Zamkatimu
Chithunzi chodziwika kuyambira ali mwana: ngwazi pahatchi - pa mphanda pamaso pa mwala. Ukapita kumanzere, kavalo wako adzatayika; kumanja, mudzataya mutu wanu; ukaongoka, udzakhala ndi moyo, nudziiwala wekha. Wachi Russia wamakono nthawi zonse amakhala ndi zosankha zina ziwiri: khalanibe kapena bwererani. M’nthano zimenezi zimatchedwa nzeru. Koma n’chifukwa chiyani nthawi zambiri sitiona kusankha n’komwe kapena kumapangitsa kukhala kwachilendo?
Ndikhoza kunena kuti palibe cholembedwa pamwalapo. Koma anthu atatu osiyana adzayandikira ndikuwona zolemba zosiyana kwambiri, "akutero Konstantin Kharsky, wolemba buku la "Big Change". - Mawu amene tingatsatire ndi anatsindika athu «tochi» - ya makhalidwe. Mukachotsa tochi pamwalawo, imasanduka yoyera ngati chinsalu cham'bwalo la kanema. Koma mukabweretsanso kuwala kwa kuwala, mumawona zotheka "zolembedwa".
Koma momwe mungazindikire zolembedwa zina - pambuyo pake, zimakhalapo? Kupanda kutero, nthanoyo sibwenzi inachitika, ndipo ndi kusankha kosalekeza kwa ngwazi iliyonse komwe angapite ndi momwe angachitire kuti chiwembu chachikulu chagona.
Ngwazi wamba nthawi zonse zimalambalala
Konstantin Kharsky amachititsa maphunziro ndi makalasi ambuye m'mayiko osiyanasiyana, koma mu holo iliyonse komwe kuli Asilavo mmodzi: Chirasha, Chiyukireniya, Chibelarusi - atafunsidwa komwe msilikaliyo ayenera kupita, mawu amamveka akupereka zosankha zingapo. Wothandizira bizinesi adawona izi kwa nthawi yayitali. Ndizosatheka kufotokoza izi momveka bwino, koma ali ndi mtundu wazithunzi, womwe amawulula mokondwera kwa omwe atenga nawo gawo pamaphunzirowo.
Malingana ndi Baibulo ili, Mulungu, polenga dziko lapansi ndi anthu, adalakwitsa kwambiri: adagwirizanitsa kubereka ndi zosangalatsa, chifukwa chake chiwerengero cha homo sapiens chinakula mofulumira. "Panali mtundu wina wa data yayikulu, deta yayikulu yomwe iyenera kuyendetsedwa mwanjira ina," akufotokoza motero mphunzitsi wabizinesi. — Kuti alenge zinthu zina, Mulungu anagawa anthu m’mitundu. Osati zoipa, koma osati zokwanira kusiyanitsa iwo.
"Mtanda" wathu umadziwonetsera mu chirichonse: poyesera "kungofunsa" pamzere wa kuchipatala kapena pofuna kusindikiza nambala ya galimoto.
Kenako anawerengera anthu onse mtanda wake. Wina anakhala wochita chidwi, wolimbikira ntchito, wosangalala, wanzeru. Ndikukhulupirira kuti Ambuye adapita motsatira zilembo, ndipo atafika kwa Asilavo, panalibe mitanda yoyenera yotsala. Ndipo iwo ali ndi mtanda - kuyang'ana njira zogwirira ntchito.
"Mtanda" uwu umadziwonetsera m'zonse: poyesera "kungofunsa" pamzere pachipatala kapena pofuna kusindikiza nambala ya galimoto kuti palibe amene amalipitsidwa chifukwa choyimitsa magalimoto osalipidwa. M'malo ogulitsira, antchito amagwada pamene akudutsa pakhomo. Zachiyani? Zikuoneka kuti KPI yawo imawerengedwa molingana ndi ndondomeko, pomwe chiwerengero ndi chiwerengero cha ogula omwe adutsa pakhomo. Chokulirapo cha denominator, zotsatira zake zimakhala zazing'ono. Ndi kayendedwe kawo kudzera pakhomo ndi sensa, amachepetsa ntchito zawo. Ndani akanalingalira izi? Palibe wina koma Asilavo.
