Psychology

Sikuti aliyense wakhala ndi nthawi yochotsa mtengo wa Khrisimasi, koma aliyense wozungulira akukonzekera kale Tsiku la Valentine. Kutsatsa pa intaneti kumalonjeza zopatsa zapadera: chakudya chamadzulo choyatsa makandulo, maulendo achikondi a mabuloni awiri ofiira owoneka ngati mtima. Nanga bwanji akazi opanda okondedwa? Khalani chete kunyumba ndikulira mtsamiro wanu? Timapereka kuiwala za misozi ndi kudzimvera chisoni ndikuchita chinthu chosangalatsa kwambiri.

Kukhala pampando, kuyang'ana mafilimu achikondi, kudya chokoleti ndi kudzimvera chisoni sikuli koyipa kwambiri, koma osati njira yabwino kwambiri. Chifukwa chakuti muli nokha si chifukwa chokhalira okhumudwa. Kodi n’kofunikadi kukhala ndi mnzako wokondwerera holide? Mukhoza, mwachitsanzo:

1. Kusangalatsa ana

Osawononga ndalama zanu pa mphatso zopanda pake, tengerani adzukulu anu, adzukulu anu kapena ana a anzanu kwinakwake. Lolani makolo awo azikhala okha ndi wina ndi mzake, ndipo inu muzisamalira ana - mwinamwake mudzakhala ndi nthawi yosangalatsa kwambiri.

2. Thandizani mlendo

Ngati palibe wokondedwa pafupi, perekani chikondi kwa anthu onse. Pangani wina kumwetulira. Dziperekeni kumalo osungirako ana amasiye kapena kuchipatala. Pali anthu ambiri omwe ali oipitsitsa kuposa inu.

3. Thawani mumzinda

Simufunika bwenzi kuti musangalale: chokani pabedi ndi kupita kokayenda. Pitani kudera lomwe mwakhala mukufuna kupitako, kapena mukhale alendo m'tawuni kwanu kwa tsiku limodzi.

4. Perekani chikondi kwa anzanu ndi achibale

Kukonda mwamuna ndi chimodzi mwa mitundu yambiri ya chikondi. Gwiritsani ntchito February 14 monga nthaŵi yokumbutsa achibale anu ndi mabwenzi mmene mumawakondera, mmene mumakondwera kukhala nawo m’moyo wanu.

5. Pitani kwa munthu amene alibe

Ganizilani za anthu amene amakhala okha nthawi zonse. Pitani kwa wachibale wachikulire amene mwamuna wake anamwalira ndipo tsopano akukhala yekha, muzimukomera mtima.

6. Dzazani tsikulo ndi tanthauzo

Chitani zomwe mudalonjeza nokha kalekale. Yambitsani pulojekiti yatsopano, lembani maphunziro ku kalabu yolimbitsa thupi, yeretsani nyumba yanu - tsiku lino lisakhale pachabe.

7. Pukutani mphuno za maanja

Ndi nthawi yotsimikizira okonda kuti msungwana waulere akhoza kukhala ndi nthawi yabwino. Sungitsani tebulo kumalo odyera okongola a atsikana omwe ali osakwatiwa. Dzipangeni nokha phwando. Sangalalani ndi owuma okwiyitsa omwe akuseka mokweza komanso nthabwala.

8. Kondwerani ufulu

Meyi 14th likhale tsiku lanu. Siyani ntchito msanga kapena mutenge tsiku lopuma. Chitani chilichonse chomwe mukufuna. Dzisamalireni nokha, pitani ku kanema kapena konsati. Sangalalani ndi ufulu wanu pamene mungakwanitse.

"Yesani kukhala osangalala pano ndi pano"

Veronika Kazantseva, katswiri wa zamaganizo

Lamulo lalikulu la kudzimva bwino ndi chikhalidwe chogwirizana ndikuyesera kukhala osangalala pano ndi tsopano. Kumatanthauza kukhala ndi moyo mphindi iliyonse ya moyo. Musatembenuzire moyo watsiku ndi tsiku kukhala chiyembekezo cha tsogolo lowala: "Ndidzakhala wokondwa mwamuna akawonekera."

Tsiku la Valentine ndi msonkhano chabe, tchuthi chomwe anthu abwera nacho. Ndipo malamulo amakhalidwe pa tsikuli amapangidwanso. Iwo ali odzaza ndi misonkhano.

Kodi chimakusangalatsani ndi chiyani? Kodi n’chiyani chingakulimbikitseni? Gwiritsani ntchito mpata uliwonse kudzisangalatsa. Ndinu mfulu ndipo mukhoza kuchita chilichonse chimene mukufuna. Simufunikanso kutengera zomwe wina adakonzeratu. Kuti musakhale achisoni pa February 14, konzekeranitu. Ziribe kanthu zomwe mukuchita, chachikulu ndi chakuti mumasangalala nazo.

Azimayi omwe sakhutira ndi ubale wawo nthawi zambiri amabwera kwa ine kudzakambirana. Amadandaula za mwamuna wawo: "Chilichonse chiri pa ndandanda: chikondi chimazindikiridwa pa February 14, maluwa amaperekedwa pa March 8, chakudya cham'mawa pabedi pa tsiku langa lobadwa. Koma m'moyo wamba iye alibe chidwi, ozizira, amatha nthawi zonse kuntchito.

Ambiri amapanga maonekedwe a moyo wosangalala pokhapokha patchuthi. Koma moyo weniweni uli pakali pano. Tchuthi mmenemo zimakonzedwa ndi inu nokha, nthawi yomwe mukufuna, osati pamasiku omwe apatsidwa izi.


Gwero: Magazini Yokongola ndi Malangizo.

Siyani Mumakonda