwa. Ndipo wolandira alendo amayenda mozungulira holoyo pakati pa otenga nawo mbali ndikusunga malo ogwirira ntchito.
  • Omvera akuyang'ana wolandirayo, kapena «siteji» (sewero, «golide» ndi «wakuda» mpando, zina «mtima ndi mtima nkhani»). Ngati wokamba nkhani atenga pansi, akhoza kukhala m'malo mwa wokamba nkhani, ndipo ngati amangokonzekera zomwe zikuchitika, ndiye kuti nthawi zambiri penapake pamphepete mwa "siteji".

Maudindo onsewa amasiyana osati mwamwambo okha, komanso amakhudza momwe amaonera komanso momwe amaonera ntchitoyo komanso udindo wa wotsogolera.

MALANGIZO

Tapeza kale kuti anthu a ku Sinton ndizochitika mwaufulu. Koma kodi zikuchokera kuti? Ndendende, mogwirizana ndi zokambirana zathu, timazipeza kuti komanso bwanji?

Pali njira zitatu zachikhalidwe zokopa anthu kumagulu a Sinton:

- zotsatsa zoganizira;

- «mawu a pakamwa», pamene iwo amene anapita kale kalabu kubweretsa anzawo ndi mabwenzi;

- amagwirizanitsa m'mabuku a NI Kozlov. Anthu amawerenga mabuku, kuyimba, kufunsa, bwerani ku kalabu.

M’kati mwa ntchito, monga tanenera kale, anthu ena amabwera, ena amachoka. N’zoona kuti palibe amene akuwaletsa. Funso la komwe mungayang'ane chinthu chothandiza komanso chanzeru pa moyo wanu, aliyense amasankha yekha. Apa Synthon ndi imodzi mwazosankha. Komabe, njirayo ndi yabwino.

Zindikirani kuti munthu yemweyo sapita ku maphunziro a Sinton kwa zaka zopitirira ziwiri (kawirikawiri katatu). Tilibe cholinga chosunga anthu kwa nthawi yayitali momwe tingathere. Munthu amabwera kudzatenga chinachake, n’kuchitenga, kunena kuti “zikomo” n’kupitirizabe m’moyo, pogwiritsa ntchito zimene walandira. Zonse ndi zabwino. Synton kwa moyo (ndi kwa munthu), osati mosemphanitsa.

Sizingatheke kuti wolandirayo akhale ndi nkhawa ngati munthu, atamaliza maphunzirowo, asiya kubwera ku kalabu. Nkhawa ikhoza kuyambitsidwa chifukwa chakuti Syntonian "akucheza" mu kalabu, ngati moyo waukulu ukuchitikira munthu pano. Komabe, izi sizichitika kawirikawiri. Ndipo ngati pali chilichonse, wolandirayo amatha kuyankhula, kufunsa mafunso, kupereka kuganiza ...

NJIRA YA SYNTON KWA MUNTHU

Mwachiwonekere, akatswiri a zamaganizo omwe amagwira ntchito ku Sinton ali ndi chinachake chofanana m'njira yawo kwa anthu, kuntchito yawo, m'maganizo awo a dziko lapansi komanso miyambo ya sayansi ndi chiphunzitso.

Masiku ano, monga momwe ndikumvera, nthawi zambiri zimakhala zovuta kwa owonetsa, makamaka oyamba kumene, motsutsana ndi umunthu wopatsa mphamvu komanso wopindulitsa wa "bambo woyambitsa" kuti alekanitse zomwe Synton ali Synton ndi zomwe zili Kozlov, zomwe ziri. zopusa ndi zopusa kukopera ndi kubereka. Ndipo zovulaza. Kwa Sinton komanso kwa ine ndekha. Anthu ndi osiyana, ndipo Nikolai Ivanovich ndi munthu.

Mfundo zazikuluzikulu za njira ya syntonian kwa munthu (yomwe, m'malingaliro mwanga, idatchedwa moyenerera m'buku la "Formula of Personality") ndi izi.

