Amatibera nthawi yogona, kupuma, kulankhulana ndi okondedwa. Mafoni athu am'manja akhala ofunika kwambiri kwa ife kuposa ana athu ndi zidzukulu. Psychotherapist Christophe Andre akuyembekeza achichepere ndipo amawaona kuti sadalira kwambiri zida zamagetsi.
Nkhani yoyamba ikuchitika pa sitima. Mtsikana wazaka zitatu kapena zinayi amajambula, atakhala moyang'anizana ndi makolo ake. Amayi amawoneka okwiya, zikuwoneka kuti asanachoke panali mkangano kapena vuto linalake: amayang'ana pawindo ndikumvetsera nyimbo kudzera m'makutu. Bambo anayang'ana pa sikirini ya foni yawo.
Popeza mtsikanayo alibe wina woti alankhule naye, amadzilankhula yekha kuti: "Ndikujambula, amayi ... amamvetsera mahedifoni ake ndipo amakwiya, amayi anga ... Amayi amamvetsera mahedifoni ...
Amabwereza mawu amenewa kangapo kuyambira koyambirira mpaka kumapeto, n’kumayang’ana bambo ake ndi mpang’ono wa diso, n’chiyembekezo chakuti amumvetsera. Koma ayi, bambo ake, mwachiwonekere, alibe naye chidwi. Zomwe zimachitika pafoni yake zimamusangalatsa kwambiri.
Patapita kanthawi, mtsikanayo amakhala chete - anamvetsa zonse - ndipo akupitiriza kujambula mwakachetechete. Kenako, patatha pafupifupi mphindi khumi, akufunabe kukambirana. Kenako amasiya zinthu zake zonse kuti makolo ake akambirane naye. Ndi bwino kudzudzulidwa kusiyana ndi kunyalanyazidwa...
Nkhani yachiwiri. … Mnyamatayo akutembenuka ndi maonekedwe osakondwa ndikupita kukalankhula ndi agogo ake. Nditakumana nawo, ndimamva kuti: “Agogo, tinagwirizana: palibe zipangizo zamakono pamene tili banja!” Bamboyo amangong'ung'udza chinachake osachotsa maso ake.
Zodabwitsa! Nanga akuganiza zotani Lamlungu masana, akumacheza ndi chida chosokoneza ubale? Kodi foni ingakhale yamtengo wapatali bwanji kwa iye kuposa kukhalapo kwa mdzukulu?
Ana omwe awona momwe akuluakulu amadzivutitsira okha ndi mafoni a m'manja adzakhala ndi ubale wanzeru ndi zida zawo.
Nthawi yogwiritsidwa ntchito kutsogolo kwa zowonera pa smartphone imabedwa pazinthu zina. M'moyo wathu wamseri, iyi nthawi zambiri imakhala nthawi yomwe imabedwa m'tulo (madzulo) komanso maubwenzi athu ndi anthu ena: abale, abwenzi kapena modzidzimutsa (masana). Kodi tikudziwa izi? Ndikayang'ana pozungulira, ndimawona ngati palibe ...
Milandu iwiri yomwe ndawona yandikhumudwitsa. Koma amandilimbikitsanso. Pepani kuti makolo ndi agogo ali akapolo ndi zida zawo.
Koma ndine wokondwa kuti ana, omwe awona momwe akuluakulu amachitira umphawi ndikudzichepetsera okha ndi zipangizozi, adzakhalabe ndi ubale wosamala komanso wololera ndi zida zawo kuposa mibadwo yakale, omwe akuzunzidwa ndi malonda, omwe amagulitsidwa bwino ndi chidziwitso chosatha. zida zogwiritsira ntchito ("Aliyense amene sakukhudzana ndi munthu weniweni", "Sindimadziletsa pa chilichonse").
Tiyeni, achinyamata, tikudalira inu!