Moni okondedwa owerenga! Mtundu wa umunthu wofananira umafuna kukondweretsa ena, chifukwa chake umanyalanyaza zilakolako zake ndi malingaliro ake, kusinthira kwa ena.
Ndipo lero tikukupemphani kuti mudziwe mwatsatanetsatane zomwe iye ali, ndiko kuti, mwayi ndi malire omwe ali nawo, komanso momwe mungamangire maubwenzi ndi iye kuti akhale athanzi komanso ogwirizana.
Kodi zimakhala bwanji?
Mtundu wamtunduwu umatchedwanso kuti amorphous, chifukwa chosowa kulakalaka, kukwiya komanso kutsimikiza mtima. Munthu woteroyo akuwoneka kuti akuyenda ndi kuyenda, potero amapereka mphamvu pa moyo wake, ndipo nthawi zina okondedwa ake kwa anthu.
Iye sapanga zosankha zimene zingathandize kuti moyo ukhale wabwino, wokhutitsidwa nawo. Iye ndi wosamala, ngati chifukwa chakuti akuyesera kuti asadziwike. Ndipo, potsatira ma templates, pali chiopsezo chochepa chotsutsidwa kapena kukanidwa, kuyiwalika.
Kaŵirikaŵiri, munthu wofanana naye amaonedwa kuti ndi wopereŵera, wokhala ndi luntha lochepa. M'malo mwake, izi siziri choncho, amatha kuphunzira bwino, kuchita bwino pantchito yake ndikumvetsetsa zatsopano pa ntchentche. Amangobisala luso lake ndi luso lake, sakhulupirira kuti akhoza kukhala wolondola.
Kuganiza sikovuta. Ndiko kuti, amakhulupirira anthu ena, osalola ngakhale lingaliro lakuti wina akhoza kunyenga mwadala. Ndi za chilengedwe chake.
Ngati munthu ali mlendo, ndiye kuti amasamala za iye. Koma pazifukwa zina iye adzakhala pafupi naye, monga kukhulupirira mopanda malire mawu ake onse chikugwirizana.
Amayesa kufananiza malo omwe akukhala. Chifukwa chake, momwe moyo wake udzakhazikitsire zimatengera kampani yomwe adalowa.
Monga tanenera kale, psychotype iyi sakonda kuoneka, koma kuwonjezera pa izi, iye sakondanso anthu amene amapita kupyola miyezo ambiri amavomereza ndi malire.
Mwachitsanzo, adzaseka fashoni yatsopano, mwina mokweza kwambiri. Koma pokhapokha ngati anzakewo ayamba kugula zinthu ndi kudula kosazolowereka, amathamangiranso m'masitolo kuti akafufuze zinthu zofunika kuti atsimikize kuti akugwirizana ndi zina zonse.
Mu nthawi zovuta za moyo, iye amadalira mawu, zosiyanasiyana maxims. Folk nzeru imamuthandiza kuti alandire chitonthozo, komanso kumvetsetsa kuti sanapezeke m'mikhalidwe yotere, koma pafupifupi aliyense amalephera posachedwa.
Amakhulupirira kuti kutsindika uku kumachitika kawirikawiri pakati pa amuna kusiyana ndi akazi, ngakhale kuti kuyesa kukondweretsa nthawi zambiri kumakhala khalidwe la theka lokongola laumunthu.
Ubwana
Kusukulu, mwana wamtundu wovomerezeka, malinga ndi Lichko, amaphunzira pafupifupi, ngakhale kuti akhoza kuchita bwino.
Mwachitsanzo, ngakhale atakhala yekha m’kalasimo amene amadziwa yankho lolondola la funso la mphunzitsiyo, sangakweze dzanja lake. Chifukwa amakhulupirira kuti popeza anthu ena sakumvetsa tanthauzo la nkhani imeneyi, iye alakwitsadi.
Ndipo pamenepa, chidwi chonse chidzaperekedwa kwa iye, ndipo sizidziwika momwe anzake a m'kalasi angayankhire kuyesa kwake kuti awoneke wanzeru. Mwadzidzidzi iwo sanafune kulankhula naye pambuyo pake, akumalingalira kuti iye anali munthu wotukuka. Ndipo ichi ndi chinthu choipitsitsa kwa iye.
Zifukwa za khalidwe lotere sizimangokhalira kukhala wamtundu wina wa khalidwe, khalidwe. Mwana, kufuna kulandira chikondi cha makolo, kuzindikira kwawo, nthawi zambiri amakakamizika kumvera malamulo awo, ndipo nthawi zambiri amakhala njira ya moyo.
Mwana kuyambira ali wamng'ono amamvetsetsa kuti dziko liyenera kugwirizana, mwinamwake pali mwayi waukulu wa imfa chifukwa cha kukanidwa.
Mwachitsanzo, mayi, ngati mwanayo samvera, amanena kuti samukonda ndipo amanyalanyaza zoyesayesa zonse zokopa anthu kufikira atayamba kuchita zimene iye akufuna.
Ndipo ngati nthawi zonse amachita zinthu ngati zimenezi, ndiye kuti n’zachibadwa kuti amazoloŵera kupondereza zilakolako zake ndi mmene akumvera, n’kumachita zimene amafuna.
Zimasiyanso chidwi chachikulu pakupanga kogwirizana ndi kutetezedwa mopitirira muyeso. Ngati akuluakulu sapatsa mwanayo mwayi wothana ndi mavuto, kukwaniritsa ntchito zachitukuko za msinkhu wake, ndiye kuti sadzapeza zambiri, ndipo, motero, luso la kudziimira.
Ndiye adzayesa kukhala kutali ndi kukhala ngati ena, kutengera khalidwe lawo, chifukwa iye sadzakhala ndi chidaliro mwa iye yekha ndi chidziwitso, luso ndi mbali.