Mwa munthu aliyense pali zolinga ndi zizolowezi zotsutsana. Sikofunikira kuwakulitsa onse mosasankha. Chifukwa chake, Sinton akufuna kugwirira ntchito pamikhalidwe yomwe imapangitsa moyo wamunthu kukhala wanzeru, wokoma mtima komanso wobala zipatso kwa okondedwa, kwa ena komanso, m'njira zambiri, kwa anthu.

Panthawi imodzimodziyo, Sinton amateteza kufunikira kwa kuvomereza kwaufulu ndi kozindikira kwa chisankho chilichonse, ndiko kuti, sakonda kuyendetsa mu ubwino ndi kulingalira bwino ndi ziphunzitso ndi zofunikira. Izi zikuwonetsa moona mtima njira zina zonse komanso zotsatira zake zazifupi komanso zazitali. Chofunika kwambiri kwa Sinton ndi ubwino, osati kumizidwa kosatha mwa iyemwini, kupambana kwaumwini, kuzungulira - kuphatikizapo kusatetezeka - kudzizindikira, ndi zina zotero. njira ndi yowona) ndizochilendo ku njira ya Sinton. Njira iyi yopangira zinthu zofunika kwambiri imapangitsa Sinton kukhala wogwirizana ndi psychology ya Adler. Mukukumbukira "zachikhalidwe" zake?

Sinton amakumbukira kuti anthu ndi osiyana, ndipo sakwanira aliyense ndi muyezo umodzi. Aliyense akhale ndi moyo wabwino momwe angathere. Komabe, zingakhale bwino kusiyana ndi kusiyiratu kuchita zabwino. Ndipo ndani angachite zambiri - msiyeni achite zambiri. M'lingaliro limeneli, palibe kachulukidwe mulingo. Chizolowezi ndi momwe moyo umakhalira.

Syntone imayang'ana pa chitukuko cha munthu wamba, osati pa chithandizo cha anthu osowa. M’chenicheni, izi zikutanthauza kuti Sinton sakhudzidwa mtima ndi kuyang’ana munthu wathanzi m’maganizo: “Ndi munthu wabwino bwanji, munthu wamkulu bwanji!” Ichi si cholinga, ichi ndi maziko abwino. Munthu wamkulu? Chabwino. Ukutani ndi thanzi limeneli? Kodi mukuigwiritsa ntchito kuti? Ndipo zambiri - kodi mumazigwiritsa ntchito kapena kudzikuza nokha pamoyo wanu - ndipo ndizo zonse?

Zonsezi sizikutsutsa kufunika kokhazikitsa anthu omwe sali m'maganizo «athanzi» panobe. Koma chitukuko sichimathera pamenepo. Iyi ndi njira yokwerera. Iwo anaziyika izo mu dongosolo - izo zikutanthauza kuti iwo anabweretsa izo pachiyambi. Ndipo tsopano ulendo ukuyamba. Kulondola?

Kudzipititsa patsogolo ku Sinton sicholinga, koma njira. N’chifukwa chiyani munthu amadzipanga kukhala wabwino? Sinton amakhulupirira kuti ngati kukhala padziko lapansi kwa munthu kuli kwabwino makamaka kwa iye yekha, ndiye kuti wotsirizirayo sangataye kalikonse pakuchotsedwa kwa munthu woteroyo padziko lapansi. Ndiye munthu ndi chiyambi chodzitsekera pa iye yekha pa thupi la moyo. Kuti iye ali (wotukuka kapena watsoka), kuti iye sali. Munthu amayamba kukhala m’dziko akamachita zinthu zazikulu kuposa iye mwini.

Iwo amati, "aliyense ndi wofunika kuposa mtengo wa zomwe amakangana nazo." Ndiyeno kukhalapo kwenikweni padziko lapansi kumayamba kuyambira pamene munthu amayamba kukwera mtengo kuposa iye mwini. Pamene ali ndi chidwi kwambiri ndi chinachake ndi wina kunja kwake, wokondedwa. Kumvetsetsa uku kumapangitsa Sinton kuti agwirizane ndi lingaliro la Maslow lodzikwaniritsa.

