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Vanessa, 35, amayi a Gabriel, 6, ndi Anna, 2 ndi theka. Oyang'anira ntchito ndi maphunziro
“Ndidapangako ma contract angapo anthawi yokhazikika ngati woyang'anira zolumikizirana ndipo ndidayenera kukhazikitsidwa nditabwerako kutchuthi choyembekezera. Koma ndinalandira kalata masiku angapo asanandiuze kuti sizingakhale choncho. Choncho ndinayenera kubwerera kuntchito kwa milungu iwiri, nthawi yoti ndithetse mgwirizano wanga womaliza.
Ndinakhala usiku woipa bwanji dzulo lake! Ndipo m'mawa, ndinali ndi chotupa m'mimba mwanga. Zinali milungu iwiri yosasangalatsa kwambiri pamoyo wanga wonse waukatswiri! Anzanga anali abwino, osangalala kundiona. Koma sindinathe kubweza mafayilo anga m'manja, sanagwirizane ndi chilichonse. Ndinayendayenda pakati pa maofesi kuti ndifotokoze nkhani yanga. Masiku ano akhalapo mpaka kalekale. Mwamwayi, Gabriel ankasamalidwa ndi mayi anga, choncho kulekana sikunali kovuta kwambiri.
Komabe, asanamve mbiri yoipa imeneyi, zonse zinali bwino. Ndinkakonda ntchito imeneyi. Ndinatumizira aliyense chilengezo cha kubadwa, ndinasunga mauthenga abwino, ndinalandira mawu othokoza kuchokera kwa akuluakulu anga. Mwachidule, inali shawa yozizira. Ndinawerenganso kalatayo maulendo khumi. N’zoona kuti wantchito wina anali atalipira kale chithandizo chamtundu umenewu, koma sindinkayembekezera ngakhale pang’ono. Ndinali nditangotsala pang'ono kupita kutchuthi changa cholipira, ndinalibe cholinga chopempha tchuthi cha makolo kapena nthawi yochepa, koma ndikulingalira kuti ndiwo mtundu wa mantha omwe anali nawo.
Ndinali pamoto, ndinapereka zonse!
Ndinakwiya kwambiri, ndinakhumudwa, ndikudzidzimuka, koma sindinachite manyazi. Sindinafune kusiya chithunzi choyipa cha ine, ndidakonda kutsanzikana ndi anthu mwakachetechete. Ndinali ndi ndalama zambiri pa udindo umenewu, ndinali wotsimikiza kuti ndikhazikitsidwa. Ngakhale pamene ndinali ndi pakati, ndinali pamoto, ndinapereka chirichonse, kuphatikizapo m’maŵa kapena Loweruka ndi Lamlungu. Ndinali nditanenepa kwambiri ndipo ndinali nditabereka pasanapite mwezi umodzi ndi theka.
Zikanakhala kwa ine lero, zikanakhala zosiyana! Koma ndondomeko yalamulo, ngati ndikanayambitsa imodzi, inalonjeza kuti idzachedwa kwambiri. Ndipo ndinali nditatopa. Gabirieli anali kugona moipa.
Ndinaika maganizo anga pa kufufuza kwanga ntchito. Ndipo patatha kuyankhulana katatu komwe ndidapangidwa kuti ndimvetsetse (pang'onopang'ono pakati pa mizere!) Kuti kukhala ndi mwana wa miyezi 6 kunandilepheretsa, ndinayamba kuphunzitsidwanso ... muzantchito. Nditakhala wotanganidwa kwambiri mukampani yolembera anthu ntchito (kupsinjika, kupanikizika, maola ambiri, zoyendera zambiri), ndimagwira ntchito mu dipatimenti ya HR mdera lina. “
Nathalie, wazaka 40, mayi ake a Gabriel, wazaka 5, woyang'anira Concept ndi Merchandising pakampani yayikulu.
"Ndikukumbukira bwino tsikulo, linali Lolemba Epulo 7, Gabriel anali ndi miyezi itatu. Pamapeto a sabata, ndimatenga nthawi kuti ndikhale ndekha, ndimakhala ndikusisita. Ndinafunikiradi. Kubereka kwanga (mwezi ndi theka kale kuposa momwe ndimayembekezera) sizinayende bwino. Gulu la amayi oyembekezera - muzochita zawo ndi mawu - linandisiya ine ndi chiwopsezo chomwe ndinali ndisanamvepo.
Kwa iye kunali kusakhulupirika
Kenako, ndinali ndi vuto lalikulu lopeza njira yosungira Gabi. Panangotsala sabata imodzi kuti tiyambirenso kuti ndipeze nanny mnyumba yanga. Mpumulo weniweni! Kuchokera pamalingaliro awa, kubwerera kwanga kuntchito sikunali kovuta kwambiri. Sindinathamangire m’mawa kukasiya ndipo ndinali ndi chikhulupiriro.