Zaka zaunyamata
Ngati wachinyamata ali pakati pa omwe amakonda kuwerenga, kuphunzira makompyuta, ndi zina zotero, ndiye kuti, mwachibadwa, adzabwereza pambuyo pawo. Cholinga chake chachikulu chidzakhala kudzikuza, chifukwa izi ndi zomwe zimadetsa nkhawa abwenzi ake.
Koma ndikofunikira kukhala pagulu la anzawo omwe amasuta, kumwa ndi kugulitsa mbava - molingana, ngakhale kukhulupirira kuti izi sizolondola komanso zachiwerewere, zitha kuledzera ndi chikonga ndi zinthu zina.
Kuchita zolakwa ndikulembetsedwa ndi wapolisi wachigawo, adzakhala ndi liwongo ndikudzimvera chisoni, koma sadzasintha kalikonse m'makhalidwe ake mpaka malo omwe amakhalamo asintha.
Tiyerekeze, atasamukira ku mzinda wina ndi kukumana ndi anthu amene ali ndi zolinga zosiyana kotheratu m’moyo, iye adzayesa kuzolowera iwo, kuiwala za khalidwe lopotoka.
Ndipo nthawi zina zosiyana zimachitika, mwana yemwe amasonyeza lonjezo lalikulu, mwachitsanzo, mu masewera, amayamba kulankhulana ndi anthu omwe ali kutali kwambiri ndi iye ndipo amakonda kupeza adrenaline komanso malingaliro omveka bwino pogwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo.
Kenako amasiya kutsatira zakudya, zochita za tsiku ndi tsiku, ndipo pambuyo pake amasiya maphunziro, kuyiwala za makhalidwe ndi malamulo a khalidwe, amathera nthawi yake yonse m'mapanga osiyanasiyana ndi umunthu wokayikitsa.
Angathenso kuchita chiwawa kwa anthu opanda thandizo kapena nyama, chifukwa chakuti gulu limene iwo alimo limawasonkhezera kuchitira nkhanza anthu amene anawasankha.
Iwo sangayerekeze kukana udindo wa wankhanza ndi wankhanza, chifukwa chiopsezo kukhala kunja kwa gulu lanu ndi mantha kwambiri kuposa zotsatira za zochita zachiwawa.
Ntchito yamtsogolo imasankhidwa, kuyang'ana komwe mabwenzi ambiri adzachita. Ndipo ngati amakonda kuphunzira zilankhulo zakunja, koma ena onse amapita kukaphunzira kwa maloya, ndiye, mosakayikira, adzafunsira ku yunivesite yomwe akufuna. Ndipo adzalota ali m’gulu limodzi, kuti akhale pamodzi masiku athunthu.
Ngati makolo, pazifukwa zina, «kugwetsa» ana awo bwino malo, ndi chimodzimodzi kusuntha, kusintha sukulu, ndiye achinyamata akhoza bwino kuthawa kwawo. Potero kukonzekera kupanduka, osafuna kudutsa njira yosinthira kachiwiri.
Ntchito zamaluso
Psychology yamtunduwu ndi yakuti, kuyesera kuti asadziwike, amasintha ku malo ake omwe amakhalapo. Choncho, sakonda kusintha malo ake okhala, komanso ntchito. Kupatula apo, izi zikutanthauza kuti muyenera kuphunzira kukhala m'njira yatsopano.
Ndipo popeza kusinthako sikuli kosalala komanso kosavuta, nthawi zambiri amagwira ntchito pamalo omwewo kwa nthawi yayitali. Ngakhale sizimukomera.
Kwa oyamba kumene, monga tanenera kale, ndi osamala. Chotero akunja kaŵirikaŵiri amapeza mphotho yonse, kukhala audani poyera ngakhalenso kutsutsidwa. Ngati gawo la gulu silivomereza mnzako watsopano m'magulu ake, ndiye kuti pamenepa munthu akhoza kumumvera chisoni, chifukwa adzalandira kuchokera kwa wogwira ntchito aliyense nthawi imodzi.
Ndiwantchito wabwino, wamkulu komanso wodalirika. Iye ali wokonzekera chirichonse, bola ngati iye sanakanidwe. Koma m’malo amene kuchitapo kanthu n’kofunika, iye amalephera.
Asakhale paudindo wa utsogoleri. Chifukwa, poyesa kukondweretsa omwe ali pansi pake, adzapereka osati zofuna zake zokha, komanso zolinga za bizinesi, zomwe zidzamuwonongera ndalama.
Polephera kulimbana ndi kupsinjika maganizo panthawi yomaliza komanso kufunikira kopanga zosankha paokha, amakhala pachiwopsezo chokhala ndi vuto la neurosis, kusokonezeka kwamalingaliro, ngakhale kugwa m'maganizo.
akamaliza
Katswiri wa zamaganizo Solomon Asch adaganiza zoyeserera kale mu 1951, ndikuwunika momwe anthu amatha kuteteza malingaliro awo. Ngakhale kuti mamembala ena onse amakana. Mutha kudziwa zambiri za momwe zidachitikira komanso zomwe asayansi adapanga podina apa.
Pomaliza, tikukulimbikitsani kuti mudziwe mtundu uliwonse wa katchulidwe kamunthu, malinga ndi Lichko ndi Leonhard. Izi zidzakuthandizani kumvetsetsa nokha komanso anthu omwe mumacheza nawo.
Mwachitsanzo, muphunzira zizindikiro zodziwika bwino za umunthu wa hysteroid kuchokera m'nkhaniyi.
Dzisamalireni nokha ndikukhala osangalala!
Nkhaniyi inakonzedwa ndi katswiri wa zamaganizo, Gestalt Therapist, Zhuravina Alina