Komabe, zonsezi ndi zotheka kokha pa mlingo wa munthu amene wadziika yekha mu dongosolo, ndiko kuti, amene wadutsa siteji ya chidwi chachikulu mwa iye mwini. Ndipo Synton amathandizanso kuti adutse izi. Kwenikweni, Sinton, monga lamulo, amapeza aliyense amene amabwera ku kalabu panthawi inayake ya kukula kwake, pomwe munthu adayimitsidwa pazifukwa zosiyanasiyana (ndizovuta, sizikudziwikiratu chomwe chiri chotsatira, ulesi, chisokonezo muzofunikira - koma inu sindikudziwa chiyani). Anthu ali ndi mavuto osiyanasiyana, ndipo Sinton amathandiza kudutsa siteji yamakono mpaka yotsatira. Ndipo perekani lingaliro lakuti gawo lotsatira (ndi zovuta) silotsiriza.

Sinton "munthu wamba" - amene, pamene kutumikira kukhalapo kwake Mkhalidwe, amaona kuti si mathero paokha, koma maziko a dziko kukoma mtima ndi kulenga kubwerera. Atadzipatsa yekha gawo lofunikira la chisamaliro (ndipo atalandira kuchokera ku dziko zomwe zimayenera kutero), amatembenuzira mbali yotsala ya chikondi, chikondi, chifundo ndi mphamvu yanzeru kunja.

KODI SYNTHON AKHALA CHIYANI

mapulogalamu

Sindikuwona chifukwa chobweretsera mapulogalamu onse a Synthon ku mtundu umodzi. M'malo mwake, ndikofunikira kuwunikira zosiyana-siyana zawo ndikupatsa owonetsa mwayi wopanga mapulogalamu awo. Limbikitsani kutuluka kwa zosankha zatsopano, koma funsani olembawo kuti apereke ndemanga mwatsatanetsatane: chifukwa chiyani zili bwino, zosavuta komanso zogwira mtima.

M'kupita kwa nthawi, mukhoza kufika pamlingo womvetsetsa chisankho chilichonse: kwa zaka ziti ndi chikhalidwe cha anthu, zopempha zotani, zomwe atsogoleri a dziko lapansi amawona.

Kuphatikiza apo, ndikufuna kuwona zolemba zolembedwa ndi mapulogalamu a maphunziro apafupi ndi Synthonic akupitiliza kuwonekera. Zinachita bwino - fotokozani ndikulola anthu kuti azigwiritse ntchito.

Tonga

Ndikuganiza kuti tiyenera kuvomereza mfundo yakuti atsogoleri aku Sinton ndi osiyana. Ofooka kwambiri amachotsedwa panthawi ya ntchito (amasiya kupita kwa iwo), enawo amakokedwa pang'onopang'ono (moyo umawakakamiza). Ndikofunikira kuti zokambirana, masemina ophunzitsira, ndi kusinthana kwa zochitika zikhazikike.

Ndikulingalira maphunziro a atsogoleri motere.

  • Seminala yoyambira, kudziwa pulogalamu ya Synton (kapena ndime yake, ngati nkotheka).
  • Msonkhano, masemina apamutu osiyanasiyana (ndi kunja kwa Sinton, ngati kulibe ku Sinton, ndipo mwina sikudzakhalako), kukulitsa luso lambiri ndikuligwiritsa ntchito ku Sinton.
  • Kupititsa patsogolo ndi machitidwe a makalasi anu, maphunziro, masemina mu pulogalamu ya Synton kapena kuwonjezera pa izo.
  • Kuphunzitsa ena zomwe mtsogoleri ali wamkulu.
  • Kufikira pamlingo wa chitukuko chamalingaliro ndi chitukuko cha Sinton.

Mwachiwonekere, ziyenera kuvomerezedwa kuti ku Synthon payenera kukhala njira zosiyanasiyana zochitira zinthu. Choyamba, mithunzi yaumwini kumbali zonse, ndipo pakapita nthawi, "masukulu" awo.

Zojambula pamanja

Mwa izi ndikutanthauza kugwira ntchito molingana ndi template, popanda mzimu.

