Moni, owerenga okondedwa a tsambali! Lero tikambirana zomwe zimapanga mawu omveka bwino malinga ndi Lichko. Kupatula apo, ndiyo yowala kwambiri pakati pa mitundu ina yonse. Tiyeni tiwone mbali zazikulu zomwe zingadziwike.
Makhalidwe
Ma Hysteroids amakonda chidwi kwambiri kotero kuti ali okonzeka kuchipeza pamtengo uliwonse. Ngakhale zitakhala izi muyenera kudziwongolera nokha, kuchita zinthu zosaloledwa kapena kuwononga ubale ndi okondedwa.
Choncho, mbali yaikulu ndi egocentrism, ndiko kuti, kulephera kuvomereza maganizo a munthu wina, kusamala zofuna zake ndi malingaliro ake.
Amachita mwachipongwe pofuna kuzindikirika ndi kulemekezedwa padziko lonse. Nthawi zina ngakhale kutsutsidwa kumawonedwa ngati mankhwala a moyo. Koma nthawi yomweyo, amakhala okhudzidwa kwambiri ngati wina ayesa kuwakhumudwitsa, amanyalanyaza mwayi ndi luso lomwe amangotulutsa kuti aliyense awone.
Maluso ochita masewerawa ali pamwamba, ali okonzeka kulowa nawo gawoli ali mumkhalidwe uliwonse. Ngakhale kwa wowonera m'modzi.
Nthawi zambiri samvera chisoni anthu omwe amakhala nawo, koma amatha kumuwonetsa mokongola komanso modalirika.
Kudzidalira kumaonedwa mopambanitsa, komwe, kwenikweni, ndi chizindikiro chakuti munthu woteroyo amadziona yekha manyazi, amamuganizira ngati wopanda pake.
Koma kukhala ndi moyo kumakhala kovutirapo kotero kuti kunyengedwa, kukhulupirira yekha. Mwanjira iyi, psyche imatetezedwa kumalingaliro amphamvu komanso kuvulala kwamaganizidwe, ndikupanga lingaliro labodza lamunthu wauXNUMXbuXNUMXbits.
Amakonda zinthu zamafashoni, zachilendo zomwe mwachibadwa zimakopa maso ndikumupangitsa kukhala wosiyana ndi gulu.
Amawerenga kwambiri, amapita ku ziwonetsero, zisudzo, kupereka chithunzi cha munthu wophunzira, chikhalidwe ndi luntha. Chimene, kwenikweni, chiri kwenikweni.
Pambuyo pake, amalankhulana makamaka ndi omwe angatengere chidziwitso chosangalatsa, kupeza chidziwitso, chomwe m'tsogolomu chikhoza kuwonetsedwa pagulu.
Ali ndi nthabwala zowoneka bwino, zomwe sizosadabwitsa, chifukwa kuthekera kopangitsa anthu kuseka kumathandiza kukhala wodziwika bwino, wotchuka komanso wofunikira.
Mutha kumvetsera kwambiri hysteroid, zolankhula zake zimaperekedwa bwino. Amangoyendetsa mwaluso katchulidwe kake, kupeŵa kugwiritsa ntchito mawu osalongosoka ndi kupuma movutikira.
Ubwana
Unyamata suyenda bwino. Hysterias amabweretsa mavuto ambiri ndi nkhawa kwa makolo awo. Chifukwa, mwachitsanzo, angayerekeze kukhala odwala, kuti angopeza gawo la chifundo ndi chisamaliro.
Kapenanso kudzivulaza mwadala ngati achibale azindikira mabodza ndi kuchitapo kanthu. Mwapadera kudula khungu, kulumpha kuchokera kutalika, kugwera mu chinachake. Ndiyeno amasangalala ndi chidwi chomwe chimawazungulira panthawi ya chithandizo.
Amathaŵa kwawo kukachititsa okondedwa awo kuda nkhaŵa, makamaka ngati posachedwapa sanawathandize kwenikweni. Mwa zochita zotere, ana oterowo amafuna kubwezera, chifukwa panthawi yotaya mtima chifukwa cha kufufuza kosatheka, akuluakulu amazindikira momwe amawakondera.