M'malo mwa ulemu - mphamvu
"Nthawi ina ndinapuma ku Odessa. Ndinagula bokosi la mtedza. Chosanjikiza chapamwamba chinali chabwino, chopangidwa ndi mtedza wonse, koma titangofika pansi, zogawanika zinapezeka, - akukumbukira Konstantin Kharsky. Tikukhala mu nkhondo zokhazikika, kusambitsana wina ndi mzake. Tili ndi kulimbana kosatha - ndi anansi, achibale, ogwira nawo ntchito. Ngati mutha kugulitsa zinthu zotsika - bwanji osatero? Ikangogwira ntchito - ndigulitsanso.
Tazolowera kukhala mopanda ulemu kwa wina ndi mnzake. Kuyambira ndi ana anga omwe. "Osawonera pulogalamuyi, osasewera pakompyuta, osadya ayisikilimu, osakhala mabwenzi ndi Petya." Ndife ulamuliro pa mwanayo. Koma tidzataya msanga akadzakwanitsa zaka 12-13. Ndipo ngati tinalibe nthawi yomuphunzitsa mfundo zomwe angaganizire posankha: kukhala pa piritsi yake kapena kupita kukasewera mpira kapena kuwerenga buku, vutoli, kusowa kwa njira zosankhidwa, zidzaonekera. mokwanira. Ndipo ngati sitinakhazikitse ulemu mwa iye, kusonyeza ulemu kwa iye, sangamve chilichonse mwa zokangana zathu ndipo adzayamba kumutumiza kumoto.”
Koma ngati mukuganiza za izi, njira iyi - kupotoza malamulo - sinachokere paliponse. Ku Russia, mwachitsanzo, miyezo iwiri ndi mbali ya chikhalidwe cha chikhalidwe. Ngati chiletso cha kupaka magalasi chikuyambika m’galimoto, ndiye kuti woyendetsa galimoto aliyense adzafunsa kuti: “Kodi atsogoleri a boma ndi oyandikana nawo nawonso adzasiya kuyendetsa galimoto ndi tinting?” Ndipo aliyense amamvetsetsa kuti chimodzi n'chotheka, ndipo china sichingatheke. Ngati akuluakulu akuyang'ana njira zogwirira ntchito, ndiye n'chifukwa chiyani ena sayenera kuchita chimodzimodzi? Kufufuza njira zina ndizochitika zachikhalidwe. Zimapangidwa ndi atsogoleri, ali ndi udindo pazomwe zikuchitika tsopano, zomwe zimayambira pakati pa anthu.
Mutha kuthera moyo wanu wonse ndi wina «tochi» — mtengo wotchedwa «mphamvu» — ndipo osadziwa njira zina ndi mwayi.
Sitisonyeza ulemu wina ndi mzake, timasonyeza mphamvu: pamlingo wa achibale kapena omvera. Watchman Syndrome imakhala mwa ambiri aife. Ichi ndichifukwa chake ku Russia kuyesa kuyambitsa kasamalidwe ka bizinesi sikungatheke, Konstantin Kharsky akutsimikiza. Makampani a Turquoise - abwino a theorists oyang'anira - amamangidwa pakuzindikira kwa wogwira ntchito aliyense, kumvetsetsa ntchito ndi maudindo.
"Koma funsani wabizinesi aliyense - alankhula motsutsana ndi dongosolo loterolo. Chifukwa chiyani? Funso loyamba limene munthu wabizinesi angafunse ndi lakuti: “Ndikachita chiyani kumeneko?” Kwa ambiri amalonda aku Russia, mphamvu, kasamalidwe ndizowongolera. ”
Komabe, nthawi zonse pali chisankho, sitingathe kapena sitikufuna kuchiwona. Onetsani mphamvu kapena muzichita mosiyana? Kukhala nyama yomwe imakhala mwa aliyense wa ife (ndipo iyi ndi gawo la chikhalidwe chathu, pamlingo wa ubongo wa reptilian), kapena kuphunzira kuchepetsa? Ndipo mutha kukhala ndi moyo wanu wonse ndi "thochi" imodzi - mtengo wotchedwa "mphamvu" - osadziwa zosankha zina ndi mwayi. Koma tingawazindikire bwanji ngati tisankha njira yachitukuko?
Kufunika kutsutsa ena
Mutha kuchita izi mothandizidwa ndi anthu ena. Ngati tilingalira chitsanzo cha mwala pamphambano za misewu ndi tochi ngati fanizo, ndiye kuti tikukamba za mgwirizano. Mfundo yakuti tikhoza kupeza zatsopano zosiyana ndi zathu zokha kuchokera ku tochi ina.