Ndawona ntchito za ophunzira-akatswiri a zamaganizo ndi anzanga akuyamba kumene. Chitsanzo chimodzi ndi chodziwikiratu apa: kusowa kwa chidziwitso kumadzadza ndi chidwi. Kunena zoona, potsogolera gulu, munthu amayamba, ngakhale pang'ono, kulankhula "mtima ndi mtima" m'njira yomwe amadziwabe kuchita, koma tsopano akumva "kulondola". Ndi chifukwa chake zimakwawa mu moyo wa munthu. Kuchokera ku zolinga zabwino, zowala komanso zokhutiritsa. Kungoti sizikhala zotetezeka nthawi zonse: moyo wa mnzako watsopano nthawi zambiri suli wokonzeka kuchitapo kanthu, ndipo nthawi zambiri suyang'ana malingaliro a wina. Nthawi zambiri, mtsogoleri novice amapeza wina wake (osamvetsa, ngakhale ake, monga iwo amati, mavuto) ndi kuchita izi.

Choncho, mlingo woyamba wa maphunziro akatswiri mu ntchito zamaganizo makamaka zochokera kulimbikitsa khalidwe akatswiri: palibe munthu - muli pa ntchito!

Ndikutsimikizira mwamphamvu: sipangakhale ubale waumwini ndi kasitomala. Mtsogoleri ndi katswiri, ntchito yake ndi kugwiritsa ntchito zipangizo molondola ndi kupeza zotsatira. Chisoni ndi chifundo ndi munthu, osati kumukokera mumkuntho wake wamkati.

Tsoka ilo, zodzitetezera zotere ndizoyenera: ambiri mwa akatswiri azamisala omwe ndimawadziwa ndi anthu ndendende chifukwa amasunga moyo wawo ndi chilichonse chomwe chikuchitika mmenemo kutali ndi munthu amene adabwera kudzafuna thandizo.

Mwa njira, njira zambiri zimagwira ntchito ndi manja. Nthawi zambiri izi ndi zokwanira. Palibe chodabwitsa apa: mphika wopangidwa ndi mmisiri wabwino komanso wodziwa zambiri ukhoza kudzazidwa ndi madzi, komanso mbale, yomwe ndi ntchito yojambula.

Kotero njira yophunzitsira yoteroyo, pamene pulogalamuyo "ikutulutsidwa" pa mlingo wabwino wa akatswiri, nthawi zambiri imakhala yabwinoko (potengera zotsatira ndi malingaliro abwino) kusiyana ndi kuponyedwa kwachiwawa m'maganizo mwa kusiya sukulu. Ndakumana ndi onsewa ndi ena ndipo ndikunena kuti: ndibwino kukhala ndi zabwino zambiri kuposa kukhala ndi moyo, koma zoyipa. Ndani ali bwino? Kwa omwe amagwira nawo ntchito.

Komabe, ndikukhulupirira kuti pali njira ya "katswiri komanso moyo". Ndiko kuti, pamene mulingo waukadaulo ndi wamisiri uli pabwino kwambiri, ndipo mzimu umayikidwa. Ndipamene zimakhala ntchito pafupi ndi luso - osati kokha phindu, koma kukongola kumabadwa. Komabe, izi sizili choncho nthawi zonse komanso osati kulikonse. Anthu ali moyo. Mwina palibe mavuto aakulu, koma pali omwe ali "pano ndi pano". Ndiyeno ukatswiri amapulumutsa virtuoso.

Mapeto ake: ngati katswiri angachite chinachake ndi moyo, msiyeni achite. Ndipo ngati zonse sizili bwino mu moyo, ndiye lolani akatswiri agwire ntchito, osati zovuta zake zamakono.

  kapangidwe

Mphamvu yeniyeni yapakati ili muulamuliro wake (ndiko kuti, kusunga khalidwe la ntchito za atsogoleri, muzochitika zatsopano, kugwirizana kwa zoyesayesa ndi kuthandiza omwe akukhala) ndi kufalikira kwa malire ndi mafelemu omwe amalola kuti zinthu zambiri ziyesedwe, kufufuzidwa ndikupeza zabwino kwambiri ndi chidaliro chothandizira malowa. Choncho, dongosolo lamakono - magulu, magulu, malo ozungulira dziko lonse - adzasungidwa.

