Psychology

Akafunsidwa kuti chinsinsi cha kupambana kwawo n’chiyani, anthu otchuka amakamba za kulimbikira, kulimbikira, ndi kudzipereka kodabwitsa. Koma pambali pa izi, pali zinthu zomwe zimasiyanitsa anthu opambana ndi ena onse.

Sikuti aliyense amapeza bwino m'moyo. Mutha kugwira ntchito kwa zaka zambiri popanda tsiku lopuma komanso osapeza ndalama zokwanira, kupeza ma dipuloma atatu a maphunziro apamwamba osapanga ntchito, lembani mapulani abizinesi khumi ndi awiri, koma osayambitsanso imodzi. Kodi pali kusiyana kotani pakati pa anthu opambana ndi anthu wamba?

1. Amakhulupirira kuti kuchita bwino n’kosapeweka.

Mutha kukhulupirira kuti zokonda zamwayi poyamba zinali ndi zomwe ife tokha tilibe: talente, malingaliro, kuyendetsa, luso, luso lapadera. Izi sizowona. Anthu onse opambana amapita ku chipambano kupyolera mu zolakwa ndi zotayika. Iwo sanafooke ndipo anapitiriza kuyesera. Ngati mukufuna kupeza zotsatira zabwino, choyamba, lekani kudziyerekeza nokha ndi ena. Sankhani cholinga ndikudziyesani nokha ndi kupita patsogolo kwanu.

2. Amapanga zosankha zawo.

Mutha kudikirira zaka zambiri kuti muzindikiridwe, kusankhidwa, kapena kukwezedwa pantchito. Izi sizomanga. Masiku ano, chifukwa cha intaneti ndi malo ochezera a pa Intaneti, mwayi wosonyeza luso lanu ndi losatha. Mutha kugawana nyimbo zanu popanda kuthandizidwa ndi wina aliyense, kupanga ndi kutsatsa malonda anu, ndikukopa osunga ndalama.

3. Amathandiza ena

Kupambana kwathu kumagwirizana ndi kupambana kwa ena. Oyang'anira apamwamba amathandiza omwe ali pansi kuti adziwe zambiri ndikuyambitsa ntchito zosangalatsa, ndipo zotsatira zake zimakwaniritsa zolinga zawo. Katswiri wabwino amapambana pothandiza makasitomala kuthana ndi mavuto awo, koma makampani ochita bwino kwambiri amapanga zinthu zoyenera ndikupereka chithandizo chabwino kwamakasitomala. Pothandiza ena, mumayandikira kwambiri kupambana kwanu.

4. Akudziwa kuti wopirira kwambiri amapambana.

Chodabwitsa n'chakuti, womalizayo angakhale wopambana. Izi zimachitika pamene ochita mpikisano amataya mitsempha yawo ndikuchoka, kusiya, kuperekera mfundo zawo ndikuyiwala za makhalidwe awo. Ochita nawo mpikisano angakhale anzeru, ophunzira kwambiri, olemera, koma amataya chifukwa sangathe kufika pamapeto.

Nthawi zina zimakhala zomveka kusiya malingaliro ndi ntchito, koma simungathe kudzidalira nokha. Ngati mumakhulupirira zomwe mukuchita, musataye mtima.

5. Amachita zimene ena safuna.

Anthu ochita bwino amapita kumene palibe amene akufuna kupita kukawona mwayi kumene ena amangowona zovuta. Kodi kutsogolo kuli maenje ndi ma spikes okha? Ndiye pitirirani!

6. Salumikizana, amamanga ubale weniweni.

Nthawi zina ma network ndi masewera chabe manambala. Mutha kusonkhanitsa makhadi abizinesi 500 pazochitika zosiyanasiyana ndikupanga abwenzi 5000 pamasamba ochezera, koma izi sizingakuthandizeni mwanjira iliyonse mubizinesi. Muyenera kulumikizana kwenikweni: anthu omwe mungathe kuwathandiza komanso omwe amakukhulupirirani.

Mukamachita chinthu, musamangoganizira kwambiri zomwe mumapeza pamapeto pake, koma zomwe mungapereke kwa ena. Iyi ndi njira yokhayo yomangira ubale weniweni, wamphamvu komanso wokhalitsa.

7. Amachita, osati kungolankhula ndi kukonzekera

Njira si mankhwala. Kupambana kumatheka osati mwa kukonzekera, koma mwa kuchitapo kanthu. Pangani lingaliro, pangani njira ndikumasula mankhwalawo mwachangu momwe mungathere. Kenako sonkhanitsani mayankho ndikuwongolera.

8. Amadziwa kuti utsogoleri uyenera kupezedwa.

Atsogoleri enieni amalimbikitsa, kulimbikitsa, ndi kupangitsa anthu kumva kuti ndi ofunika. Atsogoleri ndi omwe amatsatiridwa osati chifukwa choti akuyenera kutero, koma chifukwa akufuna.

9. Saona kupambana ngati chilimbikitso.

Iwo amachita zimene amakhulupirira ndipo amagwira ntchito mopitirira malire awo, osati chifukwa chakuti wina anawauza kuti adzalandira ndalama ndi kuzindikiridwa. Iwo sakudziwa momwe angachitire.


Za Wolemba: Jeff Hayden ndi wokamba nkhani wolimbikitsa.

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