“Munthu aliyense ali ndi malire m’kawonedwe ka dziko, ndipo zotheka zimene amaona pom’zungulira zimakhalanso zopereŵera. Mwachitsanzo, mutu wa banja akufuna kuyambitsa bizinesi yake, - wolembayo amapereka chitsanzo. - Ali ndi mwayi: Ndigula galimoto ndipo "ndidzasokoneza" m'misewu. Mkazi amabwera nati: ndipo mumadziwa kumata bwino mapepala ndi kujambula makoma. Mwanayo amakumbukira kuti bambo ake ankasewera mpira bwino ndi iye ndi anzake, mwina padzakhala ntchito kwa iye kumeneko? Mwamuna mwiniyo sanawone zosankhazi. Kuti zimenezi zitheke, ankafunika anthu ena.
Ngati tigwiritsa ntchito fanizoli pabizinesi, ndiye kuti bwana aliyense ayenera kukhala ndi munthu pa ndodo yake yemwe amamukwiyitsa kapenanso kumukwiyitsa. Izi zikutanthauza kuti ali ndi tochi yomwe imasonyeza zinthu zosiyana kwambiri. Ndipo pambali pake, palibe amene anganene mfundo izi ndipo sadzaziwonetsa.
Tikafunika kusankha zochita pa nkhani yofunika kwambiri, timafunikadi munthu amene sangagwirizane nafe. Amafuna wina yemwe amawona zosankha zina
“Munthu ameneyu ndi wosiyana kwambiri ndi inu. Ndipo ndi izi, mutha kuwona dziko lapansi ndi maso osiyanasiyana - momwe ambiri amawonera, ndi tochi zomwe zimafanana ndi mnzako wokwiyitsa. Ndiyeno chithunzicho chimakhala chochuluka, "akupitiriza Konstantin Kharsky. "Mukakhala ndi chisankho, mumafunika wolankhulana naye, wina yemwe angakuwonetseni zina."
Tikafunika kusankha zochita pa nkhani yofunika kwambiri, timafunikadi munthu amene sangagwirizane nafe. Anzanu sangachite pano pokhapokha ngati akuganiza kuti ubwenzi ndi kusagwirizana ndi kuvomereza. Timafuna wina amene amaona zosankha zina.
"Mumasiya ntchito chifukwa cha bwana wankhanza," akutero Konstantin Kharsky. - Ndipo munthu amene sakugwirizana nawe ameneyu anganene kuti kugwira ntchito ndi bwana wotero n'kwabwino. Ndipotu, awa ndi maphunziro a tsiku ndi tsiku kuti apeze chinsinsi cha mtsogoleri wotere: ndani amadziwa kumene luso loterolo lidzakhala lothandiza. Mutha kukhala pa bwana-wankhanza ndikukhala bwana nokha. Ndipo interlocutor akuwonetsa kupanga dongosolo loyenera. Ndi zina zambiri. Ndipo tinkangofuna kusiya basi!”
Kubwereza chizolowezi
Chinthu chachiwiri chimene munthu amene wayang’anizana ndi mphanda m’njira ayenera kuchita ndicho kuvomereza mfundo yakuti zosankha zambiri zimene amasankha zimangochitika zokha, osati zochokera pa mfundo za makhalidwe abwino. Kalekale, tinapanga chisankho chathu chopambana kapena chocheperapo muzochitika zina. Kenako anabwerezanso kachiwiri, kachitatu. Ndiyeno kusankha kunakhala chizolowezi. Ndipo tsopano sizikudziwika - mkati mwathu muli munthu wamoyo kapena zizolowezi zodziwikiratu?
Zizolowezi zili ndi ntchito yofunikira - zimapulumutsa mphamvu. Ndipotu, nthawi zonse kupanga chisankho, kuyang'ana ndi kuwerengera zomwe mungasankhe, zimakhala zowononga kwambiri kwa ife, kaya ndi funso la momwe tingamangire maubwenzi kapena mtundu wa soseji wogula.
"Tikufuna kukonzanso zizolowezi zathu. Muyenera kuyang'ana nthawi ndi nthawi ngati izi kapena chizolowezicho chikadali chofunikira? Timamwa tiyi wamtundu womwewo, timayenda njira yomweyo. Kodi sitikutaya chinthu chatsopano, njira ina imene tingakumane ndi munthu wofunika kapena kukhala ndi zisangalalo zatsopano? akufunsa Konstantin Kharsky.
Kusankha mwachidwi, motengera zikhalidwe, osati pa automata kapena zosankha zowonetsedwa ndi anthu ena - izi, mwina, ziyenera kuchitidwa ndi ngwazi mu nthano yathu.