Zamkatimu
Makolo ambiri ndi otsimikiza kuti lisping amawononga mwanayo - izo kusokoneza kulankhula kwake kukula, amamuphunzitsa kupotoza mawu ndi zambiri kubweza kukhwima kwa umunthu. Ndi choncho? Tiyeni timvetsere maganizo a katswiri, perinatal psychologist Elena Patrikeyeva.
Makolo a m’mayiko osiyanasiyana amalankhula chinenero cha ana. Polankhula ndi ana, iwo amatalikitsa mavawelo mwadala, amasokoneza mawu (kuwapangitsa kukhala "achibwana" komanso osamveka bwino), ndipo mawu ambiri amakhala omveka bwino.
Omwe amalankhula Chirasha amagwiritsa ntchito zilembo zocheperako (batani, botolo, bun). Ndipo, ndithudi, "lisping" (mitundu yonse ya "usi-pusi", "bibika" ndi "lyalka"), zomwe zimakhala zovuta kumasulira.
Umu ndi mmene makolo ambiri amalankhulira ndi ana awo. Chifukwa chiyani?
Choyamba, awa ndi mawu achikuda omwe amaperekedwa kwa mwanayo. Amamveka mofewa komanso ofunda. Motsagana ndi kumwetulira.
Izi ndi zomwe timakhazikitsa kukhudzana ndi mwanayo, kumutonthoza.
Chifukwa chake tikunena kuti zonse zili bwino, ali olandirika pano ndipo ali otetezeka kuno.
Kuyambira kalekale, makolo azikhalidwe zosiyanasiyana akhala akugwiritsa ntchito nyimbo za nazale. Ndipo palibe amene anali ndi funso, koma ndi kofunika, koma n'zotheka, ndipo sizovulaza kulankhula ndi kuyankhulana monga choncho ndi mwana. Empirically, anthu anapeza kuti ana kotero kukhala pansi, kuganizira munthu wamkulu, kutsatira ndi maso awo, ndiyeno, mwezi ndi theka, kumupatsa kumwetulira woyamba. Chilankhulo choterocho ndicho chizoloŵezi cholankhulana ndi makanda.
Tsopano tili ndi chidziwitso chochuluka chomwe sichinawonekere mpaka pano, chomwe chimayambitsa nkhawa. Chifukwa chidziwitsocho chimatsutsana m'malo. Ndipo panthawi iliyonse yotsutsana, muyenera kupanga chisankho chamtundu wina nokha.
Ndipo tsopano makolo amayamba kufunsa mafunso: kodi nthawi zambiri zimakhala zachilendo kuti mwadzidzidzi ndinagwa paubwana pamakina ndi kubadwa kwa mwana wanga ndikuyamba kugwedeza? Nanga bwanji ngati akukula mofewa komanso wopusitsika chifukwa cha izi? Bwanji ngati mwanayo samadzimva ngati munthu? Nanga bwanji ngati, kupotoza mawu, ndikusokoneza mawu ake?
Ndiyankha mwachidule. Chabwino. Ayi. Ayi.
Ndipo tsopano zambiri.
Khalidwe, umunthu ndi chinenero
Ndikubwerezanso: chinenero choterechi chikufunika kuti tilankhule mokhudzidwa. Ndipo ndi chitsimikizo cha chitetezo cha mwanayo, choncho yake yachibadwa chitukuko. Kodi zimakhudza mapangidwe a khalidwe?
Tiyeni tifotokoze momveka bwino: maziko a umunthu (makhalidwe aumunthu ndi machitidwe oyankhira pazochitika zosiyanasiyana) amaikidwa mokhazikika mpaka zaka zisanu. Ndipo makanda akadali ndi mawonekedwe okha a chikhalidwe ndi machitidwe a mitsempha. Ndipo kwa nthawi yayitali, ndi machitidwe athu, timangobwezera kapena kulimbikitsa ndendende mawonetseredwe awa. Pang'onopang'ono, pamene mwanayo akukula, ife, ndi momwe timachitira ndi zochita zake (kuphatikizapo makhalidwe ake), timayamba kupanga khalidwe.
