Zamkatimu
Amakhulupirira kuti malo ochezera a pa Intaneti ndi njira yabwino kwa anthu okonda kugwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo. Amatha kuwonetsa zithunzi zawo ndi zomwe akwaniritsa kwa anthu masauzande ambiri, ndikupanga mawonekedwe abwino. Kodi ndizowona kuti ogwiritsa ntchito Facebook ndi Instagram ndi odzitukumula omwe amafuna kuzindikirika? Kapena kodi dziko lathu lotsogozedwa ndi zopambana lomwe limatipatsa miyezo yosatheka yachipambano?
Kodi malo ochezera a pa Intaneti ndi "gawo" la narcisists? Zikuwoneka choncho. Mu 2019, akatswiri azamisala ku Novosibirsk Pedagogical University adachita kafukufuku, zomwe zidawonetsa kuti ambiri omwe amagwiritsa ntchito malo ochezera a pa Intaneti amakhaladi ndi zizolowezi. Zinapezeka kuti iwo omwe amathera pa intaneti maola opitilira atatu patsiku ndikuyika zomwe zili patsamba lawo, mawonetsedwe otere amawonekera kwambiri kuposa ena onse. Ndipo anthu omwe amatchulidwa kuti narcissistic amakhala otanganidwa kwambiri pamasamba ochezera.
Kodi narcissism ndi chiyani? Choyamba, mopitirira muyeso ndi kudzikuza. Anthu oterowo amathera mphamvu zawo pakulimbana kuti adziwike, koma chikhumbo cha ungwiro chimayamba chifukwa cha zochitika zabwino: munthu amapanga chithunzithunzi chabwino chakunja, chifukwa ali ndi manyazi kwambiri ndi umunthu wake weniweni.
Mutha kuzindikira munthu wamatsenga mwa zizindikiro monga ludzu lakutamanda ndi chidwi chowonjezereka, kutengeka maganizo ndi munthu wanu, kusadzidzudzula, ndi kukhulupirira ukulu wake.
Narcissism palokha si vuto lamalingaliro. Makhalidwe amenewa ndi ofala kwa anthu ambiri ndipo ndi amene amatipatsa chikhumbo chofuna kutithandiza kukwera makwerero akampani. Koma vutoli litha kukhala la pathological ngati mikhalidwe iyi ikuwonjezeka ndikuyamba kusokoneza ena.
Virtual "chiwonetsero"
Popeza imodzi mwa ntchito zazikulu za malo ochezera a pa Intaneti ndikudziwonetsera nokha, kwa anthu omwe ali ndi narcissistic uwu ndi mwayi wabwino kwambiri wosunga, ndipo mwinamwake kukulitsa, makhalidwe a narcissistic. Kutengera zokhazikika, koma kutali ndi zenizeni, malingaliro onena za wekha, m'malo ochezera a pa Intaneti aliyense akhoza kupanga mosavuta ndikuwonetsa dziko lapansi mtundu wabwino kwambiri wa iwo okha.
Chivomerezo ndi chilimbikitso
Momwemo, kudzidalira kwathu sikuyenera kudalira kuvomerezedwa kwakunja, koma zotsatira za kafukufukuyu zikusonyeza kuti ogwiritsa ntchito okonda malo ochezera a pa Intaneti amafunikira kutamandidwa ndi ena, ndipo ichi ndi chimodzi mwa zizindikiro za narcissism. Gwero la chosowa choterocho, monga lamulo, ndikudzikayikira kwamkati.
Kuphatikiza apo, omwe ali okangalika m'malo ochezera a pa Intaneti nthawi zambiri amakokomeza maluso awo, luso lawo komanso zomwe akwanitsa. Nthaŵi zonse amayembekezera kuti ena adzayamikira kwambiri ntchito yawo, ngakhale kuti kaŵirikaŵiri zimene apindulazo sizikhala zazikulu kwenikweni. Amadziwika ndi udindo wapamwamba komanso wodzikuza kwambiri.
Anthu a Narcissistic samayesa mokwanira luso lawo ndi mikhalidwe yawo, kukokomeza kufunikira kwawo komanso luso lawo, komanso ogwiritsa ntchito mwachangu malo ochezera a pa Intaneti samangolemba zambiri za iwo okha, komanso kuwunika zomwe ogwiritsa ntchito ena ali nazo.
Ambiri aife timakonda kugawana zithunzi zathu zabwino pazama TV, chifukwa chake kuyang'ana kosalekeza kwa kupambana ndi zomwe ena akwaniritsa kumapangitsa kaduka, kutsika, kunyozetsa zomwe zimachitika mwa narcissists, komanso kutha kuwakakamiza kuti awonjezere kupambana kwawo ndi luso lawo. Chifukwa chake, mbali imodzi, masamba a pa intaneti ndi malo omwe anthu amakonda kudziwonetsera okha, ndipo mbali inayi, malo owoneka bwino amatha kuwonjezera mawonekedwe awo oyipa.
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Natalia Tyutyunikova - katswiri wa zamaganizo. Werengani zambiri za iye .