Ndikukhulupirira kuti ndi bwino kulimbikitsa kusankha kwa osachita malonda (ndiko kuti, osati pa "mitengo" yamtengo wapatali) maphunziro a satellite a pulogalamu ya Synton kwa ophunzira awo a Synton. Pali zopindulitsa zitatu apa: anthu amapeza zomwe amafunikira komanso zomwe zili zosayenera mu pulogalamu ya Synthon (mwachitsanzo, masemina ophunzirira okha), Synton amatchuka pakati pa omwe sanachite nawo chidwi, kuphatikiza, popeza ambiri mwa maphunzirowa ndi m'malo mwapamwamba kuposa moyo watsiku ndi tsiku, ndalama. Zomalizazi zipangitsa kuti zikhale zotheka kusunga chindapusa cha umembala wa Synton kukhala chochepa. Zimakhala zolipira popanda kubera.

anthu

Mu zenizeni zenizeni, ndikuyembekeza kuti palibe chomwe chidzasinthe: anthu adzatha kukhala popanda Sinton, koma Sinton adzapitiriza kuyesetsa kuchita zabwino momwe angathere. Ndipo anthu pano adzalandira mwaufulu zomwe zidzawathandize kupanga miyoyo yawo ndi omwe ali pafupi nawo kukhala otentha, anzeru, okoma mtima komanso opambana.

Ponena za kapangidwe kabwino, ndikukhulupirira kuti malire azaka (zaka 17-40) sizisintha kwambiri. Koma kuchuluka kwa ophunzira pa achinyamata ogwira ntchito, mwachiwonekere, kudzachepa. Padzakhala ambiri omwe akuchita kale chinachake m'moyo, choncho alibe chidwi ndi "zambiri za moyo", koma mwatsatanetsatane: "ndingatani (kukhala) kuti ...". Chifukwa chake, padzakhala kukhazikika kwatanthauzo, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti padzakhala zotsatira zakuya.

Malingaliro ndi zikhalidwe

Ndipo zonsezi zidzakhala ku Sinton, ndipo zonsezi zidzakhala Sinton. Chifukwa apa maziko ndi chinthu chimodzi: kusamalira anthu ndi chikhumbo cha iwo kukhala owala, okoma mtima, mwanzeru mwa iwo okha ndi wina ndi mzake. M'magulu ena, izi zidzakhazikitsidwa pa kukulitsa chikhalidwe cha kulankhulana, kwinakwake - kumvetsetsa zochitika za moyo wa munthu ndi zochitika za ena, kwinakwake - pa chidziwitso chokwanira komanso chomveka cha maubwenzi apakati pa anthu, kwinakwake - pa kumizidwa mu dziko lamkati la munthu. Koma chinthu chachikulu chidzatsalira: sikokwanira kusachita zoipa, sikokwanira ngakhale kulimbana ndi zoipa, munthu ayenera kuchita zabwino. Ndipo kuchita izo mwachangu ndi zotheka. Ndi mphamvu basi.

Koma osati mokakamiza. Chiwawa chofatsa, chokoma mtima (kapena kukakamizidwa, ngati mungafune) ndi kotheka pamene anthu amayembekezera njira imeneyi, kulimbikitsani, ndi kuithandiza mwachangu. Koma izi sizofanana ndi zomangira zolimba ndi zofunikira zomaliza: "kaya kapena ayi." Pomaliza, choyamba, ambiri amangochoka osapeza kalikonse; Kachiwiri, pangakhale zotayika kwambiri - luso ndi chikhumbo chochita nokha. Ndiyeno amene anamenya nyundoyo aime pafupi nthawi zonse kuti nyundo inayo isayendetse zinthu zakezake.

Tikufuna kuthandiza anthu kudzipanga okha. Umu ndi momwe zimamvekera m'makalasi athu: "Kusankha kwanu ndi ntchito yanu. Ndipo changa ndikukuthandizani kuti mupange chisankho chaulere: ndiko kuti, kuzindikira zomwe mwasankha, zomwe zidzatsatire ndi zomwe muyenera kulipira. Koma mumasankha. Ndipo inu ndi amene muli ndi udindo pa izi.”

Siyani Mumakonda