Kaya mwana adzakhala wodziletsa, adzakonza, ndi zina zotero, zimatengera momwe akuluakulu amathandizira ntchito yake yofufuza zachilengedwe, zoyambira. Kodi angathandize kuphunzira zinthu zatsopano kapena, mophiphiritsira, adzabisala m’chifuwa cha nkhaŵa ya makolo.
Kubwebweta mofatsa kulibe chochita nazo. Ngati mupatsa mwana wanu mwayi woti adzipatule pang'onopang'ono, kupanga zosankha, kuthana ndi zotsatira za zisankhozi, mukhoza kumutcha "bubusechka" mpaka ukalamba.
Komanso. M’chitaganya chamakono chaumunthu, malingaliro okhudza mwanayo asintha. Timayesetsa kuchitira ana monga munthu payekha kuyambira pa kubadwa. Koma tiyeni tione chimene icho chiri.
Izi makamaka zimatanthauza: “Ndimalemekeza zosoŵa ndi malingaliro ako, mwana wanga, ndipo ndimazindikira kuti sindiwe chuma changa. Ndikumvetsa kuti mukhoza kukhala ndi maganizo anuanu, zokonda zanu komanso zokonda zanu zosiyana ndi zanga. Inu, monga munthu aliyense, mumafunika kulemekeza malire anu ndi chitetezo. Simukufuna kutukwanidwa, kumenyedwa kapena kutukwanidwa. Koma nthawi yomweyo, ndiwe wamng'ono komanso wobadwa kumene. Ndipo chimodzi mwazosowa zanu ndi kulumikizana kwachikondi ndi ine, kholo lanu. Ndipo kunyengerera kumakwaniritsa chosowa chimenechi.
Ulemu ndi waukulu. Zopambana mu chilichonse - ayi.
3D
Ponena za kutanthauzira. Zolankhula za anthu zimayamba motsanzira, nzoona. Ndicho chifukwa chake zojambula za 2D zimakhala ndi zotsatira zoipa pa chitukuko cha kulankhula (nthawi zina, kupatulapo, mwanayo alibe zitsanzo zina).
Amafuna 3D model. Kuti zimveke bwino komanso ziwoneke bwino momwe milomo ndi lilime zimayendera. Poyamba, mwanayo amangotenga phokoso ndi zithunzi izi, ndipo kulira ("kulankhula") kudzaperekedwa kokha ndi miyezi 2-4. Mawu akubwebweta adzawoneka pakadutsa miyezi 7-8.
Ndipo ngakhale mutapotoza mawuwo, mwanayo amawerenga momwe mumalankhulira (amawona momwe mumapinda milomo yanu, pamene mumayika lilime lanu), ndipo adzapitiriza kukutsanzirani.
Komanso, kuyambira m'badwo winawake - Ndipotu, kuyambira miyezi ingapo - adzatha kuganizira kwambiri kulankhula pakati pa akuluakulu, pakati pa makolo ndi ana ena. Ndipo lisping wanu, ndi kukambirana mozungulira iye - iyi ndi yachonde malo amene kulankhula aumbike m'tsogolo.
Ndi liti pamene lisping imatha? Apa ndi mokokomeza ndi chaka kawirikawiri amapita palokha. Koma ngakhale pakatha chaka chilankhulo cha "chibwana" sichichoka, musathamangire kupachika zilembo ndikuzindikira. Mmodzi «chizindikiro» sayenera kugwiritsidwa ntchito pomaliza zimene zikuchitika ndi ndondomeko kulekana kapena malire m'banja.
Kodi pali nthawi yoti musiye kupsopsona anyamata? Kusonyeza chikondi? Kukoma mtima ndi chikondi sizimapatula malire abwino komanso okwanira. M'mawu amodzi, musawope "kuwakonda" ana anu.