Psychology

Ndipo maganizo amenewa pa nkhani ya kugonana akadali m’maganizo mwa amuna ndi akazi ambiri. Zimatsutsidwa ndi akatswiri athu, ofufuza za kugonana Alain Eril ndi Mireille Bonyerbal.

Alain Eril, psychoanalyst, sexologist:

Pano tikulimbana kwathunthu ndi nthano zachitukuko cha Chiyuda ndi Chikhristu, chomwe, kudalira zonyenga zingapo, akazi oponderezedwa podzinenera kuti, chifukwa cha kusakhutira kwawo kwa akazi, sayenera kuloledwa kusangalala konse. M'zaka za zana la XNUMX, anthu adada nkhawa kwambiri atadziwika kuti nthawi ina ya kuzungulira, mayi sangakhale ndi pakati. Izi zikutanthauza kuti panthawiyi, kugonana kwa iye sikuloledwa ndi kubereka, pamene mwamuna akhoza kutenga pakati ndi kutulutsa umuna kulikonse.

N'chifukwa chiyani akazi masiku ena salola kubereka? Funsoli linayambitsa nkhawa. Ndiyeno nkhaniyi ndi clitoris inapezekanso - chiwalo chomwe chimabweretsa chisangalalo, koma sichikhala chachabechabe!

Amuna amatha kukumana ndi chisangalalo champhamvu kwambiri, ndipo palibe chifukwa choganiza kuti zomverera za akazi ndizolimba.

Akazi omwe amasangalala ndi zosangalatsa akhala osavomerezeka kwa anthu. N'zomveka chifukwa chake mfiti (omwe ankakhulupirira kuti amapita ku sabata kukakhala ndi mdierekezi ngati mbuzi) ankawonetsedwa atakwera tsache - n'zovuta kulingalira chizindikiro cha phallic chowonekera kwambiri. Tisaiwale kuti amayi ambiri adawotchedwa pamtengo powaneneza kuti ndi mfiti.

Mireille Bonierbal, psychiatrist, sexologist:

stereotype iyi imatanthawuza lingaliro la mkazi ngati cholengedwa chosakhutitsidwa chomwe chimadya ena. Koma kupatula Tiresias, wamatsenga wodziwika bwino wa Phoebus, yemwe anali ndi mwayi wokhala mkazi kwa zaka zisanu ndi ziwiri ndikuphunzira kuchokera mkati mwazosangalatsa za kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, palibe amene angathe kuyamikira mphamvu yofananira ya zomverera ndi chidziwitso. wa mlandu.

Asayansi (mwachitsanzo, Austrian psychoanalyst Wilhelm Reich) anayesa kuyeza kukula kwa chisangalalo, koma zotsatira za miyeso yotere ndizokhazikika. Amuna amatha kukumana ndi chisangalalo champhamvu kwambiri, ndipo palibe chifukwa choganiza kuti zomverera za akazi ndizolimba.

Siyani Mumakonda