Amakondanso uchidakwa. Nthawi zambiri amayesa kudzipha, mwachibadwa, monyoza, mosalephera kusiya mwayi wodzipulumutsa.
Atsikana akutha msinkhu angakhale achiwerewere, poganiza kuti chithunzi cha hule chidzawasiyanitsa ndi unyinji wa anzawo. Amakhala oyambitsa kufalitsa mphekesera ndi zambiri zamunthu wawo.
Ntchito zamaluso
Ma umunthu omwe ali ndi mawonekedwe odabwitsa amakhala amakani komanso ali ndi cholinga, zomwe zimangokhala ndi zotsatira zabwino pa ntchito yawo. Kupatula apo, adzachita chilichonse kuti akwaniritse zolinga zawo.
Nthawi zambiri amayamikiridwa ndi oyang'anira, makamaka m'munda momwe muli mpikisano waukulu. Chifukwa munthu wotero angachite chilichonse kuti apambane.
Iye ndi wanzeru, wokhoza kupanga zisankho zoyenera, wokangalika komanso ali ndi luso ladongosolo. Chifukwa cha kuchezeka kwake, amakhala ndi anzawo ambiri, omwe nthawi zambiri amamuthandiza.
Vuto lokhalo ndiloti, ngakhale ali ndi mphamvu, amatuluka mwamsanga, makamaka ngati kwa nthawi ndithu salandira chitamando ndi kuzindikira.
Ndiko kuti, ntchito yosaphatikizapo kulankhulana ingachititse munthu woteroyo kutopa ngakhalenso kupsinjika maganizo.
Amakonda kusokoneza komanso kukangana, amatha kulakwitsa, nthawi zina amapha chifukwa chololera kutenga zoopsa zopanda chifukwa.
Chifukwa cha kudzikuza kwake, pamene ali ndi maudindo a utsogoleri, saganiziranso maganizo a omwe ali pansi pake, akuchita zinthu motsatira zilakolako zake.
malangizo
- Ngati mwana wanu ali woimira mtundu uwu wa kamvekedwe ka khalidwe, yesetsani kumuzindikiritsa nthawi zambiri momwe mungathere. Sonyezani kuti mumakhudzidwa ndi malingaliro ake, umunthu wake ndipo ndinu okonzeka kumulandira monga momwe alili. Izi zidzapulumutsa mitsempha yanu, monga momwe zilili pano, kufunikira kwake kwa chisamaliro kudzakwaniritsidwa. Ndipo izi zikutanthauza kuti sadzachita zinthu mopupuluma ndi zoopsa, chifukwa sipadzakhala kufunikira kwa iwo.
- Polankhulana ndi hysteroid, pewani zinthu zomwe kukopa kumawonekera kwambiri, musamupatse kuzindikira kosayenera. Mabodza akhoza kumukhumudwitsa, choncho yesetsani kuganizira makhalidwe abwino ndi luso lomwe lilipo.
- Khalani odekha pamene mukukambirana, makamaka ndi wachinyamata. Kupanda kutero, mungamupangitse kuchita zinthu mopupuluma komanso zowopsa zomwe angachite kuti akwaniritse chisoni chanu chifukwa cha kupanda chilungamo komanso kuzunzidwa koopsa.
akamaliza
Ndipo ndizo zonse lero, owerenga okondedwa a tsambali!
Pomaliza, tikufuna tikulimbikitseni kuti muwerenge nkhani yokhudza umunthu wokwezeka. Kumvetsetsa mawonekedwe amtundu uliwonse wa katchulidwe kamunthu, malinga ndi Lichko ndi Leonhard, mutha kukhazikitsa ubale ndi munthu aliyense. Zomwe zitha kukhala ndi zotsatira zabwino pa ntchito yanu komanso moyo wanu.
Dzisamalireni nokha ndikukhala osangalala!
Nkhaniyi inakonzedwa ndi katswiri wa zamaganizo, Gestalt Therapist, Zhuravina Alina