Teddy zimbalangondo, armfuls ya maluwa, mabokosi a maswiti mu mawonekedwe a mitima… Pre-tchuthi fever igwira mizinda posachedwapa. Tsikuli silimangokhalira kuwononga ndalama zosafunikira, komanso limakumbutsanso omwe ali okha: ndinu opambana pa chikondwerero cha moyo. Ndiye, mwina muyenera kusiya tchuthi chankhanza kapena kusintha miyambo yake?
Kaya timakonda kapena ayi, Tsiku la Valentine layandikira. Ngakhale kuti ena akuyembekezera ukwati ndi mphete ya diamondi, ena (ochepa koma okangalika) akuganiza zothetsa chipwirikiti chonsechi. Chabwino, ngati si kuthetsedwa, ndiye osachepera anapereka malire zaka: tidzalola holideyi kukondwerera mpaka kalasi yachinayi - pa m`badwo uno, ana kupereka «valentines» aliyense amene amakhala moyandikana. Chabwino, ngati mukufunadi, mukhoza kubwerera ku tchuthi pambuyo pa makumi asanu ndi limodzi.
Koma bwanji za ena onse? Tichita bwino popanda iye.
Mphunzitsi ndi katswiri wa zibwenzi Jay Cataldo akukumbukira kuti: “Kupatsana zovala za valentine kunali kosangalatsa ndili mwana. Koma m’kupita kwa zaka, ndinasiya kukonda holide imeneyi. Malingaliro anga, amangoyambitsa mavuto muubwenzi, m'malo mowalimbitsa. Masiku ano maanja amakangana chifukwa chosakwaniritsa zomwe ankayembekezera. Kuphatikiza apo, tsiku lomwe akuwoneka kuti amavomereza kusowa kwa chikondi m'masiku otsala a 364. Ndipo ngati mulibe aliyense, ndiye kuyang'ana maanja akuyenda ndi maluwa otumizidwa kwa anzawo amangokhumudwa. Tchuthicho chimasanduka chionetsero chachabechabe.”
Tchuthicho chimapangitsa anthu kuganiza kuti moyo wawo sufika pamlingo wofunikira wachikondi.
Dean Obeidalla, woulutsa wailesiyo akuvomereza kuti: “Sindimakonda kukakamizidwa. Malonda ndi zotsatsa m'masitolo zimalimbikitsa: ngati simukuchita nawo izi, ndiye kuti simuli wachikondi ndipo simusamala za theka lanu lina. Ndi bwino kusintha miyambo ya holideyi. Aloleni amene ali ndi mabanja apereke mphatso kwa osungulumwa kuti asadzimve kukhala opambanitsa pa tsikuli.
Kwa mwiniwake wa malo odyera, Zena Pauline, tchuthiyi ndi yosasangalatsa kawiri: sikuti iye sanakwatire, komanso alendo odyetserako lero makamaka nthawi zambiri amapeza cholakwika ndi utumiki. “Kunjaku ndi February, kunja kukuzizira, mulibe banja, simuli bwino. Mwakhala mukuyesera kusintha chinachake kwa miyezi ingapo koma osapambana. Ndipo zonsezi limodzi ndi «parade» osangalala mabanja. Tsiku la Valentine limachititsa manyazi anthu osakwatiwa. "
Zaka zitatu zapitazo, monga ziwonetsero, Pauline adayambitsa mndandanda wapadera wa "Ayi" ku Tsiku la Valentine. Zimaphatikizapo zinthu monga, mwachitsanzo, malo ogulitsa "Betty Watsoka" ndi otentha "Popanda peyala mwakufuna kwanu".
Katswiri wa zachikhalidwe cha anthu wa pa yunivesite ya Rutgers, Deborah Carr, amene amaphunzira za kugonana kwa amuna ndi akazi, akufotokoza chifukwa chake chidanicho: “Tsiku la tchuthili limapangitsa anthu kuganiza kuti moyo wawo sufika pamlingo wokhumbitsidwa wa chikondi. Ngakhale amene ali ndi okwatirana angakhumudwe ngati sanayamikiridwe mmene amafunira. Kwa anthu ambiri, ndi vuto chabe. Zimangopindulitsa malo odyera ndi opanga mapositi makhadi. ”
M'malingaliro ake, zinthu zangoipiraipira m'zaka zaposachedwa chifukwa cha kutchuka kwa malo ochezera a pa Intaneti. Tsopano aliyense akuyesera kuti achite chidwi. Palibe amene angatumize chithunzi choipa kapena mphatso yoipa kuchokera kusitolo pafupi ndi ngodya.
Zinali nkhani zofalitsa pa Facebook (bungwe lochita zinthu monyanyira loletsedwa ku Russia) lomwe linathetsa kuleza mtima kwa wojambula zithunzi Scott Manning. Zaka zingapo zapitazo, iye anali kuyesera kuti achire kuchokera ku chisudzulo ndi mtsikana, ndiyeno tchuthi linafika. Tepi yonseyo inali yodzaza ndi maluwa ndi zilengezo zapoyera za chikondi.
Tsiku la Tsiku la Valentine ndi mayeso ochulukirapo paubwenzi womwe wangoyamba kumene.
Monga nthabwala, Manning adalembetsa tsambalo ndikulitcha "Pempho Loletsa Tsiku la Valentine". Anthu amachoka kumeneko mauthenga oluma ndi zithunzi zamatsenga pamutu wa tchuthi. Wolemba amalandira ndemanga zosiyanasiyana. Ena akufuna kukonza msonkhano weniweni pamsewu. Ena akwiya kuti Manning analowerera patchuthi chodabwitsa chotere. M'malo mwake, Manning sasamala za ndemanga. Tsamba lake limatonthoza ndikusangalatsa wina, ndipo ichi ndiye chinthu chachikulu.
Komabe, anakumana ndi vuto lina. Adakumana ndi mtsikana ndipo mwangozi adapanga limodzi la masiku ake oyamba pa Tsiku la Valentine. Pozindikira izi, Manning anachita mantha. Koma kenako adakambirana zonse ndipo adaganiza kuti tsiku lomwelo linali lovuta kwambiri ngati mayeso a chibwenzi chomwe chidangoyambika. Chifukwa chake Manning adaletsa ndipo adaganiza zokhala tsikulo m'njira yoyenera: "Ndikhala kunyumba ndikuwonera makanema owopsa."