Koma kuyambira pamene ndinalengeza kuti ndili ndi pakati, ubale wanga ndi bwana wanga unasokonekera. Zimene ananena: “Simungachite zimenezi kwa ine! zinandikhumudwitsa. Kwa iye, kunali kusakhulupirika. Ngakhale kuti ndinasiya ntchito ndili ndi pakati pa miyezi isanu ndi umodzi chifukwa cha matenda a shuga a gestational, ndinagwira ntchito kuchokera kunyumba mpaka tsiku lisanayambe kubereka, mwinamwake pang'ono chifukwa cha liwongo. Ndipo ndinazindikira mochedwa kwambiri kuti kampaniyo sidzandipatsa chosinthira chandalama yanga ... hide) sichinafanane kwambiri ndi mlengalenga wa bokosi langa ... Mwachidule, sindinali wokhazikika pamalingaliro ochira. Nditafika kuntchito, palibe chomwe chinasintha. Palibe amene adakhudza tebulo langa. Chilichonse chinali chitakhazikika m'malo mwake ngati kuti ndachoka dzulo lake. Zinali zabwino, koma mwanjira ina, zidayika zipsinjo zambiri. Kwa ine, izi zikutanthauza kuti "Muli ndi ntchito yanu, palibe amene watengapo kanthu kuchokera pamene mudachoka". Anzanga, omwe anasangalala kundiona ndikubweranso, anandilandira mwachifundo chachikulu komanso chakudya cham’mawa chabwino kwambiri. Ndinayambiranso mafayilo anga, ndikukonza maimelo anga. Ndinalandiridwa ndi HRD kuti ndifotokoze mfundo.
Ndinayenera kubwerezanso maumboni anga
Pang'onopang'ono, ndinamvetsetsa kuti sindingathe kutenga udindo wina kapena kusinthika monga momwe ndimafunira, ndinayenera "kubwereza maumboni anga", "kusonyeza kuti ndinali wokhoza". M’maso mwa olamulira anga, ndinatchedwa “mayi wa banja” ndipo ndinali ndi ntchito yoti ndisavutikepo. Zimenezi zinandisokoneza maganizo kwambiri, chifukwa n’zoona kuti poyamba ndinali mayi, ndinalibenso chikhumbo chogwira ntchito yowonjezereka madzulo, koma zinali kwa ine kusankha kuti ndichepetse kapena ayi, osati kwa ena. perekani ngati gawo limodzi. Kenako ndinasiya ntchito patatha zaka ziwiri. Mu bizinesi yanga yatsopano, nthawi yomweyo ndidadziyika ndekha ndikudzitengera udindo ngati mayi komanso ngati katswiri wodzipereka, chifukwa wina samaletsa mnzake. “.
Adeline, 37, amayi a Lila, 11, ndi Mahé, 8. Wothandizira ana
Ndinali nditatenga miyezi isanu ndi umodzi ya tchuthi cha makolo. Ndinali wothandizira zolinga zambiri, ndiko kunena kuti ndinawombera ma nazale angapo a matauni, malinga ndi zosowa. Koma ndinkakondabe kwambiri ndi mmodzi wa iwo. Ndisanayambe kuyambiranso, ndinatumiza chilengezo ku nazale yakunyumba kwanga, ndikupereka Lila kwa anzanga omwe adandiyamikira ndikundipatsa mphatso zazing'ono. Chodetsa nkhawa chokha ndichakuti zidatenga nthawi yayitali kuti andidziwitse za nazale yanga yatsopano yakunyumba. Ndipo sindimadziwa nthawi yomwe ndimatha kuyika ma RTT anga awiri pamwezi. Ndinaimba foni kuti ndidziwe, koma sizinali zomveka.
Ndinasangalala kuona anthu
Panalinso nkhaŵa ya mtundu wa chisamaliro cha ana. Ndinali wotsimikiza kuti ndidzakhala ndi malo mu nazale ya banja, koma mwezi umodzi ndisanayambe kuyambiranso, ndinauzidwa kuti ayi. Tinkafunika kupeza wolera mwamsanga. Kusinthaku kudayamba patatsala sabata imodzi kuti chivundikiro changa chisanachitike. Koma Lachinayi, tsoka, ndinayenera kupita kuchipatala. Ndinali ndi ectopic pregnancy! Masiku otsatira anali okhumudwitsa pang'ono. Lila kwa nanny ndipo ine ndekha kunyumba ...
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Tsiku loyamba, ndinayenera kusamalira Lila wina wachichepere, zochitika zoseketsa! Ndimakumbukira kuti gawo lovuta kwambiri linali m'mawa, kukonzekera, kudya nkhomaliro, kudzutsa Lila, kumuyika pansi, kufika pa nthawi yake… Koma zina zonse, ndili ndi mwayi! Mu nazale, zopindika ndi zovala zoziziritsa sizidabwitsa aliyense! Ndipo ndinali wokondwa kupeza anzanga, kuona anthu. Chotsimikizika nchakuti pokhala mayi, ndinayamba kulolera makolo! Ndikumvetsetsa chifukwa chake sitingagwiritse ntchito mfundo zamaphunziro zomwe timakhulupirira ... ”...